Love is very tired and bitter, should I persevere?

Updated on society 2024-04-15
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    There are problems with the starting point of your relationship, one is that there is no emotional foundation. The second is that just because the relationship between the parents is good, you subconsciously accept her, do you need a lover or a relative. The third is to give a bride price, and in terms of the situation, you have identified her as your future wife.

    I haven't seen any love from beginning to end, and the time is so short, how can I feel it! You are troubled, and she feels the same way.

    Do you think about whether you really love her first? If so, ask her out and calmly ask her if the pressure is also from both parents. If you don't have feelings, and you subconsciously don't dare to resist, girls will react like this.

    If so, you also speak out about your troubles. Let's see if she is still willing, if not, the two of you will go to the parents together and say that there is no other feeling like brother and sister. If she is still willing, don't worry, postpone the marriage, cultivate a relationship with her first, both parties feel suitable and then get married, a lifetime of sloppy things, she must think that the relationship between the two of you is good, dare not say it hurts the hearts of you and your parents, you don't want to be too dull.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Seeing you say that, she doesn't care about you at all. If the two of them really love each other, it is impossible not to always want to be together, just say that there is pressure.

    I'm making a bold guess if she's dating someone else behind your back.

    It's good to be the original self, there is no need to deliberately accommodate, if you get married, you find that you are different before and after marriage, and you will not blow up the camp.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Change your own attitude towards her, suddenly snub her for a while, if she feels uncomfortable and hints, you should stick to it, otherwise, I still advise you to let go!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The two of you should find a time to talk, preferably just the two of you, and talk ahead to put your current relationship aside. Just talk about what each of you think of each other, whether you like it or whether you can't say you like it because of the relationship. Then you're deciding whether to stick with it or not to stick with it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I support my statement that I went upstairs.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Brother, what is too easy to get, will not be cherished, you know? You can't be obedient to women, you have to be domineering occasionally.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I'm just like you, my girlfriend is going to break up, I can't sleep every day, I can't eat. Depending on your situation, I can only tell you, go after it, don't be afraid, sometimes scoundrels are good. But from my own point of view, it's important to find someone who loves you, it's really tiring to love someone, I want to die now, and I haven't found a good way.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's a very simple thing, she doesn't look down on you, she doesn't like you, her heart is higher than the sky, and she thinks she will find something better. Because there is no better one around me now, I am helpless to be at the mercy of my parents.

    If you don't know how to cherish you, don't be nostalgic for her.

    Would you like to marry such a woman for the rest of your life? Bitter to death for you! I don't know how to care about you, selfish, and I always look at the man outside the wall.

    It's not worth it! Let it go, there are many women, and there are always people who know the goods.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You have to think it's worth it, and you can see the future and stick to it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You have to hurry up and understand, otherwise it will be troublesome to get married, what if your parents are friends, if you don't love to be together, sooner or later, I feel that your buddy is as affectionate as me, and she is dedicated to her feelings, if she is kind and single-minded in her feelings, she will love you in the future if she doesn't love you now, if she is not, it's better not to tell the truth together, even if you don't want the money for the engagement, don't force it together.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Love is a feeling, not a responsibility, say I love you, why add forever, the speaker has a heart will inevitably feel guilty, and the listener will not be able to escape sadness if he has a heart. ”

    It's me who is too stupid, and because of your love, I am convinced; It's me who is so stupid, and just because of your love, I lost my heart and was hurt.

    You said you love me, but I forgot to ask you how true this love is. If you say love, I will believe it, love to the end, too hurt and tired.

    I never thought that love was such a tiring thing, and only after I really experienced it, I knew that not all love can bring happiness.

    I've loved you for so many years, I'm really tired, and I can't hold on to things that I grit my teeth for, I should let go.

    It is said that it is easy to let go, but it is too difficult to let go, but no matter how difficult it is, I have insisted on such a difficult thing as loving you, let alone letting go.

    It's too tired to love you, it's time for me to let go, not because I don't love, but because I don't have the strength to love anymore.

    If I can love you for a long time, if I can see your true heart, why am I here? It is your indifference and betrayal that push love into the abyss step by step, and if you fall, you will be crushed.

    I thought that my tenderness would move you, and I thought that my persistence would be rewarded, but I have loved one so far, and I can't hold on to it after all.

    It's really tiring to take the initiative to love someone, and I was doomed to this ending early on, but I still refused to believe it. In the final analysis, it was my own obsession that brought me a lifetime of pain.

    In the end, I still can't bear to blame you, I still love you so much. But I also know very well that only by letting go of you can I be truly liberated.

    It's too tiring to love you, it's time for me to let go, it may be a long and painful process, but I have to persevere. I would like to give you back your freedom, just for the rest of your life to be easy.

    I used to think that love is the most beautiful thing in this world, and after love, I found that love is the most hurtful ** in this world. You have come near to me in the name of love, but you have hurt me with love.

    I was still immersed in the sweetness of love, but I was stabbed in the heart by you, I didn't bleed or shed tears, but I heard clearly, the voice of my heart broken.

    Tolerance again and again, in exchange for hurt again and again, I should have been sober a long time ago, but I still have hope, thinking that you have me in your heart.

    Only now do I really understand that I am just a passing visitor on your long road of life, and that you are close to me, just to pity me for being too lonely.

    Yes, it's too lonely to be alone, but it's better to be lonely than to be scarred. I love it so far, I'd rather continue to be lonely than be hurt by you again. I'm tired, I'll let you go now.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    When love is tired and painful in the relationship, there is no need to continue to insist, in the relationship, remember not to compromise, do not wronged yourself at any time, so there is no need to insist.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    This kind of thing is mutual, and it must be very tiring to be alone all the time, and I don't think I should stick to it since I'm tired.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Really good love should be two people together very relaxed, if you feel very tired must be problematic, you may have a big gap in other aspects of personality, or insist on this key depends on yourself, it is useless for you to ask others, because you are the party, if you feel that you can still insist, then insist on communicating with him, if you feel that you don't want to insist, you should make your own decisions.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You are not living for others, and if you put all your energy into others, you will have nothing. When people live, they must think more about themselves and live for themselves, so that life can be meaningful.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I'll cut it short here! This is a very human question, everyone has their own choice, come according to your own heart, just don't let yourself regret it!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Mourning is greater than heart death, and tiredness is greater than heart tiredness. A person's greatest fatigue is that he is tired, but there is no one to talk to.

    When a person is physically tired, he can stop and rest for a while to refresh himself. Tired of heart? Can you make your heart stop and rest? When the heart is tired, it takes a long time to self-comfort and self-mediate.

    The person who says he forgets is often the one who remembers the most.

    What makes you confused, what makes you want to cry without tears. I've slowly gotten used to not needing someone to talk to. There was no urge to confide, and all that was left was the subtle heartbeat of his own.

    Others say that the current self belongs to the kind of person who lies flat. But who knows what is really going on in their hearts.

    Sitting alone on the balcony at night, smoking a cigarette. Look out into the dark night. Then he smiled and said to himself.

    No matter how hard and tired you are, you have to persevere. If you don't experience a little wind and rain, how can you know how capable you are? Originally, I didn't have anything, and I was afraid of losing something.

    At most, it's all about starting over. As long as people don't die, they have a chance.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    True love is not tired of kissing, hello. Loving someone can be painful, crying, and lonely. I've heard a quote like this:

    Loneliness begins when you fall in love with someone. Love must continue to give, to maintain this relationship with heart, to love a person is to bear a part of the pain for him, for him she is worried about being tired, if you really love him and her, she would rather sacrifice herself, but also want him to be happy, even if she suffers, she will be tired, I think even if you are very tired, as long as you see the smiling face of the person you love, you will be very gratified, it doesn't matter if you are tired, this is happiness. No matter what kind of love it is, only by giving, will you feel the feeling of true love, and a staggered look will be happy.

    If it is one-sided love, it will be more tiring, trap yourself in his world, protect him and her, as long as he and she are happy, it is your happiness, love is not afraid to give, love someone is not afraid to be tired, love is not to take, it may be very unfair, but for the person you love, everything is worth it. Loving someone is hard but enjoyable. Everything in the world is two-sided.

    If it's unrequited love, it's more hard than pleasant. If both parties love each other and have the same three views, it is more enjoyable than hard. Why do you love each other and have the same three views?

    That is, everyone has their own thinking activities, and no matter how good two objects are, there will always be differences in thinking when they are together. Therefore, there will also be hardships.

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