I don t want to explain to people, it s okay, just explain with friends

You have symptoms similar to emotional dependence.

Sometimes it is manifested that it is too much like or too many personal feelings on a certain person or a certain object, and it is difficult to adapt once it is lost.

In other words, life is often relatively monotonous, the living space is relatively narrow, and there are not many people and things in life. When a person is depressed and cannot find a solution, dependence often takes advantage of the situation, and emotional dependence has a wide range, not only in the form of a person or an animal, but also in the form of dependence on a favorite object.

Let go of the mood and let it fly, and you'll be sunnier.

Everyone will encounter endless difficulties and ups and downs in their lives, for some problems, we can solve it with personal ability, but many problems may also be, the vast majority of problems are beyond our personal ability, which will cause us a huge psychological burden, if your mentality is not adjusted well, you will feel pain and sorrow, your whole person may also be defeated by difficulties, and even from then on, then in the face of difficulties and ups and downs, what should we do? The key is to look at the personal mentality, when you maintain a mentality full of positive energy, in Internet language, the gods and horses are floating clouds, so tell yourself, face the sea, spring blossoms, and be a person full of positive energy from tomorrow.

Your personality is quiet, introverted, or a bit of an otaku. You try to talk to your parents first, and then see if you can integrate into other people's society, in fact, if you spend a long time alone, people will be easy to be lonely. Because I'm that kind of person too.

No, because we can vent our frustrations to our friends. It's right not to communicate with messy people.

If you feel good yourself, it's good. Don't care what other people say.

You can do whatever you want, and you don't get in the way of other people's business. In short, it doesn't hurt! There's nothing good or bad about it, it's just boring.

It's not good, you should make more friends, you are introverted, you have to change the current situation, and the people around you will also be kind to you ......

Not so good! Choose someone or a friend to talk to.

Sometimes it's good, but don't do it often

Isolation can be somewhat detrimental to the psyche

There's no need to say it, you will slowly distance yourself in the future, you must not say this, he asked you to go** You find a reason not to go, he will understand what is going on after a long time!

It's more intimate with friends, and there are not so many constraints.

With ordinary people, they will be more restrained and polite.

For example, if a friend does you a small favor, you may take it for granted.

At this point, you may sometimes forget to say, thank you.

But what about ordinary relationships, even if it's a gesture, you will say thank you.

So you can keep a certain distance in your usual communication and be more polite.

So he knew.

What do you mean. For example, if he invites you to dinner, you can politely decline.

For example, today I have a meeting.

Wait. He wants to do something for you, you can say no thanks.

In this way, there is a natural sense of distance.

As far as I can guess, it seems that the "other person" is talking about you, and the "other" is a mutual friend between you and her, in other words, you are also a mutual friend between the "other" and her, but you are just being used to open up the conversation and strengthen the relationship between them. People are duplicitous, and their hearts are different. Take yourself too seriously, others won't take you seriously, smiling at you, it's purely polite, so please don't think nonsense, don't misunderstand, you can never wake up a person who pretends to be asleep, and you can never move a person who doesn't like you.

If the girl doesn't like you, then he won't judge you, even if he will talk to your mutual friend. Because he doesn't like you very much, it would be rude to say that he would judge you privately.

No, if I have a crush on you, I will discuss you in front of others.

Rarely present, generally non-existent.

Logically speaking, a cannon is a lover's relationship, and if you are a good friend and often contact, then it is normal to fight back in the future.

No one lives completely in the sun, and that's understandable. It's just that since people are emotional animals, there are many times when the brain is not clear, and sometimes we make some rules to prevent these ambiguities from ruining our own or others' lives.

Such a relationship will not last long, and there will be many contradictions, which will make you fall deeper and deeper and unable to extricate yourself! It is better to separate as soon as possible ......Don't hurt yourself anymore.

Yes, but you are too kind, and you may harm yourself.

Don't understand, the only way is to stay away?

In this society where "persimmons always love to pick soft pinch", kindness is no longer an advantage label, but has become a bargaining chip used by many people to bully and deceive. "People are good and are bullied, and horses are good and are ridden" are all given to the wrong object because of kindness.

Kindness is precious, but kindness does not grow teeth, that is, weakness.

You have such a temperament and character, you belong to a good old man or something, you will definitely be bullied by others, you do anything, you don't want to offend others when you say anything, and you will never say no, so it is inevitable to suffer.

You can try to integrate into the group, communicate more with everyone, I really don't like it, just find one or two friends who can talk to you, talk to each other, talk about happiness and troubles, it will be better for your growth, and it will not be so depressing, I wish you a happy friend!

Look at who you've met, good luck.

If you can, change it.

If you really don't want to go.

It can be said that the work is busy and overtime.

The reason is very good, if you don't go.

No one else will force you.

It's best not to be too alone, though.

Otherwise, others will not want to help you in the future.

Kiss! It's not a bad thing that you like to talk, and it's not your fault! It's just who you're saying it to, that is, your listener is someone who likes to talk?!

If he doesn't like to talk, he'll say you're going to annoy you! If you don't talk about it in the future, you will lose it if you talk too much, do you know it? Hope you are happy!

The Tao is not the same, don't conspire with him, don't pay attention to him.

Are you pretty? Or handsome??