At the age of 34, I have no goals, no plans, and I don t even know what I want

I graduated from game design, but at that time, I probably studied this because I loved playing games, so I thought this major was good, but after graduation, I didn't want to do game design, which was completely different from what I thought at the time, which may have something to do with the fact that I didn't study this major well at the time. After graduating, I didn't do the game and animation design industry, so I worked as an assistant to the general manager and a hotel. I have changed several houses.

I feel that I don't like it or want to have a long-term development, it's just a mess day by day. In the end, I was tired and tired. Now, when I want to find another job, I find that I don't know what to look for or what to do.

I don't know what I want to do or what I like to do, and some people say that you can start looking for your own interests and hobbies, but to no avail. It may be that you have too many interests or you don't know what your interests are. There's a lot of fun, it's ironic.

I always feel that I am really not suitable for work, suitable for my own business or other things, after all, I just do it myself, but I do it by myself, I want to do it like this, but I don't have anything. That's just a pipe dream. Maybe I'm different from others, some people think it's good to have a good job and have a family to have children.

But I don't think so, I don't want to be too bland, I want to have my own career, my parents are state civil servants, I don't want to let myself follow the path of my parents anymore, get a dead salary every month, and live a dull life. This may be the reason why I don't dare to look for it easily, because after all, time is limited, and when I don't know what I want to do, what I like to do, and even make it my goal, I don't dare to look for it blindly, because I don't know the road ahead of me. I know what I want, but I don't know what I want to do, which is paradoxical.

The only thing I know for sure in my heart is that I want my parents to live a good life in the future, and now is the material era and the real society. Money is king, if you want to be rich, you have to have the ability, and if you want to have the ability, you have the ability. There are a lot of branches.

But this is my idea, not the goal, I want to do this but I don't know how to achieve it. There is no goal in life, I don't know what I want to do, what I like to do, I don't have motivation, I don't know what to do to achieve my ideas, I just stay like this day by day, and I feel so uncomfortable. Can anyone help me and enlighten me?

Not having a goal is the scariest thing, it is recommended that you don't care too much about your age, set the goal you want, but don't be too high, take it one step at a time. When you achieve your first goal, you will have more confidence, and all the worries that follow will no longer be your worries.

Is my friend here, I'm in the same situation as you now, it's really sad, you should be better.

Zhong is hard to listen to the duty room Fei.

Now it's okay to set a goal!

The man is fine, and the woman wants it

Everyone will lose themselves at a certain stage or time, and slowly understand what they need, and the fault is **. How to correct it, it will change slowly.

Are you sure, you can't find what you're looking for, it's not that you didn't go for what you're looking for, hehe, what you're looking for, you know.

You've gone to find it.

Thinking about your own reasons.

How are you doing, aren't you likeable?

Don't be in a hurry to find it slowly.

Be confident and believe in yourself what you will find.

I bless you.

Confused. Very good. It's a symbol of growth. Think it through. No one can help you with this.

At different stages of life, you should set different goals for yourself, and you will not lose yourself if you have goals.

Life is too short to have a goal?! Your audience isn't so much Don't be so tired It's all floating cloud buddies.

The so-called confusion is not to read too many books and think too much! Young people, do what is in front of you and don't think too much.

That's why you're more confused, living in the moment, finding a purpose, and working hard.

A lot of people are like that, not just you. As long as you work hard in the new year, I believe that gold will always shine.

Stupid, no. It's possible to play dumb. Kid yourself.

I'm the same, the norm, it's that you still have thoughts, numb.

Eat a duck neck, foodies don't have to worry about eating.

Not stupid, now everyone is the same! That's life!

Don't think too much, put your mind on the table, and smile more when you have nothing to do.

It's not that I'm stupid, it's just that I didn't think of anything better.

If you have no direction and are at a loss, I suggest you go out and travel, and when you see how other people live, I believe that your inner ambition will be stimulated immediately. What to learn, listen to the opinions of the older generation, after all, people have experience, of course, the road is chosen by themselves, not by others, since they have chosen, it is really that sentence, kneeling to finish.

Actually, a lot of people are like that, and so am I. It's good to try to do one thing well, but if you can't do it, listen to your parents' arrangements.

"I want to be a fly lying on the glass, the future is bright, but I can't find any way out", I have graduated for two years and am still in a mess, the important thing is to understand who I am, to understand what I want, to have a goal. Wood has ideals, and people are like salted fish.

Then do what you like, others are others and you are you.

I used to be like that, trying to keep myself busy, and I realized how beautiful the world is.

It's muddy, like a beast.

Follow your hobbies. You can also become famous.