Do you think that no one in this world loves you, you are lonely and often complain about yourself

I think you're a bit introverted. It's sinister everywhere in this society. Your thinking is wrong in the first place.

You don't love yourself and love yourself. Do you want someone to love you? It's a fantasy.

If a person wants others to love you, he must first love himself. You have to hurt yourself...

Complaining, what can it say, love is not the whole of life.

Life, a good life is to find it yourself.

Even if no one loves you now, it doesn't mean that no one will love you in the future. You try to think about why you are not loved by others, and why people love you. And can't you find your love?

It's like making money, do you just want to sit at home and do nothing, and if you don't move, you just want someone else to give you something? Thinking about that day to be rich. Is that possible?

There's nothing to complain about, what's the point of loving or not loving?

Love does not make a person immortal, and not loving does not lead a person to hell.

The key is whether you want to open it, whether you can open it, die a thousand times, and still can't think about it;

If you think about it, you will understand that just like looking at the scenery, the key is not the scenery, but the mood of looking at the scenery. The meaning of life is not in life, but in the mood of life.

Fierce life doesn't need to be explained, what's it to complain on the journey of life? Nothing! One less companion, one less worry!

If there are still people in this world who love you, you will never be alone, and if you feel lonely, then you should ask yourself if you feel the world and if you care about others.

It was like this many years ago -- except that yours is just imagination and mine is reality.

What is there to complain about? Are you born to be loved? Can't you love someone or do something you love? Will innocently complain?

The true meaning of life is not to touch the good cards, but to play the bad cards well.

Whether you are lonely or not, whether there is someone to love is up to you.

Life is given by parents, but the meaning of life is given by oneself.

When everyone is weak, everyone has a lonely time, when you are lonely, think more about happy things, and when you think of it, you can call ** to tell your friends and family, or write it online to share with everyone, so that you will feel much happier.

Seeing your question reminds me of myself two years ago. At that time, I had just ended a sad unrequited love, and every time I woke up crying at night, and fell asleep with tears in my eyes, I often felt that I might be lonely like this for a lifetime

It wasn't until last year that I met my own and realized that my fate had been waiting for me all along.

Remember, fate is about meeting the right person at the right time. Two conditions are indispensable!

Recently, my son is going to get married, the woman proposed to buy a house, and my husband and I are working part-time, getting some dead wages, plus the house I just bought in 2015, it is really too stressful, so what should I do, I also complained about my son, I can't find a person who doesn't want to buy a house, or ask the woman to take the money out, complain and complain, what's the use, my son's girlfriend's opinion is not to buy a house and not get married, my idea is not to delay my son's marriage for a house, so find a way, It's really a matter of people, success is in the sky, and finally bought it, from this one thing, let me understand that I can't complain when I encounter something, I have to find a way, and I will always succeed.

Instead of complaining, improve your ability to change your quality of life. Don't complain because you can't look at anything. Things are done successfully, and complaining doesn't solve anything.

In addition, people who complain all day long will not have too good interpersonal relationships, negative energy all day long, and will not be too popular with the people around them.

Complaining is a sentiment with a lot of negative effects, as we all know.

However, it can also be a way to vent.

It doesn't matter if you complain, the important thing is that after complaining, after venting, we have to correct our mentality and continue to do everything we do.

If something is really unfair, then there is no use complaining, instead of complaining, it is better to use the existing conditions to try to change!

Life is not a smooth road, fall, get up, and continue to move forward; Tears can win sympathy, but they can make you vulnerable. In life, we may not be able to make everyone happy, and we may not be able to make everything perfect; However, we should have reasons to satisfy ourselves and make ourselves happy; The simpler and happier people are, the more complex and painful they are, and they should know how to appreciate themselves instead of struggling to win the joy of others.

If we can't change others, then change ourselves. The Tao is different, and they do not conspire with each other. Some people, discordant personalities; There are some things that disagree.

But you still have to do it yourself, and you have to work together, this is the reality; When you can't change, you might as well learn to adapt first, maybe the opportunities that belong to you will come to you inadvertently.

Sometimes, I tried my best, but I couldn't get what I wanted, and in the blink of an eye, it disappeared, making people cry and laugh; Sometimes, when you do your best, others turn a blind eye, which makes people feel bitter. It should belong to you, but things are wrong, which makes people want to cry without tears. Life is like this, there is no need to explain too much, and if you say it, you are also pale and powerless, try to be yourself, and throw resentment out of the clouds.

Yes. I especially agree.

In the company, some people always complain about others, but in fact, it is really useless, just do your best.

Second, take care of your own affairs first, and then talk about others.

Hello, people will encounter a lot of difficulties and setbacks in their lives, it will not be smooth sailing, and complaining will not solve the problem, but also work hard to get a better life.

Since life is like this, why complain, as long as you live a meaningful life.

Have a great day!

So, look at the opening point. As long as you work hard, you will be rewarded.

It's useless to complain, learn to understand and respect. Be yourself, have a clear conscience, and as for what happens to others, that's someone else's freedom.

Don't complain, because it's useless! It's really useless! Complaining will not solve the problem, complaining is the patent of the weak! To complain is to just say but not do!

Yes, the person who complains feels that others are sorry for him, and he doesn't think about it if he does it well enough.

Yes, no matter who you are, the world will rotate and revolve as usual without you. So, everyone should not take themselves too seriously.

People who like to complain usually ask too much from the outside world, and when they can't get it, they will be resentful.

Mindset determines action. That kind of person had better reflect on himself in order to adjust his mentality.

In fact, I don't think you should care too much about it, add troubles to yourself for no reason, as long as you do what you should do, give full play to your value, and live the world in vain!

Yes, complaining is to solve any problems, if you want to change, only through your own efforts, only by yourself to find a way to solve it, this world is the same for everyone who leaves.

People who complain about others can never see their own shortcomings, they are never wrong, and their mistakes are someone else's, so people stay away.

That can only show that your heart is full of complaints, your heart is like this, and everyone is like this, and I don't think the old people around me are always complaining, but always feel that they are very kind. If all you hear is complaining, it can only mean that there is something wrong with your mentality, or that you are in a special circle, and the elderly love to complain.

The old people have reached their twilight years, and it is difficult for them to change their dissatisfaction with life, because they have no conditions, so they do not complain and have no other way to express themselves. If you complain to someone at the first point, you may meet a kind person to help them solve the problem.

Complaining is also a way to brush the sense of existence, otherwise how to brush the sense of existence? Could it be that he is very satisfied with everything now, and everything is good, then after you hear it, it is just the left ear in and the right ear out of the right ear without taking it to heart at all, how to brush this wave of existence?

Complaining can also be a way for the elderly to communicate, because they want you to solve their grievances after confiding in you, so that it is a real communication. If you don't complain, it's easy to get caught up in a self-introduction chat where you don't feel bored.

Crying children have milk to eat, and most of the elderly who complain are too lonely, in this way to get your attention and want to get your company. After all, the old man generally does not complain to strangers, he is willing to tell you, indicating that you must have a different status, if you can, please pay more attention to the old man who complains to you.

In any case, the content of the old man's expression depends largely on the person communicating with him in front of him, if the first thing you hear is complaining, then you definitely have a problem with yourself, please reflect on it.

It is normal for old people to complain about it, because they have experienced too many things since they were children, so they will feel that this society is full of reality and pain. When you get old, you will find that in fact, the first thing you say every time you open your mouth is also a complaint, because after living in this world for a long time, you will find that the reality of society has made you fed up with this world.

Now too many old people have become lonely old people, and there are too many old people, they have become empty nesters, whether they are complaining about this society, or about their relatives and families, it is normal, because they are isolated spiritually, and their hearts are painful. As a child or a child, you must know how to be filial, let the elders live a good life, and live a life that no one regrets, so that their complaints will naturally be less.

I know that you don't like to hear the old man's complaints, because it's really a bit annoying, and that's how I came over, my family has a large population, so there are many opinions, so there are often complaints and unhappy voices. I also don't like you to complain so often, because life is very short, and complaining is very hurtful, and we all want our family to be healthy and safe, but you often complain, and we can't say anything as juniors.

The first thing the old people often say is to complain, which is caused by their inner isolation, so we should accompany the elderly more, and don't go home all the year round, so that they will bury a lot of words in their hearts, and after a long time, it will become complaints and dissatisfaction. If you're going to study, then it's nothing, but if you're going to work, then you should always go home and see, family affection is more important than anything else, don't regret it after you lose it. Be a filial child and reduce the complaints of the elderly!

In fact, we should reflect on whether we have too little time to spend with the elderly?

When a person grows old, time changes not only his appearance, but more importantly, his personality. He will become more sensitive. And it's this sensitivity that makes us think, why is he always complaining?

Why is he always vexatious? When did he become so unreasonable?

There is a saying that is very true, the old man is actually a child in another sense.

When they are old, they are slowly unable to do anything, they have no job of their own, they cannot support themselves, and at this time their lives depend on only their own children.

When a person has to rely on others to survive, it is very uncomfortable because of insecurity. Therefore, he will use various channels and methods to draw a sense of security from the people around him.

However, there is no way for the children to be with them all the time, they have to go to work, they have their own families, they always do not have time to sit quietly and listen to what the elderly are thinking, and gradually, there is less and less communication.

The old man will start to wonder, am I a burden to anyone? Do you have any opinions about me, but you haven't said it? I'm not ** doing something that is dissatisfying......

My grandmother also complains to me a lot, but she can only complain to me. Living in my house, can she tell my mom if anything goes wrong? Although it is a relative, after all, it is under the fence.

One of the things she said to me most often was, "If I were in my hometown, I could do whatever I wanted, without looking at other people's faces." ”

Can she really be left alone? When you're older, it's not like before, how can you not worry.

So, when the old man complains, you listen. They often don't need you to give him advice or do anything for him, they just want someone to talk to.

I think the reason why the old people complained in the first place was that the old people had experienced too many things, and they were not very satisfied with the real life, so the words that filled our ears were always complaining.

There is also the generation of parents before us, most of them do not have too high education, and the living conditions are not very good, so to speak, part of their life is suffering, and when they are a little older, the living conditions are a little better, but they are not in the most brilliant part of their life, so they have experienced too much suffering in the first half of their life, so they are often not very satisfied with real life, and when a person is not satisfied with life, they will complain.

There are also some old people's nagging that is not actually complaining, but often contains concern for us. For example, the old people will nag us and say that we are not right in this or that, it seems that they are complaining about us but the old people want us to be better, we may often feel that they are very nagging and will be tired of them, but if we think carefully about the meaning of their words, we will understand their concern.

It is true that the elderly often complain, but I hope that everyone will not get tired of them and learn to tolerate them, because most of them have gone through a lot of difficult days before they gradually become dissatisfied with reality.