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When I first met you, I felt like a little girl wrapping herself in a cocoon. And I am hopelessly fond of you, believing that I can make you break out of the cocoon and become a beautiful butterfly. I'm working hard, you're working hard, and we've spent a lot of time together.
As time passed, the understanding between us deepened, but I felt like I was getting lost. Sometimes when I look at you sitting across from me, talking excitedly, I wonder if your emotions are imprisoned in your fantasies, in your books; Whether those feelings are more real and reliable to you. You often tell me what your ideal person would be like, even though you never met it.
You are like a little girl who hides in a high attic and watches the world, thinking that the world is under your control, but you can't really appreciate love and hate.
You can keep saying:"There is still a gap between you and my ideal person, I need time to adapt, and I still don't feel the most comfortable with you; And two people need to be more comfortable with each other than with one, otherwise they would rather live alone. "I know what you're talking about and appreciate your candor and I'm always trying to make you happy.
But over the past few months, I have come to understand that you have been hiding in your comfortable attic, and that all outside interference is an intrusion and an uncomfortable feeling for you. If you have been drunk, you will know that the wine is strong, and if you have loved, you will know that it is important. If you're going to be with another person, you first need to open your window and get out of your attic.
The spring breeze outside will blow on your face, but the autumn rain will also fall on the ends of your hair. Love is not always comfortable, just like our relationship, there are sweet moments, and there are fierce quarrels.
I'm telling you this, not that I want to give up, but I want to tell you that feelings can't be done by one person alone. I thought, maybe it's time to slow down and distance yourself. I want you to look at me from another angle, from afar.
I also want you to know that when you decide to step out of your attic, my hand will be outside, waiting for you to hold it.
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If you can't keep it, divide it! Why bother to wear yourself out.
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If you fall in love with someone and have a relationship, and then you are together, but after being together, you feel that you are very tired of getting along, and you want to break up at this time, I think you are irresponsible, first of all, it may be that you get along in the wrong way, you put too much pressure on each other, resulting in very tired, or your expectations of feeling relieved are too high, and you will feel very tired, so you have to figure out the reasons for these problems before deciding. Obezoa.
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I think if two people have been feeling tired and quietly losing together, the first thing to do is to figure out what the reason is, if it is really slippery and there is no way to solve it, then it is better to choose to break up, because in the long run, your relationship will become worse and worse.
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Yes. If it is a feeling of being tired, there may be a problem of poor communication, and if you are tired from life and work, you can relax at home, and now it makes no sense for the two of you to feel tired together, and it is time to consider breaking up.
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Yes. When two people are together, they must first be happy. If it is very tiring to get along, it will only make the two people have more and more contradictions, and finally quarrel.
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Of course, they won't be separated, because if you're tired, you can feel happy. It shows that you have put your heart into this relationship. Then in the future, it will be the day when you get the slippery orange to come to the rock, and you will be very happy.
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will choose to break up, two people feel tired together, there is no love at this time, and the other party may not be suitable for themselves.
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I definitely won't choose to break up, because I feel that this is very normal, because every person who travels with the morning will always experience a lot of arguments, so I will keep an eye on it.
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If two people are very tired together, then I feel that in the long run, I will choose to break up, but before breaking up, I will also talk to each other about my thoughts.
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If two people feel tired together, get along very painfully, and don't see any hope for the future, then I will choose to break up.
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The two of them are uncomfortable and inappropriate to be together, so they choose to break up, this is a matter of Yichang Xun's life, and now they feel tired and talk about it even more coincidentally, so I will choose to break up.
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If two people feel very tired together, it means that your relationship has become a burden, and it will not be happy if you continue to date, so it is better to break up.
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Two people feel very tired together, and the round jujube shows that the relationship between the cavity codes may not be as good as before, or that the two finches have encountered some difficulties, so they must face it bravely, don't run away, I won't break up.
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Hello, if two people are tired together, then it means that you don't love each other enough to understand each other, and I will choose to break up.
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Two people are together to live a better life, but if you feel tired, you can find the original cause of the blindness and solve it together. Splitting the grind is not the only way to solve the problem.
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I would choose to break up because two people are very unhappy together and will choose to break up when they are not married.
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I will, because two people feel very tired together, and there is no way to become a better version of themselves, and there is no need to insist on such a relationship.
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If you are particularly tired. I will definitely take the initiative to break up, because the personalities of the two people are not suitable, and this is also a waste of each other's time.
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