How to politely refuse a programmer s confession?

I think it's better to refuse directly, the so-called "euphemism" must be grasped, such as "you are a good person", "I just help you as my brother", "I don't think I deserve you" ......This kind of words may seem euphemistic, but when you say it, it will actually make the other party feel that he can continue to pursue you, even if he understands that you are refusing, but he will feel that your current rejection can move you through his own continuous efforts. This involves whether you really want to reject him completely, or do you have a crush on him, but you really don't want to fall in love for a while.

In the face of men's overtures, many women can actually feel the other party's careful thoughts, but they just pretend not to catch the other party's point, thinking that they can hide the past by pretending to be confused, but this kind of pretending to be confused will create an illusion for the man, so that he mistakenly thinks that you have a good impression of him, but he doesn't want to develop so fast, so you are in the ambiguous stage. So he will try to be nice to you, so that you can feel his sincerity, and the relationship between you may become more and more complicated, and when he is more committed, your rejection will cause him more damage, so it is better to say it directly.

It's better to be blunt, now there are many people who euphemistically state that they don't want to fall in love in the near future, and some women like to respond to men's pursuits with "I don't want to fall in love for a while", but many men will stubbornly think that you just don't want to fall in love for the time being, not that you don't want to fall in love with him. A man will not think that this is a way to refuse tactfully, it's just that the time has not come, so he will try to move you and open your heart.

In the face of the overtures of a man you don't like, you still directly refuse. Direct rejection will break the man's assumptions about you, what you think will hurt his self-esteem, on the contrary, the man appreciates this kind of direct woman, and does not like to drag the mud and water, he does not necessarily have to like you.

If you really don't like him and are convinced that you won't like him now or in the future, then the rejection must be direct, and after the rejection, please keep your distance.

Women in the face of a man they don't like but don't want to lose this friend, sometimes say that the rejection is too vague, because they don't want the other party to lose face, but often men still have a lot of illusions in their hearts, and always feel that you want to reject him a little, so it is better to refuse directly.

I'm inclined to think that if your euphemistic refusal isn't valid, it's because you're not direct enough. You should be a little more direct. Straight until he understands what you mean.

If you have to say how to refuse tactfully so that the other party can understand and understand you, I think it would be good to say it sincerely and generously. Perhaps what seems to be a direct way is actually the most straightforward and tactful way.