Will brother and sister be together when they die together?

If the brother and sister die together, there is still no way to be together! There are many worldly people who have no way to break through, and people have already passed away, what else can they pursue?

When two brothers and sisters die together, they can be together with the ashes, but nothing else can be together, and when a person dies, there is nothing.

The brother and sister died together, and they had a good relationship when they were alive! After death, it may still be a brother and sister, it may be a dragon and phoenix fetus, and then continue the front edge! It could also be a pair of lovers, together with morning and twilight!

Didn't others say that the brothers and sisters in this life are lovers in the previous life, and the lovers in this life are the brothers and sisters in the previous life! I don't care if others believe it or not, I believe it, I believe in reincarnation, I believe that people have souls after death, I also believe in ghosts, and I also believe that good and evil will be rewarded in the end. In any case, those who wish to go will have a good time in the next life!

This is related to the cause and effect of the two of them, depending on the situation of these two people, not all brothers and sisters are the same. But there are very few people who can see this situation clearly, and many people can't see it but say it in passing, so don't be misled. If you are lucky enough to meet this kind of master, you can point out the cause and effect before and after death, which is great luck, and if you can't meet it, you can go with the flow and don't have to be entangled.

I hope that if there is fate, we will be together, but this thing is not necessarily, so cherish the days together in this life.

No one knows what happens after a person dies. for the dead have not been raised.

Who knows if you go after you die, there should be no basis for this.

If the brother and sister go together, they should also travel to another world, but they will not be together.

If the brother and sister die together, will they be together? Under normal circumstances, I personally think we should be able to be together.

The brother and sister died together, and they won't be together.

It's hard to say.

This situation should still be very common, after the death of parents, siblings will come and go less and less, and gradually become estranged from each other, although each family has its own reasons, usually the following points.

First of all, when the parents are there, the home is not separated. When the parents are gone, the family is scattered. When the parents are still alive, although the brothers and sisters have already married and each has their own small family, the "everyone" who belongs to the parents is still there, and the children will often go home to see, and the brothers and sisters have close contacts, which is conducive to emotional contact.

But once the parents are gone, then "everyone" will no longer exist, and everyone will be busy fighting for their own small family. If there is less contact, the relationship will fade, and slowly I will not pay attention to this family affection, and devote more time to my family.

Secondly, parents will be suspicious of the thoughts of the elderly. Why? In fact, the relationship between some siblings is not really good, which is caused by many reasons, such as the partiality of parents.

But because both parents are still alive, even if there is psychological displeasure between siblings, they will not show it. But once the parents are gone, they don't have to worry so much anymore. Especially brothers and sisters who have had entanglements and problems before, it is easy to explode because of small things, and in the end they don't get along.

In the end, they are busy with each other's lives, and there is less contact. When the parents are still alive, even if they are busy, they will take the time to go home and have a look. But my parents are gone, but life goes on.

Most of the children of people at this age have already started a family, and they have also hugged their grandchildren. There are children to take care of at home, and they are older, and their bodies are not as tough as before, so naturally there are fewer brothers and sisters. In addition, many people now marry away from home, or move to the city to live, although they have a car, but it is inconvenient after all.

It's not important things, such as red and white ceremonies, it's hard to get together again. But when they got together, there was no common topic, and they couldn't talk together. It is also because of these reasons that the feelings slowly fade.

Therefore, the parents are here, and there is still a way for Zen filial piety to come in life; When your parents go, there is only one way back in life. However, this is not the case, some families are still very harmonious when their parents die. And such families have a common characteristic, that is, when the parents are gone, there is still someone in the family who plays the role of "backbone", and he (she) will bring the brothers and sisters together.

For families with many children, siblings are close and frequent when their parents are alive. But when a parent dies, some siblings become estranged. There are many reasons for this phenomenon, the main reasons including the fact that parents are the link between children, the possible conflict between siblings in order to divide the inheritance after the death of their parents, and the inevitable reduction of contact between siblings when they grow up to work and live.

1. Parents are the link between their children. When a parent dies and the bond is broken, the relationship between siblings fades.

For siblings, parents are the bond of affection for each other. With parents present, this bond will bond siblings firmly together and become close to each other. ......But when the parents die, the bond between the siblings is broken, so the relationship between the siblings will gradually fade, and the relationship will become more and more estranged.

2. After the death of the parents, the inheritance needs to be distributed, and there may be conflicts between siblings.

After the death of a parent, a real problem will be placed in front of the siblings, and this problem is the distribution of the inheritance......For siblings in some families, there will be conflicts due to the distribution of inheritance, which will affect the relationship between each other, which will lead to the gradual estrangement of the relationship between siblings.

3. When brothers and sisters grow up, they will have less contact with each other, and their feelings will become weaker.

It is impossible for a child to live with his parents for the rest of his life. When children grow up, they must be independent and have their own life. ......Therefore, for siblings in multi-child families, when they grow up, they will be separated from each other because of work and life, and they rarely see each other.

Such a situation can lead to a decrease in contact between siblings. This becomes even more pronounced after the death of a parent, which in turn leads to a more estranged relationship between the siblings.

In many families, siblings are very harmonious when their parents are alive, and they will come and walk around during the New Year's holidays, and they will often keep in touch. But when the parents leave, this may be a different story.

Some siblings become less intimate and more distant.

Why is this happening? The reason behind it is too realistic and a little sad.

1. Parents are cohesive in their feelings, and when they are with their parents, their brothers and sisters have to come back to visit their parents, so they will always get together, and there will be exchanges when they meet.

If the parents leave, the connection can be alienated as a result. When the parents are there, the home is there, and when the parents are not there, the home will be scattered, which is very realistic.

2. Yanqiao does not rule out that some families hide some contradictions, and they can help mediate when their parents are alive, but when the parents pass away one day, conflicts will break out, such as when it comes to the distribution of family property, children are prone to disagreements.

And some parents are eccentric when they are young, although they are not put out on the surface, but the unfavored children will always have pimples in their hearts, and when their parents die, the relationship between relatives is also cold, and some even die of old age and do not get along.

3. The parents are no longer alive, the children are also married, and some have grandchildren, because they have to take care of their own small families, many of them will live with their children, so it is not easy for everyone to get together.

4. Due to geographical reasons, brothers and sisters are distributed in different places, although the traffic has become convenient now, but the age has also become older, many people have inconvenient legs and feet, and it is not easy to go out of a long way.

Like these reasons are very realistic, people pay the most attention to family affection, but the parents are no longer alive, and family affection often can't withstand reality.

Over the years, when I visited relatives during the Chinese New Year, I discovered a phenomenon: that is, many siblings of the same mother, as long as one of the parents is alive, regardless of the private relationship, everyone still maintains superficial contacts. But as long as the parents are gone, the brothers and sisters will slowly cut off contact, which is embarrassing.

Why do many families stop siblings after their parents pass away? The reality is brutal.

Parents are here, and the hearts of brothers and sisters have a belonging, even if they live in all corners of the world, they have a destination for the New Year's holidays.

Parents are here, there is still a place to come in life, parents go, and there is only a way back in life. "For all people, as long as our parents are still there, our hearts still have a direction and belonging. It doesn't matter what new identities and roles siblings have as they develop in their respective circumstances and developments.

But unity has an identity, that is, the children of parents. The love and bond between parents and children is eternal and deep, as long as there are no unsolvable knots and grudges between children and parents. So no matter what entanglements and grievances there are with other brothers and sisters, then the kindness to parents in my heart cannot be let go.

So I should go to my parents' house every New Year's holiday, just to chat and chat with my parents. And parents are the root of their children's hearts and spiritual pillars. As long as the parents are still there, the brothers and sisters have a hope in their hearts and have motivation, so in the days of reunion, in the days important to the parents, even if the children settle in all corners of the world, they will return to their hometowns to return to their parents despite all difficulties, and the parents are also happy.

But once the parents are gone, the backbone of the entire Shenchang branch court has disappeared, the children have lost the hope in their hearts, and there is no place worth nostalgia for their hometown and hometown. The focus of Xunsong's children's lives is on their own small family and their own life circle, and the common contact between brothers and sisters is becoming less and less, coupled with their older and older age, the juniors begin to string relatives, and the connection between brothers and sisters is getting weaker and weaker.

When the parents are there, some conflicts between siblings can also be hidden and adjusted, and once the parents are no longer there, the contradictions between siblings will erupt.

For families with many children, there is no barrier between siblings, and all love each other, which is a blessing for parents and a success for parents. But such families are in the minority after all.

Most families with many children have disagreements between their children and their parents because of their parents' education, partiality, etc. But when the parents are still there, the parents will mediate and maintain the feelings of their children, and the children will not care too much about the face of their parents, and at the same time, in order not to make each other too ugly, they will also endure it, and the scene should be handled how to do it, and everyone can maintain the peace on the surface.

But once the parents are gone, the person who speaks in the middle is gone. There is a lack of a bridge of communication between brothers and sisters, and there is no need for everyone to compromise, and there is no need to look at You Min's face, many contradictions will explode directly, once brothers and sisters start to quarrel, the consequences will be more ruthless than strangers.

The traditional belief is that siblings are the closest people to each other besides their parents, and they will tolerate each other's little problems like parents, and help each other when they are in trouble. However, the reality is crueler than the concept, and many siblings have stopped interacting after the death of their parents.

There are many reasons for reluctance, but they can be boiled down to the following.

First, there is no real affection between siblings.

The most common phrase we hear in Chinese multi-sister families is "You are the boss, you let her." Therefore, their requirements for children are usually obedient and sensible, but children are human beings and not objects, so it is impossible to be obedient when they say they are obedient.

Every time there is a conflict between children, in order to quell the war as soon as possible, parents will use their power to suppress their children, regardless of who is right and who is wrong. Over time, children will lose the channel to really intervene in each other's hearts, and no matter what happens, they must abide by the rules of order for the elderly.

Therefore, there are only rules between many siblings, and they do not feel the friendship of each other's company and living together, and the other party is just a stranger to them with common parents. Once the nexus of parenthood disappears, the sibling rules imposed by parents will naturally collapse.

The Little Prince has a beautiful rose, which he takes care of every day. When he came to earth and saw thousands of roses, it was hard for him to be sad, but for some reason, he still couldn't let go of his rose. Until one day the fox said to him:

It is because you have put in the time and effort for your roses that you have made your roses beautiful. ”

The relationship between anyone is the same, only if you have really accompanied yourself with sincerity and time, the other party's position in your heart will be different, and you will not give up the relationship first when you weigh it. Therefore, the feelings between people are actually the sum of each other's giving, experience and communication.

Many people always take it for granted that blood is thicker than water, and this theory is actually far from the essence of human nature. Even if there is a blood relationship, the relationship that has not been torn in human nature is actually no different from passers-by A, B and C, not to mention that there are still strict rules between some brothers and sisters, who will contact the leader who has no interests after leaving the job.

Second, the individual gap is too large.

Even if it is the same mother, there are disparities between different children. This gap will increase with age, and will be reflected in various aspects such as values, lifestyles, and class levels. If there is no deep emotional foundation, they are destined to drift apart from each other because of the different environments they are in.

If there is no emotional basis and no value of exchange between each other, separation is almost inevitable. Therefore, if you value your siblings very much, and they are all very good, then you should also try to stay close to the team in order to maintain this friendship.