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Actually, I want to know how old you are. I guess you're not that old. As you realize for yourself, your love is just a kind of dependence.
I've had a similar experience, and after the breakup, I felt so reluctant and wanted to keep the other person, right? In fact, compared with every such experience you have, it may not be difficult to find that you are actually unwilling to let go of yourself. There is a psychological hint in my heart, maybe I want to prove that I really love, or I want to prove that I am not the kind of mentality that is just playing, so I will refuse to let go.
These are my words of experience, maybe it can give you some inspiration to rethink your past love experience, maybe you can suddenly open up and understand your own mind.
Sometimes you really love someone, you really understand him, even if he has a handsome appearance, he can be very humorous and cheerful in front of everyone, but you can still see the softest and most painful place in his heart from his appearance, and you are the one who needs to use his own strength to give him warmth when he needs you the most. So love may not need to be gorgeous, but the most timely and considerate care. In other words, love can be a pity or a complement, that is, it has the qualities you cherish the most.
These are things that won't be diluted by time or appearances, right?
True love is hard to find. So it's best to let things go naturally. Of course, it will take your efforts to maintain a relationship if necessary.
He loves you, and will really understand you as much as you love him, really understand you, worry about you, share for you, encourage, and accompany. I believe that as a girl, whether the other party's love is sincere or not, you can experience it with your heart.
As for how to deal with it, it's still the same sentence, let it be. Don't fall in love casually for the sake of vanity or face, or because of emptiness, the result will only be unhappy!
I hope to give you some lessons to think about when you decide whether to love or not, do you really love him? And he, is he the one who can really love you? It is difficult for a young heart to carry heavy love, so be cautious!
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The feeling of being a brother is called family.
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Some people say that this is love, and I think it's right!
Someone once said that love is made from - love - affection - family affection - to kindness to prove that you love someone, but of course time is a lifetime
Whoever can do it, then you let go of everything, be brave to love, do your best, and achieve perfect love, and I think that's love, what about you?
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I think so. If you don't feel for him, how can you rely on him and get used to him.
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If you want to get married, consider him.
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How to say it, I think the final result of two people's love together is family affection....It depends on how you look at it.
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Once you decide to enter into marriage with another person, it means that you have to live with each other for the rest of your life, and two people have been together for so long, why not choose one that satisfies you? So we have to avoid being with someone we don't like, and also avoid being with someone who doesn't like us.
Love is the foundation of marriage, try to marry someone who loves each other. Although we have no way to guarantee that in the future life, this relationship will not become, and it will be able to withstand the wear and tear of time, but if we have a good emotional foundation with each other, it will make us more tolerant of each other when facing complex trivial matters after marriage, and we will feel that with each other, even if life is not easy, it will not be so difficult, so that each other will go together for a longer time.
Don't be with someone who hasn't come out of the previous relationship yet, it's irresponsible for both of them. Maybe the other party just has gratitude and gratitude to you, but this feeling is not love, don't let this feeling be mistaken for love. After all, life-saving straw is only useful at the moment of need, and it is not needed after being rescued.
Touching is only temporary, feelings are lifelong.
Touching without an emotional foundation is not love.
Love is also unfair, don't think that you are good enough, you are good enough personally, so you will definitely win the other person's heart. Love is mutually attractable, it will not make the other person attractive to you just because you are good to the other person, if you don't love, you don't love, no matter how good you are in front of someone who doesn't love you, it doesn't mean anything to him.
Marriage is serious, it must be well thought out, and don't let yourself regret it because of the impulse. A person's life itself is a difficult practice, and feelings are not a necessity, we must gain and lose, after all, we can never have both.
So be yourself, don't lose yourself, don't lower your self-standards, love yourself first, and then someone will love us.
I also hope that people who love each other can be together in the end and have a good outcome.
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Get to know each other.
Love is the sublimation of friendship, and only when you have a good friend will you become a boyfriend and girlfriend. And what is needed to rise from good friends to love is to know each other. Two people only know each other, and each other is each other's confidants. Only then will there be true love.
Learn to tolerate each other's shortcomings.
Everyone will inevitably have their own shortcomings, just as everyone will find a place or two in them. True love is when both parties know how to cherish, and can give enough patience, enough understanding, and enough tolerance to each other's shortcomings, as well as willfulness.
Don't choose to settle.
True love does not choose to compromise. If that person had ever been in the world, everyone else would have been a general. If you fall in love with someone, you will recognize her for the rest of your life, and no one else can replace her.
Caring for each other in every way.
True love requires meticulous care. But this kind of care is definitely not deliberate. But when the other person needs help, you will definitely appear in front of him:
It is your gentle care when the other person is sick: it is your comfort when the other person is unhappy.
Love me, love my dog. True love is when you get to know what the other person likes. And make yourself love these things too.
For his parents, he must also treat them as if they were his own parents. Spend more time with the elderly. Especially on the birthday of the elderly, you must personally go to hold a warm birthday party for the elderly.
A certain economic base.
No matter how beautiful love is, it needs the support of money. You may not be the richest man in the world, but you must have the ability to afford a large family. This is a very real problem. If you don't even have the basic ability to make money, how can you have true love?
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It's about living together.
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True love is when you can love, know how to cherish.
True love is knowing how to let go when you can't love.
Because, letting go is the ...... having everything
When you cherish it, please love it well.
When you let go, bless ...... well
No one can say anything about love, but one thing I can be sure of, because this incident is my personal experience, love can make you do anything for each other, say anything, love is to give unconditionally for each other, do anything to do meaningful things!
Love is a cup of wine, and anyone who drinks it will get drunk.
We enjoy the beauty of love, but at the same time, we have to bear the pain of love.
Love is pain and happiness.
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Since love should not be easily given up but work together with him, two people together should tolerate and understand each other, communicate more, reduce suspicion, and use good attitudes and skills to manage love, so that love can go longer. I tell you a good way to strengthen your determination to love and stabilize your mind, you can try to log in to the "Tower of Hearts" to participate in their "True Love Test", because in the process of participating in this seemingly game-like "Internet Love Test", it can not only help you witness how deep your love for him is, but also record the bits and pieces on your love road, become your love file for you to keep forever, and also help you understand how to manage your love and maintain your relationship. You can find it by taking a look at the "Tower of Hearts".
Everyone has a different view of love, because everyone's experience is different, I think people who have really experienced love should understand that love can not be found, I have also thought about a simple love, but when love really comes, but it is not what I think, because love cannot be separated from reality, Plato's love only exists in ** or fantasy Love, if you want to love, love, if he (she) is worthy of your love