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This thing is hard??
1. Are you an adult? Since you are ready to get married, you should be an adult, then you are an adult, you are already a mature individual, and your behavior should be up to you to make the final decision, and the opinions of others are just a reference.
2. Do you still live with your parents? If you do, move out, in the eyes of your parents, you will always be a child, and it will be vividly reflected in the same roof home.
4. Have a good talk with your family and hope they will respect your opinion.
Of course, the above is all based on the fact that you didn't hurt anyone else, if you want to make that girl pregnant and not get married, then wait for the sky to thunder.
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It depends on what the reason is, whether you haven't played enough, or you are not ready, or you don't want to marry her (him). If you really don't want to get married, you can postpone it and give yourself enough time to prepare.
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Have you booked a date or something? If you can't do your mother's job, you can let your daughter-in-law come, and the key is that you're on the same front
Your idea is good, communicate it! That's how men should prove themselves to be worthy. But, you really have nothing but struggle and nothing else in your heart!
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As long as two people's hearts are together, there is no luxury car to pick you up and there is no lot of bride price, you can live happily together! Because you are a couple of true love, although the current society is inseparable from money, but everyone's life will have a process of hard work, you should think that this is the journey you must go through, look forward, you will be happy!
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If you don't borrow money to hold a feast, you can pay off your debts after you get married; Otherwise, convince the family to travel and get married.
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If you want to marry him, then get married.
The handling fee for the marriage certificate seems to be only 9 yuan.
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If the age is up and the feelings are enough, then it is better to be earlier.
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was decisive, and he didn't dare to listen to his goddess.
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He won't wait for me to introduce you, but your boyfriend wants to marry you.
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Why do you want to get married in three years?
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Do you still need to do it? Believe in him and marry him.
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I had an abortion before, and my boyfriend's family wanted to stay and let us get married, but at that time, my sister got married, and the local rule was that happy events should be separated by at least three months, and my mother asked to get rid of the child for the sake of face. As a result, it broke the hearts of my boyfriend's parents, and he and I have been living separately from each other, and the marriage customs are different in the two places, and now my boyfriend and I plan to get married but there are many problems.
First of all, the customs of the two places are different, the man and the woman have to pay for the marriage on his side, while the man on our side wants to give the woman's family a gift, and the woman will bring this money when she gets married. But now, my boyfriend's family doesn't want to come up with money because the child has an opinion about my mother, and the second is because of work problems, I work in my hometown, and he is not very far away from his house, but his parents want me to go back to their side and don't let me work here, because the place where I work now can be compiled immediately, and my mother won't let me go, she resolutely disagrees with this matter, and his parents think that even if they are compiled, what if they are separated, the two places live separately and are not good, and they insist on letting me go back, The two old people are at a stalemate because of these two things.
My boyfriend and I are anxious every day, I don't know what to do, my boyfriend is very good to me, and he is also very assertive, but now his parents are very sad because of the child's affairs, and he can't be the master, and here, my mother firmly disagrees that I don't go to work. On the issue of money, my boyfriend and I made a plan, he took out the money he had saved for a few years, and deposited it in the card as a gift money, but I also have a worry, my mother is indeed a bit confused, in private she wants to take out tens of thousands of dollars from the gift money to keep it for her own use, but we are generally not like this here, so I can't raise my head when I get married, I talked to her, and said to give him the money I saved, and she didn't want to take this money, and he agreed, but I was afraid that she would change again, that is, she had changed before, My boyfriend's parents felt uneasy and unwilling to take out the money. But what should I do about work?
My boyfriend's parents are very good to me, there is only one son left in the family, his sister has married Zhaozen Sutra, his parents often say that the money saved is for us, they open restaurants, often bring me good dishes, and buy me a small Xiaoice box, let me eat better, do treat me as my own person, after the child's incident, it also hurt the old man's heart, the old man now has a little opinion on me. At that time, before the child was removed, my mother talked to me several times, and I cried, so I was so sad, and now I don't give in to money and work at all, and my boyfriend and I have thought of a way to do it, but what about work? Please give me your advice.
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The marriage certificate is to be played, no matter when you hold it to, you have to solve this problem, it will be of great benefit to you to do it early, and when to put the wedding wine is a kind of image project, which does not have much meaning. At night, when you sleep, you always have a bed to sleep in, so you have to take care of his marriage room.
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As long as people can be relied on, everything else is outside the body, and not having it now does not mean that it will not have it in the future.
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What I said upstairs is right, mainly depends on whether the man's character is reliable and whether he is self-motivated, if there is, you really love him, then the house will be completely fine in the future.
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It mainly depends on the man's character and whether he is self-motivated, if he is, he can get married without a house.
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As long as you love each other, whether you have a house or not, you hesitate like this, which means that your relationship is still questionable, and it is okay not to tie the knot.
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Yes, the house is only temporary.
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It's okay, my wife and I just don't have a house to get married, don't let the house dictate your life.
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Premise: No talking about friends.
Conclusion: Marriage is definitely not accepted.
But if you really have a crush on him, try dating him. Some men really confess in this way because they can't put it down or because they are more brainy.
Don't fall into marriage too early because of impulse; Don't miss out on an impulsive partner.
I wish you happiness.
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Maybe it's a man who wants to save face, it's an excuse. I couldn't find a suitable reason or excuse, so I said this without thinking.
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Unacceptable, this is irresponsible for one's own future. Extremely irresponsible.
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In the eyes of parents, marriage means that their children have begun to live in real life, that they have found a path to happiness, and that they are about to complete their responsibilities as parents. And our own happiness is in our own hands, how to find happiness You have to ask yourself, It is recommended that you pay attention to the annual action of "finding happiness" initiated by Ms. Yang Lan, maybe you can understand different happiness from it,.
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It's not that you will be happy when you get married, but when you get older, your marriage will be affected. Men generally don't like to be too old, and they will miss a lot of things when they are older.
Do you not want to get married or do you want to wait a few years? Would you like to wait a few more years?
Your parents' consideration is not that you will be happy when you get married, but that you will not be happy if you don't get married.
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Freedom to marry!!
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