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If this is the case, then I think that as a parent, you must choose to call the police as soon as possible, and you must solve this matter, otherwise it will really cause some harm to your child's life.
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If this is the case, you should suspend your child from school and then seek help from the relevant authorities.
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When a friend is bullied on campus, the teacher and the school deal with them by staying in school for observation, which is equivalent to nothing. Parents also felt that they should be spared, but my friend is now very mentally broken. What should I do? There are recordings.
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How can parents communicate with teachers when their children are bullied at school?
1.Communicate with the teacher at the first time to ensure the continuity of information. First of all, it is recommended that parents communicate with the teacher in their class as soon as possible if such a situation occurs.
To communicate with the teacher, it is better for our family to send only one representative. That is to say, if it is the mother who communicates with the teacher at the beginning, it will always be the mother; If it's a dad, it's always a dad. This ensures continuity of communication between parents and teachers.
When we communicate, we must communicate with the teacher on duty. Find out which teacher was taking care of our child or both of these children at the time of the incident, as this teacher knows the most. Although our parent association may think that the homeroom teacher may be the most authoritative, if the homeroom teacher is not present at the time, she may not be able to tell you what is going on.
2.Let the teacher act as an intermediary and talk to the parents separately. Some parents can't wait to find the other parent after the incident happens, and then communicate directly with the other party.
Actually, this effect is not very good. If both parents are familiar and know each other, communication may still have a role. If we are all new to this class, such exchanges will actually create a lot of new contradictions.
Parents are always the unwavering backing of their children. Parents are always a safe haven and umbrella for their children, so that they know that they have something to rely on and a sense of security in their hearts. If a child is being bullied, it is also essential for parents to stop it.
Let the child show a sense of "strong" momentum; No matter what happens, the parents are there. If necessary, parents will come forward to warn their child that it is strictly forbidden to repeat the bullying incident.
3.Dialogue between parents, teachers, and other parents. Establish a trilateral relationship between children, parents, and teachers, communicate in a timely manner, and then contact each other's parents through teachers to communicate and have conversations together.
The conversation between adults is a step, all for the better growth and development of children. It is necessary to deal with it peacefully, reduce major matters to small ones, and treat them rationally. I believe that parents can also accept it.
4.Be sure to deal with it calmly and don't act rashly until you have figured it out. Give the teacher time and patience to deal with it.
After all, a teacher should have a comprehensive understanding of what is happening, and it is impossible to draw conclusions just by listening to one side. It may not be until after school the next day, through multiple inquiries and investigations, to find out the true situation of the matter. In fact, children are not more scheming than adults.
If there is a conflict between two children, some parents may be prejudiced and disgusted. But the children quarreled in the morning and went to play together again in the afternoon. Children don't care, parents should be generous.
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It is the responsibility of the school to ensure the safety of the child during the school study, and the bullying of the child at school is caused by the school's poor management, if the school cannot solve the problem, you can call the police to deal with it.
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I believe that parents should understand the situation with their child, and then seek the help of the teacher to solve some difficulties faced by him in school accordingly to ensure that he grows up healthy and happy.
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In such a situation, parents should first understand the reason for the matter, and then communicate with the teacher.
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There is always a reason for conflicts between students, as the saying goes, there is no love for no reason in the world, and there is no hate for no reason, there is always a cause for conflict.
The first is that the reason for being bullied is a conflict. For example, student A stepped on B's foot, did not apologize, and returned a picture of "My dad is Li Gang."'The arrogance of the like. What do you say B thinks, he will swallow his anger if he is weak and weak, if he is strong or he has a group of friends, he will not retaliate for the kick that was stepped on by A.
Obviously, quite possibly. It is a contradiction in daily disputes. If the relationship between the two students is caused by a general conflict and dispute, there is no deep hatred between the two parties, and the person being bullied is in the position of being "bullied" due to his weak body.
The second is school bullying. This is mainly the case of competitive students who bully weaker classmates, such as A feeling unhappy when he sees B, and punching, kicking or teasing his opponent when he has nothing to do.
Through the class meeting, students can be positively guided to live in harmony with each other, help each other, and not bully classmates. Secondly, carry out more psychological counseling classes, many children are bullied or bullied others, more or less in the process of growth and development, psychological problems are prominent, and it is very necessary to carry out more psychological counseling classes in adolescence. In addition, focusing on such students and often tutoring and communicating individually, such children need more care.
Schools and teachers should be fair and just in their handling methods, and students should be treated equally, and there must be no partiality. If it is caused by the bullied student's own reasons, the student who is bullied should be criticized and educated, punished if necessary, and the student should also be criticized and educated, or even apologized and reviewed. If it is a daily conflict between students, the school and the teacher should be fair and just, deal with it accordingly, and resolve the conflict between the two parties so that they can reconcile as before.
If it is school bullying, it is necessary to severely crack down on school bullying, strengthen management education, and never tolerate it. If necessary, let the relevant departments intervene to deal with it. It also provides a safe environment on campus and maintains the property and personal safety of other students.
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Tell your child that if someone bullies you, don't swallow your anger and let others bully you. Be brave enough to tell the teacher or parent, only by telling the teacher or parent can you solve the problem and avoid the bullying from happening again. In this way, the bullied child will be educated, and the bullied child will be helped without leaving a psychological shadow.
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If this situation is encountered, the teacher should not criticize at will, and the two children must ask the reason clearly, and then solve it. If the situation is very serious, be sure to call both parents over, because parents have a right to know about the matter. And face this with a peaceful mind, tell the child that this is not right, if you do it again, it will make your classmates dislike you very much, and comfort the bullied child, and find a way to make the child happy.
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The teacher should let the child calm down, and then ask about the relevant reasons, and at the same time educate the student who bullied others, let the student who did the wrong thing apologize to the other party, and the teacher should give some comfort to the student who was bullied, and give the child more care, so as not to cause a shadow to the child.
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If my classmates are bullied at school, the teacher should first protect the bullied classmates here, and then find both parties to understand the situation and seriously criticize the wrong classmates.
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Teachers should first understand the reasons why children are being bullied, and then promote friendship between students in some special ways, and let children understand some truths.
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The teacher should find the child's parents to solve the problem, and the teacher should also seek justice for the child who has been bullied.
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