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You are too nostalgic for the past, and it is a sad past, and there is a negative psychology, this kind of shadow is normal in every group of people after falling out of love, but it is not normal after a long time, maybe you have a deep relationship with your girlfriend, you love her very much, but you have to understand that it is in the past, You will also meet a better partner than her, it is a good way to find someone to talk to you about your thoughts, Or ask some good friends out and exchange your ideas, People will enlighten you, Do something that interests you, Force yourself to be happy, maybe the next relationship will start here? I wish you to get rid of the psychological shadow as soon as possible and be happy every day.

It's very tiring to fall in love, that's because you haven't found true love, patience? No one tells you to wait, love is something that you can't find, go for a few days, there will be a great chance to meet true love in the happy time of the day, there is a famous saying just for you: smile, even if you are sad, because you don't know who will fall in love with your smile.

Don't you have your own business? Don't you have a life of your own? Are you living for someone else?

Only by being yourself well and loving yourself well can you be worthy of love.

Maybe you've passed the period of love and are now in a difficult period of dating.

At this time, it may be that both parties should calm down first and give each other a little space.

I think it will get better after a while.

If you're in this state all the time, then you need to have a good talk.

Time can be everything.

If you want to recover quickly, come to me.

Think about when this change started in him, and if it's recent, really communicate well and see what happened that changed his attitude towards you. It's also up to you. It's usually what happened to me.

Especially when you say "nostalgia for the old days", it should be that you are experiencing some pressure now and can't bear it, so immerse yourself in the past to escape the reality.

Can you go a week without contacting?

Work hard to live].

Another reason is that you are not doing well now, this statement may not be very correct, and many people will not agree too much, but in my life, many people are like this, dissatisfied with the current life, and feel that the present is not as good as the past, so they especially miss those good days and reject the current hard days, which is human nature, but if you have been like this, you can only live a life of complaining forever, so if you think like this, so cheer yourself up as soon as possible and work hard to live, Life is not to disadvantage those who work hard.

Appropriate nostalgia is normal].

Sometimes people are too leisurely when they will have a lot of thoughts, a little free, people's brains will diverge to think a lot of things, nostalgia for the past is a very normal idea, people's life time is the past, present and future, now exists, the future is slim, fantasy meaningless, so the nostalgia for the past seems more feasible, is a normal performance, no need to be too entangled, and such nostalgia, is likely to make you cherish the present more, so as long as you are not particularly obsessed with the past, It's also a good thing to be nostalgic for youth, who hasn't been young, who hasn't been crazy, it's all a normal performance, don't be too nervous.

Know how to cherish the present].

Your present time will eventually become the past, the future will become the present, and then you will miss the current feelings and life, always repeating the mistakes of the past, you are now too obsessed with the past, on the one hand, it reflects that you do not cherish the life and people and things at the moment, people are such contradictions, we always do not know how to live in the present. So learn to cherish what you have now.

You are looking at the past from the standpoint of the present].

It is said that the most beautiful thing in the world is the past, that is because we live in the present, living in the present, we can see the past, but we can not see the future, looking at the past from the present, we can see the shining point from it, see ourselves at that time, in the present view, you are not cherishing the time at that time, too young, always do not know how to cherish the people and things around you, from the present point in time to see the past, the past bits and pieces do have a great attraction to you.

Nostalgia for the past, that is nostalgia for the beauty of the past, nostalgia for the past, that proves that you are unhappy now, unhappy, then you have to find a way to change the status quo, otherwise you are always nostalgic, then you will never be happy, you have to think, now you miss the past, the people of the past, the things of the past, are all in the past, you have to look forward. Don't always dwell on the past. Otherwise, you'll never get out.

If you really want to go back to the past, then you have to work hard now, to struggle, to work hard, only in this way can you go back to the past, otherwise you always want to go back to the past, then you will never be happy, you will never be able to go back to the past. You think for yourself.

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It's boring to always miss the past, so go get a job!

If you have a job, you have something to do, and if you have something to do, you have to persevere, so, after you have a job, you no longer have time I miss the past with a smile [Fist] [Fist] Although this world is not perfect, there is always someone guarding you Remember to add a + follow You can choose whether to continue to consult Ha If you need more help, you can click on the teacher's avatar Consult or View Now to get. than the heart].

Everyone wants to go back to the past, because of the simple and beautiful days.

It's what everyone yearns for.

Step into society. Grow up.

The more you know.

The more accounting is between people.

It's not as honest as it used to be.

However, people who often think like this.

It's because it's not very good in reality, back in the past, actually.

It's very unrealistic. But. Be.

You can make your life better now.

The old days.

It's in memory.

Become the most beautiful and beautiful memory.

Growth is inevitable, live in the moment, make yourself happier, many things, others can't help you, only yourself, can save yourself, happy, hehe.

The reason why we feel nostalgic for the mistakes of the past, especially the mistakes of our youth, is also driven by the survival instinct. In ancient societies where productivity was underdeveloped, ancestors living in limited circles had to master skills in their youthful strength, and at the same time cooperate with those around them to survive in a harsh environment.

Therefore, if a person does not find a suitable position and role in the tribal collective before he reaches adulthood, then when he reaches adulthood, it means that there is no possibility of survival, and then he is miserable in the natural law of survival of the fittest - so this ancient mindset is also deeply rooted in the genes of each of us and becomes an instinct, which has kept us alive but also made us weak.

Always nostalgic for the past, then it means that you have grown up now. I didn't have so many thoughts and worries before. There are also many playmates, who are carefree every day, say whatever they want, and don't hide anything in their hearts to be happier!

As you grow up, you will feel a lot more troubled. It's a lot of pressure, and there is no one to talk about some things in my heart. Because people grow up, they each have their own goals in life.

Each of them goes to fight for the goal. The circles are different, and the two people's vision levels are different. Over time, there was no common language.

At this time, you will feel very lonely inside. I miss the old days. But you can only think about it, after all, time is gone.

Cherish the present and live up to the present!

Changed to more gas-saving, seeing the name I think This is a person who can still consider protecting the environment and reducing emissions when driving, and people who also know how to save, and people who can also live a good life.

A large part of the reason for always being nostalgic is because the previous life was more carefree and the previous was more relaxed and beautiful. Nostalgia for the past is not necessarily bad, for example, the feeling of being good now is not as good as it used to be. So when you miss the past, you can summarize the reasons and circumstances for the happiness in the past, isn't there now?

If so, adjust it.

For example, I used to feel very happy eating simple meals, but now I don't feel the delicacies of the mountains and the sea. So what is the reason? Is there too much to eat, tired of eating?

Then be cruel to yourself and don't eat so well at every meal. If it's the person who accompanies you on the other side is wrong, there are many options here, and you can choose to change one neatly.

If you are reluctant to change, then share with him how happy you were before, and you want to enjoy happiness when you eat again, if the other party is particularly impatient and unhappy, the disagreement between the three views in the popular article has been sprinkled all over the Internet.

I miss the people of the past, and I have very deep memories of some. It would be better if it could be turned into a career. For example, always nostalgic for those previous scenes, improve your imagination, be a director, a screenwriter, and a sharer of life, which is very good news.

Many people have, looking for things to do to keep themselves busy, I used to drive a Shouqi to work at six o'clock every day, and I was very tired when I came home at ten o'clock in the evening, so I wanted to sleep and had no time to think about anything else

Because you have gone away with most of the unpleasant things in the past, and you remember relatively good memories, but it really makes you go back to the past, you are still very disgusted with those people and things, don't deceive yourself, it's useless.

Although yesterday was beautiful, after all, it has become a thing of the past, you can put the good memories in your heart, life will go on, maybe the future life will be more exciting.

You can't change the past that has happened, but you can change everything in the future that has not happened, so everything has to look forward.

You can keep it in your heart and miss it occasionally. But remember to live in the moment and look forward.

Think of it as a memory, sad or sweet, but it's an experience.

It was all good before, but there is no going back.

Don't miss it anymore, it's useless, what is past is in the past, since you regret that there are many things you didn't do in college, then you should hurry up and do what you didn't do now, so as not to wait a little longer, you have nostalgia for the current life, people can't always live in the past, you have to live in the present.

The older people get, the more nostalgic they will be, the more they will feel that the past will be beautiful, and they will want to go back to the past. We all say that memories are good, but life still has to go on, and I often miss the past, if I miss the past, you can try the following methods.

2.Think more about the good things in the present, think about the unhappy things in the past. We all like to compare, and we often compare the present with the past, but we often only compare the current bad with the good in the past, so that we want to go back to the past.

If we can look at the beauty of life now, and think of the things that were unhappy in the past, maybe we don't miss the past so much, maybe there is no harm if there is no comparison.

Although it will be beautiful in the past, but after all, it is the past, we can't turn back time, what we can do is to cherish the present time, cherish the people around us, and live every day happily.

I think it's good to have a past worthy of my nostalgia, some people used to be very good, and now they are not as good as before, so they are nostalgic for the past. Some people used to have a bad life, but every day was not fulfilling, so he was nostalgic for the past.

For us, there are good and bad in the past, we can no longer blindly nostalgia for the past, and not to look forward, to know that we are going to the future of people, so we should be full of longing for the new life and new world, fantasizing about a better future, not that the past is not important, but it is important, but it has passed, time is gone, we only seize the present and the future is the best choice.

You are particularly nostalgic for the past, but you can't go back, at this time you have to tell yourself, each of us is going to grow up, if you blindly immerse yourself in the past, we will become sentimental and unhappy, unwilling to face the present and unwilling to face the future, then it is an extremely terrible thing, we have to tell ourselves that we can't be that kind of person, you have to see the development trend of today's society, see the beauty of the world now.

You think that the past is suddenly not so important to you, we can talk about it lightly, but don't be too intoxicated, we can only grasp the present and the future, we can be the winners of this society, and we can have a more complete and better world.

You may feel that the present is not as beautiful and comfortable as before, and tell yourself that you can't go back, be brave.