I broke up with my couple because I was afraid of studying, and I felt very uncomfortable in my hear

Updated on psychology 2024-04-02
41 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I don't know if you're a boy or a girl. Young people learn the most important thing. Before the age of 24 is the best time to learn, the learning content includes basic cultural knowledge, university higher education, the study of social practical labor professional skills, etc., learn these well, at the age of 24 to start a business, for example, apply for the civil service examination, apply for the state-owned enterprise staff, to find a job in a large private company, or to open their own company, business, etc., slowly carry out the accumulation of original capital.

    If you love this couple of yours very much, and this couple of yours also has a crush on you, you should show your love to him or her and say that you have to study first and then start a business, and if he or she really loves you, he or she will wait for you. Marx said it well: people must first have a material foundation, and then they must have a superstructure, and they must first have strong financial strength before they can talk about marriage. Marriage is not simply two people living together, people also have to eat, dress, housing, see a doctor, have children, raise children, pay for children's education and living expenses, support the elderly on both sides, etc., you ask yourself, are you ready for all this?

    Of course, if you have regarded each other as lifelong partners, you can also fly together and work together.

    But in any case, it should not affect learning. You must not be hot-headed and ask for marriage without any material basis. When you both encounter poverty after marriage, he or she will regret leaving you.

    I wish you success in your career and get your beloved. May there be lovers in the world who will eventually become married, and may every family live a happy and prosperous life.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Learn to give up, your main contradiction is to study, learn to regulate your mood, if you are afraid of delaying learning, it means that you have not been able to deal with the ability to deal with the relationship between love and learning, you are still young, put love away, if you are truly in love, there is fate, you will still be together in the end, hehe.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    And I said, "If you have a conflict between your studies and your relationship, then when you graduate, your work will also be at odds with your relationship."

    Actually, you can really try to do both.

    Of course, the most important thing is to be happy o( o

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Study and don't contradict your partner, why break up. Now it's affecting learning, so let's get it back.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    After watching the story of Hayao Miyazaki's cartoon "Listen Closely", the two encourage each other to learn from each other and strive for their own ideals, which is very different from the idea of many teenagers today who read good books to make a lot of money.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    What I wrote below, you must take a look, patiently try for a few minutes, experience the psychological feelings, you may find the ultimate method of all mental illness, of course, it can also be used as an aid. Well, my real experience, when the heart is uncomfortable, I will recite the four words of Amitabha, and experience the feeling of touching and peaceful and soft in my heart when I recite the Buddha, and the mood will slowly become relaxed, full of hope, and I will think about it with one mind, try not to think about anything, I will experience the change in my heart, from melancholy to happiness, and feel that everything is indifferent to the kind of relaxation, just get it by reciting Amitabha, first recite it for 10 minutes to try, and you will feel it yourself. Don't think about anything else, just recite Amitabha Buddha with all your heart.

    Slowly, your heart will be calm and strong.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Everyone experiences something unforgettable.

    Some things are not something that can be forgotten if you want to.

    It may be said that time can decide 1 cut.

    You can let the passage of time slowly forget.

    You can also find another person to forget.

    Although it was cruelly unfair to that person.

    If you really find it, try to let go of the past and start accepting another 1 relationship.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Unfortunate people, but this kind of unfortunate encounter seems to happen to many people, including me. How did I get out? THINK ...

    It's a friend, and it's a friend who doesn't usually know me very well, one day I asked me to eat, and after dinner, we went to K song together, and the two men went together, and they didn't ask anyone to accompany them, and they bragged while singing, and he went out in the middle, I was alone, just put it in Zhou Huajian's Forget Worry Grass, I sang it over and over again, and when my friend came back, I was already full of tears, which scared him. From that day on, I gradually forgot about her, and occasionally I only had a headache when I remembered it, and a year later I was in love again... Bless your friend and hope you get used to life without her as soon as possible.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Take something plastic (be good, don't fall and rot, don't do that, don't use it) and fall enough, (find a place where no one is, otherwise others will be scared by you, and your loss will be great) out of the sulking in your heart, otherwise you will be suffocated, and your brain will be easily short-circuited.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Instead of being decadent, discouraged, and sad, it is better to plant another seed of expectation in your heart.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Repeatedly:

    There is a reason for this breakup, and the reason is to make room for my true happiness next time!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you know it's uncomfortable, don't break up and chase it back. Girls are easy to be soft-hearted.

    The premise is that you still love each other deeply.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Who proposed to break up, don't you feel it?

    If she brings it up, it means that she doesn't love you or she thinks you're not suitable for her, then you have to get out of the sea of suffering, forget her a little bit, time will fade, try it, if it's you, then don't bother yourself, find the real her in your heart as soon as possible.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You don't need a reason to cheer up, it's just a thought.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Uncomfortable is a certainty.

    Looking back. Letting go isn't actually a bad thing.

    Liberate herself and release her.

    Give up what you love. Free yourself.

    Do what you want.

    Make yourself the best you can be.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Time can solve all problems, and time is not a problem if it is all problems.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I'm almost there, and I've had a bad relationship lately, so it's annoying.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    There is a loss, there is a gain! Remember this sentence!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Compound ball, she loves money, can you accept it? Unless you can satisfy her with money for everything, wait until she runs out of money before leaving you?

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Congratulations. That's a good thing. Otherwise, it will be even worse if you get married.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    can't get back together, this kind of woman is not a person who lives a life.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I also have a long distance with my girlfriend, I haven't seen her for two years, in fact, it's not that difficult, the main thing is communication, you can still see her on vacation. So as long as you really like it, you will get through it. It's not yours, and it's useless for you to give up more.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    As long as the relationship between the two parties is deep, in fact, you don't have to do this, you have to study hard and make yourself better, so that your girlfriend can get a more perfect self. can make your girlfriend even more desperate for you.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If you really love each other, you have to learn to be considerate of each other, long-distance relationships are very painful, and your girlfriend is not there when you need you the most, but if you don't have a career in the future, you will be abandoned in a good relationship, because the needs of girls in each period are different, she wants you to accompany her now, and she will want you to give her a better life in the future.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If you are in school, it is recommended to go to school first, and your girlfriend will also have to be contacted. If you pass the test in the end, you will come together eventually. Besides, it's impossible for you not to go to school and be with her every day.

    So men, you have to do what you have to do. What about you, for now, do your best and do what you have to do. Fail, it's all fate.

    Academic qualifications are really important. If you don't go to school, you'll have to do heavy work in the future, unless, of course, your family is particularly wealthy. Own business.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Long-distance couples, the most basic requirement is trust, trust is a very key part, and then there is the insistence on feelings, self-confidence in treating emotions, although communication is very developed, but it is not as good as being tired of being together all day, and must bear the loneliness, loneliness, and helplessness.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I think you should persevere, although it is not easy to say, but do you really want to give up? You may have given up on your parents' hopes and the halfway to success. Of course, it will be uncomfortable to be uprooted from home, but you can't be by your parents' side for the rest of your life, you have to learn to be self-reliant, although you are homesick, you must not give up.

    When you want to go home, you think: if I go back, then I will not live up to my parents' expectations of me for so long, although I want you to live a better life, but I send you to study in other places is to let you learn to be independent. I used to have a hard time going to school, I always wanted to go to school, I wanted to use illness as an excuse, but before I knew it, I had already embarked on the road to school, since I was halfway there, did you give up or continue?

    If we can't get through this bit of hardship, what will happen to the greater difficulties in the future? Running back to your parents?

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    How old are you? Can you tell me your age first.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    I've been with him for two years, he loves me, and I love him, and now I don't know what to do, he's 30 years old, I'm 22 years old, and he told me at the beginning that he was married, and he didn't cheat on me, I really didn't know what to do, and I was reluctant to break up, and he told me to wait for him for two years, and the economic conditions were better, and the child was older, and he had a son when he was two years old, and he divorced, and his friend also told me that it was wrong for him to marry his wife, what should I do? It's a true relationship, and they miss each other if they don't see each other for a day or two Her wife probably should know that there is such a person as me He often doesn't come home His sister also knows that there are people outside him Sometimes she is thinking about how dirty she is destroying other people's families I want to leave but I am reluctant Do you really want to leave the city for one person? What to do? I also had a ** surgery for him last year.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Call ** to him. Say what you want to say to him.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Time will dilute everything, give yourself some space and don't be stupid! If he really loves you, he won't feel the love you give.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Don't be sad Since the fate is over, let it pass, stretch out your arms and embrace the breeze, feel the spring, summer, autumn and winter, cheer up and welcome the new day, you just have no chance with her on the road of life, there will be people who are destined with you to walk through the road of life with you. Believe it.

    Take a break for a while. Make the most of this time and do what you want. If you think it's right, do it.

    If you talk to your close friends, you will naturally feel better. Usually, you should often decompress yourself, and when you have troubles, don't drill the horns of the bull and think about the benefits. Slowly, the knots in my heart melted.

    How to get out of a broken love?

    Laughing at life, but also to cultivate an optimistic and open-minded healthy psychology. Lift your spirits, look to the future, and don't dwell on the love setbacks in front of you.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Hello I understand your feelings, it is very painful and uncomfortable Letting go is a kind of happiness, and it will not hurt the other party I believe that time is rushing to talk about everything, and it will make you forget the past Love is to let lovers taste happiness and joy, like a candy, and it is also to make lovers taste pain and sadness, like a poison. I want you to come out of the failed love and start to face the wonderfulness of life again, and you will find the wonder of life and the beginning of love. You relax and have the courage to wish your ex-girlfriend happiness.

    Pain is short-lived, happiness will begin to come Don't give up on yourself Drinking alcohol is not to make you forget the past, it is not to make you not painful, not sad, it will be more painful, stress I believe you will be able to come out of the shadows Go and play with your friends, you can forget for a while, and the joy is much more Come on

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    It's true. I am a believer in the saying: Love is easy to forget, and it is difficult to forget others.

    I just want to forget about him now, but I can't help but think about him every day.

    If you have to bear the pain, you have to bear it yourself.

    It's nothing, because I'm a girl and I can get through it.

    Can't you Maybe a girl who loves you very much is waiting for you, oh, think about happy things, and don't think about it.

    Hang out with your friends and have fun, and maybe forget about it.

    Give it a try.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Psychologically uncomfortable, I must have not forgotten her.

    If you really want to love her and want to live a beautiful road together, then please turn back.

    Dude, be kind to yourself.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Breaking up with your girlfriend is not a big deal, love depends on fate, your time has not come, do your career first and then create opportunities, you will definitely be able to find someone who really loves you.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Well. Cheer up, you'll get better. Cry if you want to, don't force yourself to pretend to be strong.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Eat and sleep on time, don't listen to the sad **, if he (she) is not your fate, it proves that there is a more suitable person waiting for you in front of you

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Friend, go find a new girlfriend, and after talking to her, you will slowly forget the old one.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Compatriots, compatriots!

    We're both the same, but I'm going to tell you, don't do anything stupid!

    No matter how hard you work, the first is whether you can save ---

    If you really can't do it, you can see her one last time, and let her confess to him later!

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Then change to a woman to love.

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