Bother! I want to work hard, I want to struggle, but I don t know what to do, what can I do?

I'm also struggling with the fact that you set a goal and stick it in the place where you are often. Then do it once a day. Do it completely and responsibly.

Good attitude. It's okay to accumulate every day, and in the process of doing it, you can find that you don't plan enough or not enough. Improve while struggling.

Hehe: Same as me.

I can understand how you feel, yes so you're going to change. One cares most about what is nothing. If there is a problem, it must be solved, do you think you are okay like this?

Yes, you hate yourself like this, don't be like this, you have to change yourself. It can be changed. You can come to my space and have a look.

First of all, you have to find your own goal, slowly make a plan from a small goal, complete it and move on to the next goal, just step by step, intervene more in some successful people, learn a lot from them, and look at the speeches of celebrities.

Find what you need most at this stage and fight for it.

I'm also a very introverted person, and what you said is exactly like me, hey, I want to die

Imagine where and what you are doing in 10 years' time. Push back the clock, and if you want to do this, where do you have to be in five years? In order to reach your goal in five years, where will you be in three years?

To achieve your goal in three years, how far do you have to go in that year? What do you have to do now to reach your goal in a year???

The most terrible thing about a person is that he has no purpose......

If you think you're good at something, work on it, go your own way, and let others say it.

Introverted, not terrible, low self-esteem, helpless, every morning in the mirror, say to yourself, I can do it.

Summary. 1.Good routine.

Don't look at your phone when you wake up, because you may not be able to stop when you look at it, you won't want to get up, you may lose a lot of time, and when you wake up, stretch out, think about what you want to do for a while, and then wash up and start the day.

2.Take advantage of fragmented time. You can make good use of your free time by memorizing a word or two, or planning your day and making a list for yourself.

3.Read a book (any book is fine, but some** are not recommended). Spend more than half an hour a day reading books, it is recommended to concentrate time, do not intermittently, the effect may be better, time squeezing will be, it depends on whether you are willing or not.

4.Summarizing, reflecting, contrasting. Summarize what you did during the day, and what you should have done but didn't do, and what you didn't do, and what you didn't do, reflect on why you didn't do some things, why, and try to change them next time.

I want to work hard but I don't know how.

1.Good routine. Don't look at your phone when you wake up, because you may not be able to stop when you look at it, you won't want to get up, you may lose a lot of time, and when you wake up, stretch out, think about what you want to do for a while, and then wash up and start the day.

Twenty minutes before going to bed at night (depending on your sleep status), don't watch short ** such as Douyin, and recall the knowledge points of the day, which may deepen your memory. 2.Take advantage of fragmented time.

You can make good use of your free time by memorizing a word or two, or planning your day and making a list for yourself. 3.Read a book (any book is fine, but some** are not recommended).

Spend more than half an hour a day reading books, it is recommended to concentrate time, do not intermittently, the effect may be better, time squeezing will be, it depends on whether you are willing or not. 4.Summarizing, reflecting, contrasting.

Summarize what you did during the day, and what you should have done but didn't do, and what you didn't do, and what you didn't do, reflect on why you didn't do some things, why, and try to change them next time.

Start small, start with little things. Slowly you will see the direction of your efforts.

A few steps to get the job done:

Clause. 1. Lower your posture, humbly ask others for advice, and listen to others' opinions and suggestions.

Clause. 2. Do everything that the leader gives you, as long as it is not illegal;

Clause. 3. Try to do it in accordance with the rules and regulations of the unit, and if you can't do it according to the regulations, do it according to the precedent, if you don't have it, then think of your own plan, but you must remember to ask the leader;

Clause. Fourth, flexibly handle the relationship between human feelings and systems, take care of non-principled issues, and resolutely adhere to principled issues.

It should be almost the same as doing these things, right? The key is to do it.

What kind of job you are suitable for, which direction to develop, only according to your personal ability and quality, preferences, market demand and other factors to a comprehensive analysis, we can only give you suggestions, say the general direction, you have to consider it yourself.

What is certain is that your confusion is temporary and normal at the same time. Everyone feels more or less lost in the process of growing up. To get out of this situation, it is recommended that you set a goal for yourself, that is, planning, according to your own ability and the future needs of the market.

Then set some stage goals, the kind that can be achieved by jumping on your own. When it is achieved, set a goal that can be achieved by hard work, so that the final goal is reached step by step. The goal should not be too big, but it should be within reach, so that you will not be confused and discouraged, and in this way, you will be able to get happiness from the success of achieving your goal.

The goal can be any aspect, such as finding a job you like, or determining a skill training you need, and then setting a work-study goal, so that you can make a little progress every day, work and study steadily, and accumulate experience, so that you will definitely gain something; After that, set a new stage goal and work hard. Give it a try, instead of being confused and entangled, make something that will be beneficial to you in the future.

It's good that I've made a small investment online, do you want to do it?

Most of the reasons why you can't do well are that you are not interested, find a job that you are willing to engage in for a lifetime, do it with your heart, and you can achieve something no matter in **. Treat a thing as a career, no matter how low the starting point is, start as soon as possible, and it won't take long to see the results.

On the other hand, even if you leave your family and go outside to live an independent life, but you still go with the flow, life is still not interesting. Why is it not interesting, because your own value is not reflected. Living out your own value is everyone's lifelong pursuit, because you are useful, so it is meaningful to live!

There are many people who didn't want to go at the beginning, but they took a short time and walked for a while, and they also paid a lot of hardships and got some achievements. Who wants to give up everything in front of them and start from scratch for a dream, sometimes it's like gambling, dare to gamble, gamble or not, you have to think about yourself. But there is one thing, the sooner you decide, the sooner you can stick to it, and the sooner you finish, the sooner you can start.

Many problems have to be solved by yourself, others can only give you some advice, right or wrong, deep and shallow, you have to judge and choose by yourself.

Have you suffered any setbacks?