How to build a good relationship with your college roommate

1. Don't meddle in things. Each of us remembers private things, has our own life circle, with roommates, more to get along with them, what private matters they have, don't ask too much, if they want to tell you, you listen carefully, don't make your own remarks, you can give them appropriate advice, but don't say too much, if people don't want to tell you, don't ask about these things, let alone say bad things about them behind their backs, just manage your own affairs, don't take care of other people's affairs too much.

2. Don't say that people's hometowns are not good. After going to college, many roommates come from different places, no matter what people say about their own place, don't go, say that people's hometown is not good, maybe people don't know their hometown very well, but most people are very sheltered in their hometown, if you go to say that people's hometown is not good, maybe he has an aversion to you in his heart, everyone loves their hometown, especially when they are in a foreign country, especially when they have a sense of dependence on their hometown.

3. Appropriate dinners and group activities. Proper dinner can enhance the relationship between roommates, if people, other people often eat together, and you always refuse to eat with them then you will be excluded from the whole dormitory circle of friends, although you still live with them in the same dormitory, but they have already opened up with you in their hearts, so it is very necessary to have a proper dinner and activities with them, which can enhance your relationship and maintain your relationship.

4. Have your own ideas. In fact, there is no need to do anything, we have to be with our roommates, we have to stick together, each of us must have our own goals when we go to college, we must know what we are doing in college, and if we want to become such a person after four years, if our roommates are just to mix a graduation certificate, as long as you have free time, you are lying in the dormitory watching TV, chasing dramas, playing games, you don't need to do this with them, you can use your leisure time to participate in activities, improve your ability, and go outside to meet more people, You can also help your roommates at critical times, and also improve your abilities.

I have always felt that tolerance is a virtue, and some people are not worth dealing with because we are more qualified. But blindly forbearance will only make people think that you are cowardly. It's normal that the dormitory relationship is very delicate, but your roommate is too much, and he doesn't respect you at all.

You should talk to him and see if there is any misunderstanding. If he takes bullying you as a habit or a vent for a bad mood, you don't have to put up with him anymore, let him see how good you are. It's really a good person to be bullied.

I think you should talk to him about it, I think there is a misunderstanding between you, if you tell him, he is still like that, you don't need to pay attention to him, just do it with him, let him know that you are not a bully. Don't be scared just because you're a foreigner! A word to you:

If anyone does not offend me, I will not offend anyone, but if anyone offends me, I will offend others! You can't be afraid, this kind of thing can't be solved by being afraid!

Talk to him honestly first, ask what is the problem first, and it will be solved, there must be a reason for this.

It's not okay to be too accommodating to him, if you really care, just pick it out and talk to him!

Hello, I didn't know you went to that school in the north. After listening to your words, I sympathize with you and despise you. It is not easy for a student to study in another province.

He felt lonely in an unfamiliar environment. I despise you because you don't have the backbone of a man. I have always believed that tolerance of others is a virtue, and there are some people who are not worthy of our concern because we are of higher quality.

But too much tolerance will only make you look weak. It's normal for dorm room relationships to be delicate, but your roommate is going too far. He doesn't respect you at all.

You should talk to him and see if there is any misunderstanding. If there is a knot to unravel, if he makes bullying you a habit, or if he is in a bad mood to vent, you don't have to put up with him and let him see your **. It's really nice to be bullied.

You have to stand up for yourself. Come on, don't worry too much.

Tell yourself, I'm a man, tell him, what happens if the rabbit is in a hurry...

Hello, I don't know that you went to that school in the north, and after listening to what you said, I feel very sympathetic to you and despise you, reason; 1. Expressing sympathy is that it is not easy for a student to study in a foreign province, and it is very lonely in a strange environment. Despise you because you don't have the backbone of a man. Even if you are a student from another province, why should you be afraid of a student from this province, what is so great about him, whether he is good or rich, where are you and where are you, you are poorer than him or your adaptability is not good, I suggest that you have to take out the courage of a man to do everything, don't only make promises to please others, the more you are bullied, I am also myself to a strange environment in a province, I have never been afraid of anything local or provincial, I will be myself, a man is a man is not afraid of anything.

You have to be strong in the face of it, life always has to go through some difficulties. Friends are stronger.

The behaviors of my roommates that surprised me were the following: I didn't turn off the lights when I went to bed, I liked to get up in the middle of the night to study hard, and I listened to **, etc.

Therefore, as roommates, we must learn to communicate in a friendly and harmonious manner, respect each other, and learn to understand each other, so that it will be better, and we must pay attention to the mode of communication between each other.

1.Learn to understand others more.

When you communicate with others, it is best to learn to understand others, if the other party's personality is more sunny and cheerful, then we don't have to be too serious, and if the other party is a more serious character, then when we communicate with others, we must fully understand and respect them, to communicate carefully and carefully, if the other party is a friend who doesn't know much, it is best to maintain respect and appropriate communication on daily topics.

2.Be appropriately silent and respectful.

When we encounter problems that we don't understand, we should ask others for advice, and when communicating, we should respect others and don't talk endlessly, but learn to remain silent, let the other party express their opinions more, and when we encounter a matter that we don't understand, don't be in a hurry to express it, we should learn to listen to it seriously, and give people a modest and serious attitude.

3.Communicate more about positive topics that the other person is interested in.

When communicating with others, everyone likes to communicate their own topics of interest and like to express their knowledge to others, so we must first learn to understand and listen to others' opinions, so that the other party can feel your sincerity and feel that communicating with you is a very pleasant process, because everyone hopes that they can be understood and respected by others, and more exchanges of each other's expertise and knowledge are precisely to understand each other's pure celebration and have a common language with each other.

4.Learn to listen humbly and carefully.

When communicating with others, it is necessary to learn to listen carefully and carefully, do not interrupt others, and listen more patiently, so as to understand and respect others, and only in this way can we reflect our sincerity and modesty and courtesy, so as to gain true friendship.

5.Learn to praise others.

Praise is a kind of respect, but also a kind of recognition of the other party's performance, when communicating with others, if we can properly express praise for the opinions expressed by others, this is undoubtedly to give the other party a feeling of respect and recognition, the other party will also very much agree with our understanding and respect, at the same time the other party will also have a new understanding of us, effectively promote the happiness and smoothness of communication.

I've learned a lot from university dorm relationships:

1.Learn to get along quickly.

College dorms are like opening a blind box, and you don't know what kind of people you're going to be with. This can be seen as a training camp before you officially go out into the world. You're going to grow up with several people and learn how to get along quickly when they're immature.

2.Not reluctantly.

If you do have roommates who are difficult to get along with, don't push yourself. To put it bluntly, everyone happens to live together. It's fate to be able to get along.

But after all, there are differences between people. If they don't deal with each other, that's it. If you push yourself too hard, think about it every day, and be overly sensitive, you will become more and more uncomfortable.

Just jump out and don't take it too seriously.

3.The human heart is a bottomless pit.

This is true not only for roommates, but for anyone. You don't want to be kind to others, and others will treat you just as well. Don't try to be honest with everyone, but stick to the bottom line. Only by having the right expectations for people can we not let ourselves be disappointed by our expectations being too high.

4.Focus on the weaknesses of human nature.

Human nature has a lot of weaknesses, and everyone has some. It's not that someone is bad, but human nature is **. For example, most people will be vain, jealous, and so on.

You may have a good family, but if you spend lavishly, others will think you're showing off, even though you've lived that way before. What seems normal to you may be another in the eyes of others. It's the same as blocking Wang, and there are grades and the like, it's all the same.

Actually, this is normal. You need to pay proper attention to the feelings of the people around you so that it doesn't hurt too much.

5.Accompany more serious study, and study hard with Jane Pizai.

Learning here also includes a variety of learning outside of the classroom and major. A student who usually actively participates in various practices is also studying hard. If you have such classmates in your dormitory, study together and influence each other.

Avoid negative interactions with the dorm, such as not studying. Otherwise, only when you enter the society will you know the truth of the world, and it will be difficult for people with poor learning ability and weak ability to be competitive.

6.Try not to get involved in other people's emotional problems.

For example, if your roommate comes to you to complain about relationship problems, and you are indignant, the person breaks up. As a result, the next day, the person gets back together, and you are embarrassed. Sometimes people get along with each other, and the other person just needs emotional value.

7.Keep a sincere heart.

Of course, you must also protect yourself appropriately, so that you can get along well with others.

First of all, it must be to treat each other with sincerity, making friends and falling in love are all like this, only if you are really fast next to Lu Cheng's family will really treat you as a friend, and secondly, you must be generous in the world, and your personality should be easy-going and cheerful, such a person should be welcomed by everyone.

In college, roommates are people who will accompany us for four years, so we must treat them with the same attitude as friends.

A friend is someone who is genuinely worried about you when you are in trouble and wants to be able to help you in an effort. So, a friend doesn't necessarily help you, but he at least wants to help you. Friends are the maintenance of mutual friendship, and they need to find a common point, whether it is the place of life and study, hobbies, situations and lifestyles, etc., we must find a common point.

If you and your roommates rarely communicate, the relationship will inevitably fade, and if you want to maintain it, you will find common ground and continue to develop, and when the relationship between your college roommates reaches a certain level, they will be very good friends, and even after many years, they will keep in touch from time to time.

Good friends, hand in hand.

Here are a few tips for getting along with your college roommates.

1. Adjust your mindset. No one is perfect, we must be good at discovering each other's strengths and treating each other as a mirror, so as to get along with them better.

2. Help each other. Whether in study or life, we need to promote each other and help each other. The relationship between roommates will also grow stronger. Number of cores.

3. Respect each other. The ancients said: Those who value people will always value them.

This is not only a principle that needs to be followed in dealing with roommate relationships, but also reflects the importance of this principle when classmates interact and when they meet. Respect the values and ways of doing things for others, do not be self-centered, and do not point fingers or criticize others.

4. Be considerate of others. When there is a dispute over something, we need to empathize and know how to be tolerant and considerate. Under the same roof, there will inevitably be contradictions.

At this time, don't quarrel on impulse, so as not to hurt the roommate. Calm yourself down and think about whether it is necessary to waste time or even hurt others and yourself for the sake of this matter. Treat it with a tolerant heart, which will avoid a conflict, and also contribute to creating a good bedroom atmosphere, and also reflect your own lenient adult mind.

The sea is inclusive, and there is tolerance.

5. Treat each other with courtesy. Be courteous to your roommates, when school first starts, everyone is in a new place, and you are very sensitive to new partners and the environment, so you must be polite to friends from all over the world at this time, so that you will leave a good first impression on others.

College roommates are destined to be the ones we have to accompany each other for 4 years, so we have to handle the relationship with our roommates correctly, because in the 4 years of getting along, conflicts are inevitable, so we have to overcome these problems. First, mutual respect First of all, the dormitory is a public area that belongs to everyone, so try not to affect others by playing the volume of your mobile phone, because some people will be used to studying in the dormitory, and then some people will want to have their own quiet little world in the dormitory, so everyone should understand each other, tolerate each other, and empathize. Then don't point fingers at your roommate's behavior, because everyone has a different way of doing things, and if you don't understand, you can ask or keep silent, which can make the roommate relationship more harmonious.

Second, discuss the dormitory schedule Secondly, because everyone's living habits are different, some people are used to going to bed early and getting up early, and some people are used to staying up late, so there will be a big contradiction in this problem. Third, help each other and understand each otherFinally, everyone comes from different places, they all come to a new environment, you can't be too casual to treat this as your own home, your own hygiene should be kept clean, and then roommates should help each other in study and life, and make progress together. Then, when there is a conflict, you can't just vent your emotions, but you must be considerate of each other and solve it well.