Why does rationality prevail over self? Why is it said that the most difficult person in the world t

Life is sweet and sour, bitter and spicy. The road ahead is not smooth, but stumbling thorns. If you are hurt, just one thought, it will become painful, and that is an impulse.

As the old saying goes, "impulse is the devil."

Impulsiveness does bring some surprises, and accidents often have a big impact. Just as a few days ago, everyone regretted and saddened the Chongqing bus incident that fell into the river, when the monitoring in the black box on the bus was announced, people were both angry and helpless, angry at driving by the river, the driver and the woman had a few words of dispute and couldn't control the steering wheel and drove to the river, helpless to lose the second half of the lives of more than a dozen other passengers. We don't know the specifics of this incident, but it is true that it was impulsive, and it had irreversible consequences.

Don't be impulsive, learning to be rational is also the key to dealing with all kinds of small things in our daily life. When you have a different opinion with your classmates and roommates, don't be impulsive.

After rational thinking, a few people sit down and explain things clearly is the best solution. If you quarrel impulsively, or even do it, you will magnify the trivial things, affect the feelings, and even have more trouble. When getting along with your parents, the words that come out impulsively are not just your brains at all, and they will sting your parents' hearts.

Some words will cause irreversible damage, so before speaking, you need to think twice before you speak, that is, you need to be rational.

The benefits of rejecting impulses and learning to be rational are not only in life, but also in study and work. Dealing with work events, doing problems and reading, we all need to calm down, and an impetuous mentality cannot do things. The "important people" and successful people we know, both in appearance and in their words and deeds, are calm and organized.

On the other hand, the current Internet "trolls", "keyboard warriors" and other people hidden behind the major people, through their "cynical" comments, you can feel the anger and misanthropy sitting behind the Internet tools, as well as full of malice. These people who are led by the nose just by looking at the headline or other people's words write down their "feelings" conclusively. Their impatience, their daily negative energy for life is just an outlet to vent their irrationality, and their life is bleak, hopeless, and miserable for most people.

Reject impulses, learn to be rational, and achieve not only individuals, but also small collectives around us, and even our society. Learn to think twice before you speak and do, learn to control your temper, and make our own lives better!

For example, when you finish reading a book, you become the author of the book that you see, because you have translated the book, and not the true meaning of the author of the book, for example, if you know someone, you don't know that person, but you know that person, but you know not that person, but your own image of that person, which is yourself, and you are the author of everything you see, smell, smell, taste, sense, know, and know"The most difficult person in the world to defeat is yourself"

Why not "discover" yourself, but "overcome" yourself?

If you don't even know where the "enemy" is, who are you going to fight with!

Therefore, we should first let go of the things we have to overcome, and then find out where our hearts are, and it is not too late to formulate a "battle plan" after we have found the root of our hearts and discovered the "enemy situation."

Really, it's really hard to beat yourself! Sometimes I don't know what I want to do! Sometimes I am always swayed by desires and cannot control them!

Too much! No matter how strong a person is, once he gets sick, he will not be old at all! This is the weakness of humanity!

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Because people are usually arrogant, it is difficult to lower their posture.

Who has conquered himself?

Who has defeated him?

How to defeat the one who defeated himself.

Who can overcome the "void".

If you admit original sin, you will find it difficult for people to control their desires and selfishness by their own will.

Hmmm......From a scientific point of view, the human brain is not smart enough to understand how the brain itself works. It is impossible to tell the thought itself in advance how the thought is generated. This sentence is a bit awkward, to put it simply, people know themselves through others.

Returning to the topic, "The most difficult person in the world to defeat is yourself", this sentence is a bit of a problem in itself. As a meditator, I don't feel the need to defeat others, and certainly not myself. It may be irresponsible to say this, but the fact is that there are many things in the world, which are caused by endless external demands, even if it is the nature of animals to compete with others, why do you have to get along with yourself, I can't figure it out.

Next is the so-called difficulty problem, Buddha Cloud: one thought into the devil, one thought into the Buddha. For people who believe they are invincible, even simple things can become complicated.

Finally, to be more explicit, if you want to defeat yourself, you can kill yourself at any time, which is much easier than finding someone to kill.

Many trading masters to the end, no longer talk about **, talk about human nature and philosophy, you may not understand, but you will eventually understand, trading is anti-human, human nature of the profit and avoidance of disadvantages make people naturally disgusted with losses, can not hold profits, the road of trading is the road of self-cultivation, so how do these trading masters exorcise the demons?

Why do master traders like to talk about philosophy, and how to exorcise demons and defeat themselves?

In the past few weeks, I met an old friend in the trading industry, who also used to be the chief trader of a foreign bank, and is currently helping private ** operation**. When they met for tea, they talked about the fact that the Japanese currency has not been easy to do in the past few months, and the senior trader dropped a sentence seriously: "In fact, the market is the same, it has not changed, and all the problems are in my heart."

It turned out that his brother had been long USD/JPY all the way in the first two months of his **customer operation from the beginning of 2017 to the end of February, and had made a profit of 15% for the customer. But then in just one week? From March 3 to March 7, the dollar rose against the yen, and he gave back the profits he made to the market.

Fortunately, the principal was not hurt, which is really lucky.

Why do master traders like to talk about philosophy, and how to exorcise demons and defeat themselves?

He regretfully emphasized that in fact, on the way to **, he already felt that the atmosphere was not right, and he might continue to fall deeper, but he was unwilling to see that half of the profits he earned were bitten off. After a while of hesitation, the loss stopped, and the situation worsened. He said that in fact, he had a premonition in his heart, and he had already been mentally prepared, and this time the dollar ** will not be good, especially when it breaks through.

But there is a problem in the "psychology" that I can't let go. Although with his professional training, whether for fundamental or technical reasons, he has analyzed that the dollar will fall sharply, but it is difficult to convince his heart to clear the bulls who have been helping him make money since the beginning of the year.

Therefore, he came to a conclusion, in fact, only 20% of them rely on the best research and judgment of professional knowledge, whether they will make money in the end, and 80% of them depend on the psychological level of the operator. That is, you must unite knowledge and action, perceptual psychology and rational psychology, and control your "heart" to believe that the prior professional analysis and judgment you have objectively made is right. When you are in battle, you firmly follow the prepared trading plan, do not be half-hearted, self-doubting, and find excuses not to follow the trading plan.

Why do master traders like to talk about philosophy, and how to exorcise demons and defeat themselves?

If you can get rid of the "demons in your heart" and develop an iron will to perform the actions you should have, you will naturally be able to earn the money you should make, and if you lose money, you will only lose a limited amount that is acceptable within your risk tolerance.

This is the root of man's difficulty in overcoming himself! Belief is the position that the mind decides! And thinking becomes as it happens!

Unless you are a strong-willed person who is beyond the ordinary! Even so! Your persistence also has a hedging period, and you may have your own ideas and places when you pay attention to yourself.

The normalization of hot colors concerns the environment.

If humanity overcomes itself, there will be no humanity.

This is easier said than done.

First of all, you have to have a strong sense of self-discipline and self-regulation.

If you want to beat lazy thinking, you have to give yourself a goal first.

For example, what I want to do today, how I need to do it, and then tell myself to play when I'm done.

Lie in bed in the morning and tell yourself what you haven't done today.

When doing something, laziness will always think that it will do it again or give up halfway.

At this time, I told myself that I must do it, and I can do it.

"Competition" refers to the process in which an individual or group strives to surpass their opponents according to the standard of excellence in order to fully realize their own potential. "Collaboration" refers to the process by which groups of students assist each other in accomplishing a task for a common purpose. In the process of education, these two are opposites.

1. Complement each other. Due to the biased understanding, competition was emphasized more on primary school students in the past, and the importance of cooperation was neglected. In fact, this is an important factor that leads students to develop bad psychology such as jealousy.

Therefore, in order to optimize interpersonal care among students, it is necessary to emphasize and strengthen the complementary "cooperation" while organizing students to compete appropriately and moderately. Cooperation helps students develop good personalities, enhance group cohesion, and form a harmonious educational atmosphere.

In the process of transforming junior students, as a teacher, it is natural to have frequent interactions with junior students. However, in the process of communication, it is easy for the junior students to have some resistance, and there is always a certain psychological estrangement, which brings a lot of inconvenience to the transformation of the junior students. Usually the impression given to us by junior students is that they are numb, have no interest in learning, and have an indifferent attitude towards grades.

Behind this surface, we can find that the hearts of the undergraduates are very sensitive and contradictory. From a macro point of view, the analysis of the psychological characteristics of junior students is usually manifested as: the contradiction between strong self-esteem and lack of respect; the contradiction between low self-esteem and resistance to inferiority; the contradiction between the desire to be motivated and the inertia of habit; The contradiction between the desire to succeed and the constant setbacks, etc.

Overcoming oneself is to better control oneself, not to be swayed by one's own willfulness, not to seek one's own infinite detachment, to know oneself, to know one's weaknesses and strengths, to develop one's strengths and avoid weaknesses, and to meet the infinite challenges brought by the rapidly changing society. Desire is human nature, and in overcoming oneself, it can exist as both a good and a bad thing, and in any case, our desire always rules our body, so it is almost impossible to eliminate desire in any situation. At the same time, there is no human nature without desire.

Overcoming oneself cannot really overcome one's own desires, all you have to do is to push one's hopes one step further towards reality. Therefore, overcoming yourself is an eternal process, and the process of overcoming yourself is as long as your life is long. In this process, the key is to be sober, sensibility is not the whole of human survival, so try to let reason control sensibility, learn to think, cherish the true self, and overcome yourself.

Be confident and don't care about anything.

Look at things from the point and learn to be tolerant and tolerant.

Every psyche has problems, and all you can do is try to avoid them.

People should be happy in life. Think about it, and relax your mind a little.

From the beginning we were all happy, happy or hazy and ignorant, and since we have thoughts, problems, money, and material things, all these things have begun to change. Sometimes we become a little scared, sometimes we are happy, and of course there are many annoying things that affect or change our lives.

Every change in life or self-growth is a self-victory. We may encounter many problems in life, such as life, family, study, or work. Do we learn to choose to change or run away?

Of course, maybe some friends have too many things in their lives, so naturally they don't have the leisure time to think about this kind of problem. Some people will say that daily life is like this, plain, just like that, there are so many things that come to the world, so many whys, and there is nothing straight for us to change and escape, what should be, we will do it, just do it. In fact, most people's lives are like this, either they study from morning to night, or work eight hours a day, day after day, year after year, and they will not come to one choice of one kind or another for several years.

It is true that everyone's life is like this, and if our days need to change, it means that it was wrong from the beginning; If we are going to choose to escape, it means that something has happened or is going to happen around you recently. Do you have a lot of thoughts or questions in your heart at the moment? Maybe you also have a way to face and change in your heart, how did you come up with these methods?

The only answer that can give you is ** in the past life, or your own life, or someone else's life. It may be a kind of comprehensive thinking, or it may be a kind of worshipful imitation. Of course, it is not excluded that his rational thinking may be a release of his emotional savings over the years.

In fact, when the matter is over, we will find that it is a process of ideological transformation. This shift in thinking is a triumph of the ego, both before and after. There is a very classic saying in life, failure is the mother of success?

The reason why I say this is a matter of time for the change of mind. The former is a triumph of the ego, while the latter is a life experience. And our thoughts are also based on our own experience, victory is to face the experience we already have, and failure is a process of absorbing experience.

The ultimate winner is often someone who already has the experience to win.