If the child does not perform well in school, the teacher asks him to go home and reflect, what shou

Updated on educate 2024-04-15
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  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    This should be clear about what the child does not perform well in school, if it is a problem of ideological and moral character, such as not being able to get along well with classmates, and not listening to what the teacher says. Then it is indeed necessary to reflect on it, because this is largely related to family education, and setting a good example for children is the best teacher. Slowly, the child's personality changed, and he became obedient.

    If the academic performance is not good, then the teacher will make a big fuss if he calls him home to wake up, and if he goes home to reflect on his good grades, then what kind of teacher do you need to go to school.

    In short, communicate more with teachers and children, and do the same to be a good child, so as to have a good future.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Since the teacher asks the child to go home for reflection, it is natural that he should go back to reflect, and both children and parents should first think about or figure out what is wrong, how to correct it, or at least have a positive attitude of correcting mistakes. Secondly, it is necessary to actively communicate with the teacher, after all, the child's main task is to study, and it is better to find a way to return to school as soon as possible. First of all, you can get an attitude and opportunity to behave well with the teacher, and then discuss the conditions under which you can return to school.

    Of course, when you go back to school, you must not make any more mistakes, and at least for a short time, you must control yourself.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The child does not perform well in school, the teacher asks him to go home to reflect on what parents should do, one is to take the child home since he goes home to reflect, and the child's things in school must be verified clearly, and the other is to give the teacher a **, because it is always not a yes at home, and should go back to school as soon as possible.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Hello! If the child does not perform well in school, the teacher asks him to go home and reflect, parents should understand the situation clearly, if it is the child's mistake, as a parent, they should enlighten the child. However, it is absolutely not possible to blame and scold the child, which will make the child's rebellious psychology stronger, and the calm child must explain some of the breakouts clearly.

    Look at what your child is doing poorly in school, find the root cause, and then help your child solve the problem. In this way, the child will be able to behave well in the future.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    In fact, in the process of children's growth, parents often encounter the problem of being notified by the teacher to come to school because the child is not doing well in school, so that their child can go home and reflect on this problem.

    In this case, as a parent of a child, you should objectively look at the teacher's handling opinions, after all, for teachers, a class has to manage dozens of children, if their children do have problems, disrupting the class and classroom discipline, it will affect the normal learning of other children, the teacher for the sake of maintaining the overall discipline of the class, it is understandable to take such a way.

    However, when parents take their children home, they should not be able to beat and scold their children for the first time, because this will not fundamentally solve the problem, but to communicate and exchange with the children well, understand the reasons why the children perform poorly in school, find out the crux of the children's thoughts, and then sort out and educate the children on their own problems, so that the children can truly realize their mistakes, and then sincerely write a correction book, the next day, As a parent of the child, you should take the child and the written certificate to the school to hand over to the child's homeroom teacher, sincerely apologize to the homeroom teacher, so that the homeroom teacher will also recognize the behavior of the parents, and in the future, in the process of children's learning and growth, they will be more responsible and patient, so that teachers and parents can form a joint force to better educate their children.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    At the same time, parents should also contact the school teachers to show that they have been negligent in their children's education and ask the teachers to provide some effective education methods.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If the child does not perform well in school, parents should take the initiative to find the teacher, communicate with the teacher in depth, understand what aspects of the child's performance are not good, and cooperate with the school to educate the child well. Since you want your child to go home and reflect, you should help your child deeply understand his mistakes or shortcomings, and write a review to ensure that he can correct his mistakes with practical actions in the future and make up for his shortcomings. After the reflection, sincerely submit the review and assurance to the school teacher, and obtain the teacher's understanding.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If the child does not perform well in school, the teacher asks him to go home and reflect, what should parents do? At this time, you must comfort the child and do not let the child hurt his self-esteem. No matter what time it is, you must comfort the child and don't let the child hurt his self-esteem.

    Whether you are doing right or wrong, you must comfort your child at this time, do not let your child hurt his self-esteem, whether the child is doing right or wrong, you must guide him in the right way. Well, but you can't say that you are overly spoiled, he must understand what happened to him at school and why the teacher asked him to go home and reflect.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Actively cooperate with the teacher to communicate with the child, help the child figure out what he is wrong with, so as to correct the mistake.

    Don't scold, that will not only be detrimental to the solution of the problem, but will aggravate the contradiction.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If the child does not perform well at school, the teacher tells him to go home and reflect, the child should study at home, and parents should take the initiative to help the child with homework at this time. In addition, it can make children clearly aware of their mistakes, so there will be such a result.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If the child does not perform well in school, parents can communicate with the teacher and communicate. Let the teacher understand the child's living environment, the child's personality characteristics, interests and hobbies. Parents should also find out how their children are doing in school.

    Encourage your child to apologize to the teacher. Parents and teachers work together to educate children to be excellent children. The teacher finds the entry point for the child to change, guides the child, and does not let the child go home and reflect.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Parents should talk to teachers about their children's mistakes and help them correct them together. Let your child realize his mistakes, and at the same time, encourage him a lot.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Then you must first understand what happened. Then we will carry out targeted communication education with children. The school has already asked to go home and reflect. What we need to do is to get students back to school as soon as possible.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    First of all, as parents, we should understand the child's learning situation at school, understand why the teacher asked him to go home and reflect, first figure things out, and then promise the teacher that he must educate the child well when he goes home, let him be obedient at school, don't be naughty, make a review of the mistakes he has made to the teacher, write a letter of guarantee, ask the teacher's forgiveness, communicate with him at home, educate him to listen to the teacher at school in the future, raise his hand, and study hard.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Communicate with the child, understand the child's thoughts, know why the child does this, don't criticize the education as soon as you come up, the teacher can't take care of every child, and the reason for some things can't be completely clarified, so it's also important to listen to what the child says, and then encourage and guide him how to behave well in school.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Letting children go home and reflect is a punishment for children's mistakes, and parents should cooperate with teachers to truly let children realize their mistakes. But parents should not blindly blame, but also give their children more encouragement and comfort.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Parents must educate their children, that is to say, they must let their children realize their mistakes, and they can communicate well with their children to understand their children's true thoughts. It is also important to understand why the child is doing this and let the child realize his mistakes

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Take the initiative to communicate with the teacher behind the child's back, find a way to make the child love school, and deal with teachers and classmates. In fact, some babies are a little naughty and mischievous because they want to attract the attention of parents and teachers, which is a signal to pay attention.

    When facing a child, you should appreciate him, worship him, praise him, and tap his shining points. Let children have self-confidence and put an end to beating, scolding and complaining.

    The most important thing is to believe in your child, even if he is ordinary!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    1. Communicate privately with the teacher to understand what happenedUnderstand the results of your child's mistakes and analyze the causes of your child's mistakes. Understand the teacher's ideas, and also ask the teacher to propose educational methods. It is best for parents to do a good job of bluffing according to the teacher's requirements and cooperate with the teacher's education.

    Teachers and parents are the nets of heaven and earth", I ask both the family and the school to do a good job of double reeds, because the punishment method of going home to reflect cannot be used from time to time.

    2. Do a good job in children's ideological work. It is important for children to realize that it is not easy to go back to school and reflect on the nature and impact of mistakes, especially in the eyes of classmates, family and neighbors. We must not simply and rudely reprimand things, but must analyze and guide children to recognize the seriousness of mistakes, point out the necessity of correcting mistakes, correct wrong attitudes, and methods.

    That's what parents should do. Teachers sing black faces, parents sing red faces, and parental care and guidance can bring help to children who are afraid of helplessness, and it is also a key part of educating children.

    3. Guide the child to complete the teacher's requirements. It is generally a writing process, checking for reflection errors. Parents should help their children analyze well, and also help to review the text expression of the book.

    Communicate with the teacher, send the child back to school once, or continue to collect it for the first time, and send it for the second time, depending on the degree of error and the child's personality and degree of reflection.

    Parents educate their children on the dos and don'ts.

    1. Set an example.

    Teaching by example is more important than teaching, and parents should first pay attention to their own cultivation and establish their own prestige. A parent who doesn't like to study and only cares about eating, drinking and having fun, a parent who doesn't know everything, a parent with bad conduct, vulgar behavior, selfishness, and no filial piety to the elderly will not raise a good child.

    Second, environmental edification.

    Children should have a good environment for learning, not high-end, but for the atmosphere, students should avoid unnecessary family chat, friends and so on to tolerate shortcomings as much as possible, look at children with a magnifying glass, to know that there is no perfect child in the world, no matter how perfect the child has its own shortcomings. Parents' unconditional trust in their children is an important foundation for communication with their children.

    3. Criticism and punishment.

    Criticism and punishment are both negations of children's bad thoughts and behaviors, but the latter is a means of education for serious bad thoughts and behaviors. When criticizing and punishing, it is first necessary to have a comprehensive understanding of the situation, grasp the specific circumstances and severity of bad thoughts and behaviors, and proceed from the reality of mistakes; criticism is to point out the harm and ideological roots, negate their thoughts and behaviors, make them feel ashamed and painful, and then generate motivation to correct their mistakes.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The teacher asks the student to go home and reflect, then the student will definitely do something at school, so that the teacher gives him this punishment, then as a parent, you should communicate with the teacher in a timely manner, understand the relevant situation of the child in school, and then be able to cooperate with the teacher to complete the education of the child, whether it is a teacher or a parent, the most fundamental purpose is to hope that the child is good.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It's not right. If a child makes a mistake in school, as a school and a teacher, it is a responsibility to let the child go home and reflect, if it is a mistake of principle, first of all, the teacher must review himself, not to train the student well, if it is a non-principled mistake, you can let the student do an inspection to avoid making the same mistake in the future.

    Asking parents to bring their children home who have made mistakes is not popular with parents and students, and often asks students to go home for reflection, at the very least, delaying students' learning.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    At this time, parents are acting as a lubricant between teachers and students, on the one hand, you should actively get in touch with the teacher, how to help the child, at least leave a good impression of positivity and cooperation, on the other hand, you should comfort the child well, carry out psychological counseling, so that he does not have too much pressure and can make up for his own shortcomings. Educating children well is the shared responsibility of parents and teachers, and active communication and cooperation are required.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Parents can ask students if they are at fault and guide them to correct them. Of course, if the incident is not the student's fault, it may be a misunderstanding by the teacher, etc., it is also necessary to learn to correctly guide the student how to face such problems.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    The teacher asks the students to go home and reflect. Then the parents will take the child back. When you get home, educate your children well. Just pay attention next time.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    The first thing to do is to know what happened.

    That is, to understand what is going on.

    Is the child making a mistake at school?

    Or is something happening?

    After figuring out the reason for the matter.

    If it's really the child who made the mistake.

    Then apologize to the teacher first.

    Then talk to your child.

    It's not a pity to make mistakes, but it's a fear of not admitting mistakes.

    Things are about dealing with them, and they should be handled well.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    The child knew that he was wrong, and when he saw that the time was almost up, he contacted the teacher, and his attitude was sincere, so that the child could go back.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    There must be a reason why the child says, "The teacher doesn't like me." The child is nothing more than a direct or indirect perception that the teacher does not like him from the teacher's words, expressions, and actions. As a parent, you should figure out the reason in time.

    Ask the child about the reason, and take corresponding guidance and education measures in time. Parents should first encourage their children and tell them that they are great in the eyes of their parents. Let the child feel the love of his parents, so that the child can reduce frustration, and it is also convenient for the child to better communicate with his parents.

    For example, if the child says that the teacher says that he eats slowly, the teacher and classmates will not like him. At this time, parents should tell their children: "In group life, you should think about the whole and not go your own way."

    The teacher's words make sense, but with your ability, you won't be someone the teacher doesn't like to be liked. "Careful parents can find out the reason for their children's slow eating, and they can exercise their children's ability to eat at home......

    Communicate with the teacher to keep abreast of the child's situation in the kindergarten. Parents cooperate with teachers to guide and educate children without harming their physical and mental health.

    Communicate with the children in the same class as the child to understand the situation of the kindergarten. If the teacher speaks one-sidedly, you can learn about the situation in the kindergarten and the child's performance in the kindergarten from the mouth of the children in the same class. Find problems and solve them in time.

    In short, if the child tells you that "the teacher doesn't like me", parents should pay attention to it, understand the reason in time, cooperate with the kindergarten, and take corresponding measures to correctly guide and educate the child. Prevent your child from being physically and mentally harmed.

    In addition, let the child know that the parents are her strongest backing, do not be afraid of authority, teachers will also make mistakes, so no matter what happens in the kindergarten, you must come back and tell the parents. Use language, in a language that your child can understand. It shouldn't be difficult to find out why the teacher doesn't like him!

    The child tells the parents that the teacher doesn't like me, and it is very likely that the child is looking for comfort in the person closest to him, so I must listen to the child at this time and satisfy the child's sense of security.

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