When you want to have a pure love, how to adjust your psychology?

Everyone wants to have a sincere relationship, and this sincere relationship will have a very great meaning for our life. But many times we have no choice, and when we wait for the right person for us, we will feel very anxious and fall in love. When I feel very anxious, I think I can adjust my mindset in the following ways

1. Do what you like to doOnly when you do what you like to do can you devote yourself wholeheartedly and let your emotions be relieved, such as feeling very anxious because you can't find your soul mate for a long time. Then I will learn to devote all my time and energy to the cause I love, and slowly I will naturally calm down and be a rational person, instead of regretting it for the rest of my life because of a momentary impulse. <>

2. Expand your circle of friends. The reason why I long for a love, but I can't get it, is because my circle of friends is too narrow, and there is no way to meet a person who can really resonate with my soul with my three views. When you want to find a soul mate of your own, then try to expand your circle of friends, try to contact people, interact with people, and slowly and naturally find the person who resonates with your soul.

If you never interact with others, you will naturally not know what kind of advantages others have, and only in the process of understanding each other, can you know what kind of character the other person is, what kind of advantages and disadvantages they have. <>

3. Don't compromise on love. There should be a sense of bottom line and rationality, that is, never compromise on love, if you choose a love, the final result will be a tragedy. Therefore, you must always learn to wait for your love to make yourself better and better, and you will naturally be able to meet your true love.

Personally, I think that if we want to have a pure love, then we must get rid of our bad habits, have good words and deeds, and we can be happier.

If you want an innocent love, then you have to work hard and socialize yourself, but you can't be hungry and lose your judgment.

Then you need to make yourself understand whether it is possible for you to have such a love, and you need to give yourself the opportunity to have it.

Then the heart should be adjusted, let yourself find this pure love, and then let your heart always maintain a sense of innocence

I am especially eager to get a pure love, although this is what everyone thinks, but we must constantly adjust, and we must strive for this love when we see that we are suitable.

Tell yourself that many of the so-called good loves have fallen apart, so keep a normal mind and look at this matter rationally.

Tell yourself that many couples who seem to be very loving have already divorced, so don't expect too much from love.

Tell yourself that love can change a lot, don't be too persistent, and don't be too superstitious.

You must tell yourself that love is only a part of life, and you must not treat love as the whole of life.

If you want to be comprehensive, think about the other person's shortcomings first, so that slowly you will not be so obsessed, and you will be more sensible.

You can find something that interests you to do, or you can go for a run, because running is the best way to adjust your mindset.

Use nine points of strength to fall in love, use one point of strength to protect yourself, and tell yourself that love is never the whole of life, and don't care too much about gaining or losing.

In love, we must do our best, don't blindly give, we must keep a certain distance from each other, and adhere to semi-sugarism, only in this way can we have greater help to the relationship and better adjust our mentality.

When we are very obsessed with love, we must first keep a clear head, and keep a calm view of this love, and we must keep our bottom line.

If you want to adjust your mentality, then you should first let yourself face your love with the right attitude, and then you must be calm and not too obsessed.

When you want to have a pure love, you should love without considering gains and losses, simple enough, and without utilitarianism.

If you want to have pure love, you must first make yourself better, and then when you have love, you must cherish this love and devote yourself to this feeling.

Then let yourself become optimistic and cheerful, let yourself continue to become excellent, and there will naturally be pure love.