Why is it so difficult for college students to fall in love nowadays?

As a female college student, I believe that I have established my own outlook on life, values, and finding a boyfriend is not child's play, it is about my lifelong partner after the age of 20, my parents will eventually leave, and my children will also have their own family business, so the person who spends the longest time with you is your husband. It may not be difficult to find someone who is compatible with you, but it is not so easy to find a like-minded person. Therefore, we should make more friends and contact for a long time to really understand a person; Participate in more activities, like-minded people will enter a circle, in the same circle you are easy to find your favorite person; Enrich your spiritual world and always be ready to welcome the most important half of your life; Dare to confess, don't lose a precious relationship because of your cowardice now, it's not a shame for a girl to take the initiative.

There are two extremes, as we all know, the university is divided into majors more seriously, and some schools have many male students, such as the major polytechnic colleges, which are nicknamed monk temples, in such schools, there are more wolves and less meat, cough cough, monks more porridge and less. A scarce number of girls is a rare animal, I myself am a graduate of a polytechnic college, and I am very familiar with this, because there are many male resources, girls can choose from a wide range, whether they are dressed or not, they will be enshrined as princesses, and they are also dazzled, and they are naturally expected to have better suitors. The other is liberal arts colleges, such as medical universities, where there are basically no male students, so there is no possibility of finding a partner.

The contradiction between the increasing demand and yearning for a better life of female students in college and the unbalanced and inadequate development of men is a popular saying on the Internet, preferring to be arrogantly single rather than lowering the standard to agree. In addition, the so-called discord between the three views, you have to find something that you feel very well, and there are some things that are in order. In many cases, they do not start from their own reality, and are affected by factors such as idol dramas and social atmosphere.

The so-called true love is hard to find, people who are really good to her, she dislikes others for not having money and no ability to be good enough, and really excellent people have good requirements for her, and the expression is incomplete, probably because many people can't find it.

When I got to college, I grew up, I had a certain amount of social experience, my mind was complicated, I thought too much, my mind was polluted, I wanted to fall in love, but I didn't have the pure feelings of the past, and my love was not so pure, but I still maintained the feelings of a teenager, and I was still thinking about the innocent and beautiful emotions, and I was not very accustomed to love with impurities, but I didn't know how to throw it away, and I couldn't find it anymore.

High school is ignorant and ignorant, young boys and girls, hoping to taste the sweetness of love; Men and women of the same age have the idea of finding a partner, and think that it will not affect their studies, and think that they can go on with each other, so it will be easier to fall in love.

After studying in college, my horizons have been broadened, and there are more excellent men and women to see, and there are more opportunities to choose from, and the issues to consider are not only the appearance of the other party, but also the other party's family conditions and background and future work development, so I think more so I will make different choices when I choose, plus some boys are more attentive, and they can go to college to pursue good-looking senior sisters and sisters, and they are not as sincere as high school in love, and over time, the concept of love has also changed.

University is a dream for many people. But for me, college made me a lot less happy, probably because of myself. The university environment is very comfortable, my brother who is older than me told me that it is good to recognize my classmates in three years of college, this is true, I have been in college for more than a semester, I go to class every day, a dormitory to do a piece, men and men, women and women, no one will take the initiative to speak, unless there is something, and high school is too bad, I go to high school, half a semester has been able to get together.

Some people also say that they are all adults, they have something to contact, they don't open their mouths if they have nothing to do, many people will become scheming, when it comes to finding a partner, for so long, I only know one girl, or because there is something to find her, no one else knows, some may know the name but can't speak, and some you greet her, she will guard against you, and she will not speak for a long time. No way, adults are like that.

First of all, it's not that you can't find a boyfriend, now everyone knows that the imbalance between men and women in China is serious, as long as a girl wants to marry (not to mention not ugly), she will definitely be able to marry. It's just that now girls want to find a suitable one (with better conditions), who doesn't want to find a better one while working, and they are not too old, so they have been waiting for the next good one to appear. Nowadays, the status of women in society is getting higher and higher, and they have the ability to support themselves, if you find a person who is not as good as now, it is better to be single, so many older white-collar young women also choose to be single, and there will be more and more singles.

The university is not as closed as high school, it is a new environment that is very open, and many of the students' own nature is liberated, and various interests and hobbies and clubs are full of students. So part of the demand for love shifts to other needs.

Easy is easy, but most of them are not long-term, and many of them are graduation seasons or breakup seasons.

At present, the love of college students has become a common phenomenon. It is not an isolated phenomenon that students start falling in love in their first year of college, and some students even fall in love as soon as they step into school.

These college students, due to their shallow social experience and simple thinking, do not have a clear concept of their life goals and needs, resulting in simple, naïve and immature treatment of love issues.

In terms of mate selection criteria, the appearance is often emphasized and the inside is neglected. In the way of love, it is often important to focus on form and light on content. In love behavior, the process is often emphasized over the result; Emphasis on pleasure, light on responsibility.

This kind of immaturity in love issues, coupled with the fact that they are not financially independent during schooling, their feelings and thoughts are volatile in the process of falling in love, and they lack the ability to properly deal with emotional entanglements in love, which can easily cause periodic interruptions in love, or the choice of love partners is uncertain, and the success rate of love is very low, and less than 1% can go to the end and get married.

It's easy to fall in love in college, but it's hard to meet each other and stay together. During college, some people will have a beautiful vision of falling in love, but in fact, we should spend more time improving ourselves and making ourselves better, and only the people we meet after we are excellent will be even better.

Not easy. Universities are individual-based and loosely organized. It's not like high school when everyone has a strong sense of community. And if you don't deliberately want to get close to someone, you don't have many opportunities to contact the opposite sex.

It's really easier to fall in love in college, because I haven't been out of society, my thinking is still relatively simple, and I don't have too many magazines to deal with feelings, so I don't have to worry so much about falling in love, such as economic status, family conditions and other factors.

Then the question arises again, what kind of love do you want, or is it love.

It's easy to fall in love in college, "I'm not good at this question, it's easy for some people, but it's not easy to talk about it for other people."

I've seen many examples of relationships in college. Most of them are the first fruits of untasted love, hormonal love, of course, this is undeniable, most people have the urge to fall in love when they are hormonal. Let's not talk about money first, if you are outstanding in appearance and your personality is so likeable, then you will have a lot of suitors; If you are mediocre, it is not so easy to fall in love in college, although it is very hurtful, but looking at faces has become the standard nowadays.

Fast food love, long-term love, depending on how you treat both. In fact, it is not easy to fall in love in college, which is really hard to say. But don't listen to what others say, you can find a boyfriend in college, you can find a girlfriend in college, and you will hurt yourself if you don't care about the consequences.

In love, the most important thing is that two people like each other together, which is slowly compatible, slowly communicated, interacted, and the heart-warming feeling slowly surged up from the heart. When this kind of "person" appears, you will find that your love, or "love", does not come easily.

Relatively speaking, it is relatively easy to fall in love in college, but whether two people can go to the end depends on their own abilities.

It's true that it's easier to get the opposite sex than in society!

A person who is all young and inevitably has impulsive thoughts about the opposite sex. I don't think too much about love!

I don't think it's easy, if you're not brave enough to go out and meet someone new of the opposite sex, it should be quite difficult to find the right love partner.

Some people are easy, but some people are not, and this varies from person to person.

It's easy to fall in love, but it's not easy to fall in love.

It is equivalent to being easier in the society, and it will not involve practical problems such as garages when it is still studying.

In fact, most couples in college are brought in when they were in high school.

But it's still very easy to get to.

It would be a pity not to fall in love in college. Because college is the time you have the most time and the first time you can spend the money in your hands the most freely.

Boys will be very anxious, and after graduating from high school, they will hurry to find a partner.

SistersRelationships in college are situational, but most of them are really easy to fall in love. Let's take the example around us, we are a vocational college, and naturally it is indispensable to pack good-looking little brothers and sisters, so they are given priority to obtain the right to choose a mate, and in this part of the people, they are dressed up brightly, so the character must be good, so they are easy to fall in love.

The second part is those who look average, but have high emotional intelligence. Some of them are comparable to the boys and daughters in idol dramas, they are more gentle and jade, gentle and lovely, and they give people a very comfortable feeling, and this part of the people will also fall in love easily.

The third part is the synthesis of the first two, that is, the part of people who now have the so-called scumbags and scumbags. Because they have such advantages, there is no shortage of people around them.

In the fourth part, there is also the so-called honest and well-behaved in everyone's mouth, which is also easy to fall in love. The most sought-after category in our school is this category, and everyone wants to find it, also because they know that this kind of thoughtfulness and warmth will not hurt people.

All in all, it is easy to fall in love in college depends on your personality, if you have a lively personality, you will easily fall in love, and you will change the stereotype that many people have about you. If you don't know how to wear makeup as a girl, you must learn to wear makeup, and no one will understand your three views beyond your facial features. If you have a good character, don't blindly consider respect, and you can make some jokes when appropriate.

Finally, be sure to protect yourself during a relationship in college!

To be honest, it's not that easy. There is data that shows that there are signs of college singles in high school The rate is as high as 80%, but if you are in high school and have no love, and want to fall in love in college, the singles rate is only 30%, if you are from other provinces and there are no signs of high school, then there may be basically no singles.

So will you be worried when you see this, will you be single in this life if you don't fall in love after college, in fact, I want to say, don't worry too much, after all, you think about the graduation season and the breakup season, and then you can meet very good people when you work in the society, and now you haven't met it, maybe it's fate that hasn't arrived.

It is indeed very easy to fall in love in college, because there is a lot of time and energy, and there are many love partners to choose from, if your own conditions are not particularly bad, it is still very simple to find a love partner.

The beginning of a relationship is always easy, but the process requires you to sincerely invest in your feelings, invest in reason, and see if you can work better together to achieve a more intimate relationship, rather than a simple so-called relationship between men and women.

And whether they can really come together in the end, this is the most important thing.

I think it depends on your own wishes, and in general, if you can look at the past, it's easy to find someone.

But there are also some people who are very eager to fall in love, but they can't find what they like, and those who like themselves don't like it. So it's up to you.

It varies from person to person, and not everyone is easy.

However, compared to high school, college does not have many restrictions, and it is indeed easier to act, but the key depends on how hard the individual works, and the individual's action is the key.

It's not easy to meet the right person, but do it and cherish it.

In the long process of staying together, each of us is trying to make love come to the end in our own way.

I have worked hard, I have paid, I have compromised, and I have tolerate.

Don't forget the original intention, hope that love can be eternal.