Why do many boys marry early, but girls don t want to get married?

Because marriage is no longer a necessary choice for girls, it has become a burden for some girls. Boys marry early because their parents urge them too early to create some conditions for them to get married, and secondly, the quality of life of boys can generally be improved after marriage. However, the traditional positioning of family roles is not friendly to girls, many girls can live a life with a high happiness index before marriage, but once they get married, life pressure follows.

Of course, not all marriages are like this, but many stories from people who have come before make girls have a high fear of marriage and have no expectations.

In fact, after reaching the legal age of marriage, both men and women will begin to try to find a suitable marriage partner, in view of the different thinking of men and women, boys will generally be more active, and will bear more economic pressure in marriage, but because of this, the needs of girls are often ignored, and girls are naturally arranged to do housework after marriage, serve their in-laws, and have children. This kind of life is not what some girls want, but once they get married, it is difficult to escape from it, so they prefer not to marry.

Nowadays, the awareness of equality between men and women is getting stronger and stronger, girls can find a good job to support themselves as long as they work hard, and the development of the Internet has also made women's independent thinking stronger, and marriage is no longer an inevitable choice for girls. Boys are accustomed to inherent thinking, and their ideas are more direct, thinking that they should do things that belong to that age when they reach that age, so they will get married as soon as possible, and girls will give themselves more choices after they have independent thoughts, and marriage is just one of the alternatives.

After getting married, boys can quickly adjust themselves to normal work and life, while girls face a change of identity from girls to women to mothers after marriage, which requires girls to give up a lot of rights that belong to girls and assume more responsibilities and obligations as adult women. In this case, there are still many men who are irresponsible, and even do not understand girls, and use marriage as a weapon to kidnap girls, and girls will naturally not be easily deceived anymore, and would rather rely on their own efforts to support themselves.

Most men who marry early basically have the idea of "starting a family first and then starting a business", and deep down they hope that their other half can manage the internal affairs of the family. The vast majority of women have the ability to be independent and do not necessarily earn less than men, but they are reluctant to marry because they should take on more obligations in family life.

Because if boys want to get married early, they want to start a family first and then start a business, so that they have the heart to be busy with their careers and girls don't want to get married, because they want to play for a few more years, and marriage binds them.

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