It may be a little messy, but I still hope that everyone will remarry after reading it carefully?

Such a man should leave him as soon as possible, he is a duplicity, immature person, he is just dragging with you now, once he has a new goal, he will inevitably leave you.

The whole man whose psychological state is not very stable is really unreliable, if you use the happiness of the second half of your life to bet on whether he is sincere to you, I advise you to weigh it in your heart and then decide.

Maybe you've made him feel constrained and no longer free, or the door-to-door incident has made him worry, or maybe he's thinking too much! The two of them sat down to have a good chat and ask about his demands, talk about your demands, and the two of them were honest with each other and worked together to solve the current problem!

I think love is mutual, it is equal, you love a little humble, sometimes you lose yourself, such a marriage will not be happy, you should break up and start anew.

Nowadays, people's marriages are not very reliable, the main reason is that women are too materialistic and have no feelings at all, to put it bluntly, you have to have money to find any woman with you. Advise men who have no money not to get married, otherwise they will be from head to toe in the future.

I feel a little sorry for you after reading your description, long-distance relationship is really hard, I think you may not know him very well, he used to be good to you, maybe he was chasing you, and he satisfied his vanity when he got it, but he is not a person who wants to live with him for a lifetime, if he loves you very much, he should always be good to you. So I advise you to make a decision and find happiness again.

It's already in hand, and I may not want to be a son-in-law, and I don't want to work hard.

If I had the opportunity to choose again, I would never choose to get married again, because as a woman, after getting married, I would quarrel with my husband and my mother-in-law over trivial matters at home. Compared with Rihan Jianzi when he was single alone, he thinks that he is still living a chic and comfortable life alone. However, if you don't get married, you may also be urged by your parents to get married earlier.

When there is no choice in life, since you choose to enter marriage, you should take marriage seriously.

Choose to get married. For contemporary young people, they generally have regrets after getting married, mainly because their consciousness after marriage is completely different from that before marriage. Before getting married, I thought that two people came together because of love, but after marriage, it will not make the relationship between two people better because of their simple love.

Generally, because of family trivialities, women gradually lose their faith in marriage. If there is a real opportunity to choose again, it is likely that the vast majority of women will not consider getting married again.

The harm of marriage to children.

Even for today's women, divorce can be considered when they choose to get married, but because it is inevitable that the harm to children will be considered when considering divorce. continued to live in a stalemate because of the children, and it was clear that the two of them had a difficult sense of marriage, but they had to choose to be together. No one's marriage can be smoothly together, mainly because two people run in at different times together, and they will also show the worst side of two people in the eyes of each other.

Two people get along.

Regardless of whether you get married or not, there will be both kinds of things, and when people don't want to, most people think of getting married mainly to be able to find a mutually supportive partner for themselves in old age. When I was young, I didn't realize the importance of young couples and old companions, and I only really stepped into the life of old limbs. To be able to realize that marriage is just about wanting to talk in old age, to be able to find someone to accompany you.

This question has really been considered, if I say goodbye to my husband, I will not remarry, summing up the marriage, the man is too troublesome, unreliable, I have to serve him in life, I will not balance the relationship between my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, I have to endure it, this is just a personal idea. First of all, mine is, it will! Remarriage shows that I am willing to accept everything from the other party, and both parties make a joint decision after thinking twice, after all, no one wants to divorce again, and a fool is not willing to go through that painful desperate situation again.

So even for the sake of yourself and this new family, you must love each other and each other's children!

However, the remarried family relationship is complicated, human nature is selfish, blood kinship is what everyone cares about the most, the other party should also respect me, love my children, have empathy, the family will be harmonious, and love each other is more perfect! But what you said that the other party loves the child like his own child, this problem depends on the person, after all, it is not pro, you can't beat and scold, love the house and Wu also have to be between the child and the stepmother, there are still many good people in the world, it depends on fate, and it depends on how you reconcile better in the middle, moreover, I think that remarriage still has to have a common child, to be more like a family.

If I were given another chance, I would choose to get married. Here's why:

First, marriage has allowed me to grow.

When I was alone, I lived a very casual life and did whatever I wanted. Doing nothing leads to nothing. At that time, I was eating fried rice and fast food outside every day, and after four or five years, my family asked me to shred the ginger and I couldn't even do it.

At the same time, it is also very unhygienic, whether it is where to live, what to wear or use, it is a mess, like a messy kennel. Every time I drank, I got drunk, and sometimes I was so drunk that I went to the hospital for an infusion and almost fell unconscious. But after getting married, whether it is life or work, you have made great progress, you have learned basic life skills, you have learned restraint, you have learned to control your emotions, you have matured in the eyes of others, and you have grown up in your own eyes.

So, marriage can make people grow.

Second, marriage gives people a sense of belonging.

When you are single, no matter where you go, you feel like you are drifting, like dandelions scattered in the air, with no direction and no destination. But after getting married, no matter how you go, you still have worries, and you want to go home. Some people say that marriage is a besieged city, people in the city want to get out, and people outside the city want to go in.

But a person who has really experienced marriage, even if you let him choose a hundred more times, he will choose to enter the marriage hall. Because marriage brings people a sense of belonging.

Third, marriage makes people painful and happy, and makes life complete.

There are all kinds of chickens ruined and returned to the dogs in marriage, there are all kinds of chicken feathers, there are all kinds of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, and there are also all kinds of troubles. However, marriage also makes people happy. When the family sits together for a reunion dinner, when the crystallization of your love is born, when you celebrate the birthday of the elderly and children, when you lie down together and talk about your work troubles, etc., you are all happy.

Marriage makes your life more complete and gives you the joy of having three or even four generations in the same house. If there is no marriage, perhaps, life is incomplete.

Fourth, marriage brings you companionship.

We all say that old companionship means that marriage is family affection and companionship in the end. When we are young, we can be unscrupulous, we can feed the whole family by ourselves without going hungry, and we can do whatever we want. But when you're older, what you need is the company of another person.

We have friends and relatives, but marriage is the most stable companion, and no one can replace the other half.

Anyway, if I had to get given another chance, I would still choose to get married. Because marriage makes me grow, marriage gives me a sense of belonging, marriage makes me happy, and makes my life more complete.

1. If divorced and widowed, I first choose the widowed, the widowed children accept it willingly, and also avoid breaking the thread with the ex-wife in the name of the child, many divorced, the child is the eyes of the ex-wife, the ex-wife behind the scenes instructed the child to make it difficult for the stepmother, no matter how much the stepmother pays, do not appreciate it, it will make the remarriage go to the other thing, no matter how beautiful the love is, most men will finally choose family affection, so that the later misery. Hunger.

2. If I remarry, I want to look at the other party's children, the children are of good quality, support the parents to remarry, bless the parents, and I will consider it. A marriage that is not blessed by children is destined to be unhappy.

Most of today's children are selfish, and when they hear that their parents are remarried, it is as if a robber is coming to the house, lest they hurt their own interests.

3. If the other party's child is very young, I don't think about it, I shouldn't be a stepmother. It's not that I don't have love, it's hard to be a stepmother, you can reprimand a few words when your child makes you angry, and you can beat a few times when you are angry, because you are biological, this is disciplining him, but if the role of the stepmother, you are in charge of the church and the other party is positioned as abuse, because there is no blood relationship, you can't say which sentence is wrong will be held by the other party, and finally settle accounts after the autumn, how much energy does a woman have in the relationship.