Someone scolds you on the road, how will you deal with it? My girlfriend called me cowardly

Ask your girlfriend whether she wants to be an impulsive, irrational savage or a mature man who takes tolerance as a virtue and has the right way to deal with the world. It is not necessary to stand up for oneself in everything, and it is not tolerable to tolerate everything, and learning to tolerate the malicious behavior of others is also an excellent style. But don't let tolerance turn into connivance, everything must have a limit, when others hurt you excessively and infringe on your rights and interests, you should take legal measures to protect your rights and interests.

Both are bb: since they are unqualified people, they don't need to apologize to him, but scolding them is just lowering their status.

B: I still have violent tendencies, that is also self-protection, people will be angry, so, if the other party makes a move, there is no need to endure it, didn't Hong Xiguan teach his son - if you can't bear it, you don't need to endure it anymore! Even if it is heavy, 110 checks up, it is also legitimate defense.

I think it's okay to beat him, but it's also good for him, because these people don't know how high and deep the sky is, and let these people know that you're bad, somebody is worse than you, that you hate somebody more than you, so that these people know how valuable it is to be patient.

Encountering this situation is simple:

1. It's not the first compensation, apologize politely, and the attitude must be sincere.

2. The other party did not give up, and he fought hard, so he hit 110.

There is no right or wrong, as long as you can solve it, that's the best way to go.

No matter what your girlfriend thinks, you are you, not your girlfriend.

You're right, your girlfriend may be too sensitive, you have to tell her that it doesn't matter if this happens to you, and if it happens to your girlfriend, you will never allow it!

Women are generally more cautious ......I mean, ......

So I don't think there's anything wrong with what you're doing, and there's nothing wrong ......with your girlfriendIn the first question, I first have to look at the age and gender of the other party, and finally choose A or B according to my mood

The second question also depends on the situation and I choose the ABC ......

I will definitely apologize first, if he beats me, I will definitely beat him to death, if I can't beat him, I will be angry.

I choose A and C, be polite, whether the other party is polite or not is a matter of the other party's quality, not something you can control.

Rational and rational, everything is precious, forbearance, but forbearance, no need to endure!

There is no problem with the choice of the landlord, but in fact, when your girlfriend asks you this kind of question, you don't have to choose what you want to choose, so that your girlfriend will not feel secure and make her happy, so why bother.

If you touch someone on the street and scold someone, that person has no quality and no morality, do you want to be the same as that kind of person?

If your girlfriend is there, it's better to fight, and it's not cost-effective to fight if your girlfriend isn't there.

If you are bitten by a dog, will you bite it back? Kick it a few times at most!

If it were me, I'd go back.

You have reason first, and it won't be good to say a few words to them, and if you endure it, it won't make him stop, but you will feel that you are a bully.

The above is also my own opinion, which may be related to my personality if I encounter such a situation, and people with different personalities should have different approaches to the same thing.

Bear with it, the forest is big and there are all kinds of birds.

Last night driving, in the normal form, a man who rode an electric car and ran a red light insulted me, I stopped and chased him, and told him to run away, which was really annoying.

Endure the calm for a while, take a step back and open the sky.

Don't say anything else, just embarrassment of the car.

Generally five steps, the first step, calm analysis, is it your reason, if not, the second step, he scolds you what you scold him back, if he intensifies, such as greeting his family or something, the third step, scolding him to death, and then invite your friends or something to watch him, to see if he is ashamed, if he still continues, the fourth step, as a mental patient, in fact, is original, not ashamed, and then silently report him, if he continues, and harass you for a long time, report the situation to the Internet police or public security department, and asked the relevant departments to open a case for investigation of him for harassment.

Although scolding is very unqualified, but in fact, most of the scolding people on the Internet are unemployed gangsters (generally called keyboard warriors), there are few people who really go to work and swear, there is no need to talk about quality and politeness with gangsters, the more civilized you are, the more they are off-road, the more they bully you.

Don't worry about garbage people, you will definitely feel better after watching it! A friend was having dinner at a restaurant the night before, and his beautiful girlfriend was whistling by the drunk man at the next table, and he said let's go after eating anyway. My girlfriend said why are you so cowardly, are you a man, my friend said that you can't compete with hooligans.

My girlfriend was anxious, and after scolding my friend, I went over to scold the group of drunks, but the drunks came up and started fighting, my friend was stabbed three times, and died in the hospital yesterday. ......What would you do if your girlfriend was whistling from a drunk?

Have you ever heard of the "garbage man's law"? If the mother of the child who was thrown in Beijing knew this law, the tragedy of the child could be avoided! A friend was driving in the right lane when suddenly a black sedan pulled out of the parking space and was right in front of it.

The friend immediately stepped on the brakes, and the car slid for a short distance, just dodging the incoming car, and the distance between the two cars was only a few centimeters! The driver of the car shook his head and yelled at us! My friend just smiled and waved at the guy.

I mean: my friend behaved very nicely. So I asked him:

Why did you just do that?! That guy almost ruined your car and could have hurt us! That's what my friend told me at the time, and I now summarize it as the "garbage man law."

"Many people are like 'garbage people'," he explained. They are running around and are full of negative garbage:

It is full of frustration, anger, jealousy, calculation, hatred, pride and prejudice, greed, dissatisfaction, complaining, comparison, disappointment, ignorance, ignorance, annoyance, revenge, and disappointment. As the garbage in their hearts piled up and piled up, they eventually had to find a place to dump it; Sometimes, we just happen to run into it, and the garbage is thrown at us. So, don't mind!

Just smile, wave, walk away from them, and move on our own way! Don't take their negative garbage and spread it to our family, friends, co-workers, or other passers-by" The bottom line here is that happy, successful people never let the 'garbage people' take over any day of their lives!

Life is short, so don't waste your mind and energy on these things! It's so well written, I met such a person in life and laughed it off! The best realm Who will be as knowledgeable as garbage!

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If he comes and scolds you for no reason, you just ignore him. But if you have done something wrong and have been scolded, then accept it with an open mind.

If you are scolded, bear with it, and try not to scold it back, otherwise it may not be just a verbal dispute if the conflict becomes bigger.

In fact, the people who scold you are angry and scold you, so think that they will be uncomfortable when they are angry, and you should steal the fun. Haha, if you're angry with me, you'll be fine. Helpful, please adopt.

Someone scolded in my heart, this is called belly slander...

But this kind of scolding is silent.,It's just an idea at all.。。

You are awesome!! Someone else's mind can read ... It's amazing...

Please don't be angry, if he doesn't make a sound, it won't be scolding you...

Whoever is scolded will feel uncomfortable in their hearts. If you are wrong, others will scold you, but you need to be strict with yourself and learn a lesson; If the problem is with someone else, then leave him alone, if he can scold you, it means that the status is above you, and remember to pay more attention next time.

As for why you don't remember this scene, it's because you don't think you reacted well enough.

If you fight back, you'll get public outrage.

You're going to think you're doing something wrong. Others are just talking about it, and they don't mean to target you.

I think your upset comes from thinking that everyone hates you, and it's a shame.

It's just that he was quick to talk at the time, after all, he made a noise to others, and not everyone was good-tempered.

If you're right, I'm very supportive of your toughness, but if you're wrong, you're wrong, and you can't find a reason to prevaricate the guilt in your heart because you're afraid of losing face, others aren't targeting you.

If you think about it more, it will make you feel much better, and others may blame themselves.

It's right to know how to protect yourself, some people's quality is so low, and if you worry about him, doesn't it mean that your quality is not as good as his?

It's no wonder that he does this business, and he treats customers like this, and his business will last for a long time!

If you are scolded by someone you don't know, and you don't do anything wrong with him. The other party is either provoked or a fool, you can not take it seriously, you go your way!

If you are scolded by your relatives, leaders, colleagues, and friends who are usually good to you, you should be cautious

If you have something wrong, you have to be brave enough to admit your problem. (Because they're all for your good!) ）；

Suppose you are right, you have been wronged. Don't talk back, because that won't solve the problem. Explain things to them when they're in a good mood. After the other party understands the truth of the matter, the relationship between you will inevitably become closer! Is that right?

If you are scolded, it will definitely be uncomfortable. If you feel uncomfortable, it hurts you, and you will feel even more uncomfortable, which is called evading responsibility. Accept or avoid depending on which one you choose.

If you choose to accept it, you will be uncomfortable all of a sudden, and if you choose to escape, you will be uncomfortable all the time.

If it's for no reason, don't pay attention to these people, the more you ignore them, the more annoying it is, ignore these people. If you scold him in the opposite direction, you will damage your own image. These people have no capital.

I can't bear it, I hope it will help you, I think it's good to adopt it, thank you.

Friends, don't be angry, don't be anxious, those who scold others are scolding others, which is equivalent to scolding themselves. Because they belong to the same human race as we are, if you think about it, when he scolds others, he treats himself as an alternative, the answer is, of course, no, so when he insults others, he insults himself and !!

This is a matter of other people's character quality, don't pay attention to them, how to live and how to live, just have a clear conscience!

Don't think about it so much, the network is illusory, you turn off the computer and there will be nothing, be a civilized person, others scold you, it's better not to scold back, because this will only make more contradictions, you can also block her and report her, if the time is too wasteful on scolding.

Think about why you are always scolded, the reason is **, if it is your own problem, you have to reflect.

You can find someone to vent your anger too, don't you.

Hello, I don't know who this person is, whether it's a stranger or a friend, or family. If it's a stranger, I think I'll let him say it. If it's a friend or family member, I suggest you talk to them because you don't want to be insulted like that.

Some people say that you have to be patient, but when you can't bear it anymore, you will fight back. It's all over and over again, and you haven't said anything yet, then you're finished.

scolded once, endured it, took a step back and opened the sky; scolding again, the liver fire rises, and the anger is suppressed; The third time I scolded, I didn't say much, and I went down with a stick.

A pig-killing knife waited on his way.

Choose to stay away, no general knowledge is required.

If you can't avoid it, you can record a lawsuit.

At worst, it's scolding, but it doesn't make any sense.

Go and sue her, you can call the police, or pay it back, some people just owe a beating, and she won't scold if she breaks her mouth, and some people owe a beating.

Find the police station or the leader of their unit, ask the matter clearly, find the reason, and solve it reasonably.

I must go back, otherwise I will bully you next time.

If there is danger involved in scolding, call the police to deal with it.

The girl asks you, someone scolds him, you don't care, it depends on what relationship you are prepared to deal with, if your girlfriend is bullied, then you must be in charge. This girl is using you as her flower messenger!

This obviously wants you to speak for her, so you can help her, if you don't help her, she may be angry.

You should say that if someone bullies you, I must take care of it.

If you are bitten by a dog, will you bite it back too! Fight back with wisdom, and tell me the cause and effect without concealing it. I'm good at making a move!

Persuade him to figure out what's going on first, it's best not to mess around without being clear, just be a listener.

If that's the case, I'm because you can say what you think in your own heart, don't say something welcome, because how to say it? That is, well, a friend? Boyfriend and girlfriend will get married, and you must say something realistic.

What is there to answer this, the person who asked this question was either kicked in the head by a donkey or deliberately wanted bad people and good deeds, so the easiest way is to scold back directly and say to the person who asked this question, "You are not worthy of being my son, I don't have this kind of son who has been caught by the door".