I want to have a sincere relationship, but I have been suppressing my feelings

Updated on psychology 2024-02-26
37 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    True love is hard to find,,It's your blessing to meet... If you meet the right girl,,She is willing to struggle with you,,Then boldly pursue,,Sometimes,,Rich is not necessarily the only measure of happiness,,You love her,,Pamper,,Love her,,Care for her,,This is more valuable than Wanguan's property,,, sometimes you have to consider what happiness is from the girl's position and perspective,,And give her such happiness,As for your fear of losing,,It means that you are not strong enough,,People live to the extreme,,Finally,,It is plain and simple,,,You need love,, You pursue a girl,,After you get it,,It's best that she can be with you all the time.,,If you change your mind,,It's also a normal objective law.。。 You only have to review ** to do not enough,,Correct,,Or recover,,If the other party has decided,How you can redeem it,The right thing to do,,It's to let go.。。。

    Happy love requires two people to attract each other, love each other, and tolerate... Can't be afraid of losing, don't talk about it, it's too negative, it's too cowardly, Lu Xun has a saying, it's hard for a real warrior to face the bleak life,

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    LZ said. I have feelings and I agree.

    First of all, you said that you are now in the stage of self-employment, so do you know what is most needed at this stage? It's not about how many connections, funds. It is the motivation to support your efforts.

    You can give it to yourself, and others can give it to you. If you feel like you can persevere, work hard. Make your own piece of the world...

    At that time, you have the material capital to give you the happiness of the woman you love, and if you don't have that ability, you can find someone else to look forward to. It is the goal of the effort, the reason to struggle.

    So from a certain point of view, having a girlfriend during the startup should not necessarily be a bad thing. Get your mindset right

    Then LZ is afraid of losing his feelings.,And longing for it.。。 It's a sign of indecision, isn't it, a man hesitates and can't achieve anything. Dare to fight and dare to break through.

    Don't think about losing the relationship in the possession, so that you are living in the future sadness, you can't feel the happiness of the present, there are tens of millions of couples in the world breaking up every day, and it's a big deal to say it's ugly.

    Past tense, don't let him get in the way of the present. affects the happiness of the future. Complete.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    First of all, I envy the buddies upstairs, the children are two months old. Secondly, little brother, don't hesitate, you must continue to work hard, anyone's life will have ups and downs, but you must bravely step forward, a beautiful life has just begun. Come on!

    Secondly, love is a delicate thing. It's sweet, but there's something else to it. Love needs to be experienced and grasped by yourself, and what others say is just an experience and opinion, which may not be suitable for you.

    If you love, go and confess. Don't be afraid if you fail. Your share of love will come.

    What I want to say is to grasp a degree and not get too involved. In short, may you be happy, little brother. Finally, I think it's a useful word.

    When your career is successful, it is also when the flower of love blooms.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Before I was 25 years old, I was always single, I kept thinking, wait until I make money and then find a girl I like to marry, with money can give her happiness, but two business failures, the capital is lost, and I can only work for others. It was only last year that someone in my family introduced me to someone, and we met and chatted. I told her that I had nothing, and I was still working part-time, I thought she would hesitate after hearing this, but she said that she had never thought of finding a very rich person to marry, as long as the two of them had a good relationship and lived a simple life, they would feel happy.

    I was very touched and changed my mind, and then we got married, and now our sons are two months old. Hehe.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Young people have to encounter some setbacks, some adversity, in order to grow.

    Face it bravely, if it is good times in the future, you will also have a good marriage, and if it is adversity, you will also get the nutrients for growth, making you more mature and attractive.

    But this kind of thing still has to be fate, don't fall in love for the sake of falling in love, and take this relationship seriously.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Go with the flow, don't deliberately pursue anything. As I sang in the song: what you chase will eventually be lost, and what you get is always inadvertent.

    Hehe, maybe you understand it when you're thirty.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    There are many times when it is not perfect.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you want love, don't be afraid of the future, and move forward bravely.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    This is what you are pursuing, but you feel that there is something wrong with your pursuit.

    First, you can reflect on why you find this pursuit problematic.

    Is it because of the general social perception or do you think you can't find such feelings?

    In fact, as Sigmund Freud said, "Mentally healthy people always work hard and love others." As long as you can do these two things, there is nothing difficult about the rest."

    For love, love can bring us spiritual pleasure, spiritual pleasure, then we will always have confidence in the face of various things, and we can always deal with the difficulties brought by these lives. Good love is like a magic weapon, it can drive away a lot of unhappiness in your life.

    You may also be able to reflect on why you want a genuine relationship because you received little love and relationships in your family during your childhood, or your previous relationships were always frustrated.

    In many cases, if you calm down and follow the clues, you will know what you want and why.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    There are many things that need to be done in a person's life, and there are many important things for you personally, sincere feelings are important for a person, but they are not necessarily the first, so sincere feelings should be cherished, and other things should not be ignored.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Nowadays, people's feelings are very realistic.

    Affection is hard to come by.

    Don't put all your eggs in one basket.

    There are so many things to do in life

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Feelings will become, it is better to put the improvement of yourself in the first place.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    No problem It mainly depends on what you think.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

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  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    The full line should be: "There was once a sincere love in front of me, but I didn't cherish it." I regret it when I lose it, and there is nothing more painful in the world than this.

    If Heaven could give me a chance to do it again, I would say three words to you: 'I love you'. If I had to put a deadline on this love, I would like it to be 10,000 years! ”

    This line is from Stephen Chow's starring "Journey to the West: The Great Sage Marrying" (also known as "Journey to the West: Cinderella"), which is a classic nonsensical funny romance film produced and produced by Stephen Chow Caixing Film Company in 1994, the film is the second part of the "Journey to the West" series, directed by Liu Zhenwei, written by Ji'an, produced by Stephen Chow, starring Stephen Chow, Zhu Yin, Karen Mok, Cai Shaofen and others.

    The film mainly tells the story of Supreme Treasure traveling back to five hundred years ago in order to save Bai Jingjing, having a relationship after meeting Zixia Fairy and finally growing into Sun Wukong. It premiered in Hong Kong on February 4, 1995 and was shortlisted for the Best Screenplay Award at the 15th Hong Kong Film Awards, for which Stephen Chow won the Best Actor Award at the 1st Hong Kong Film Golden Bauhinia Awards and the Best Actor Award at the 2nd Hong Kong Film Critics Society Awards.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I used to have some sincere feelings around me, but I didn't cherish it at the time, and I didn't regret it until I lost it, if God could really give me another chance, I would definitely cherish it!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If I were to give this love a deadline, I would like it to be 10,000 years.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    You must think about the major events of your life. It could be your girlfriend's angry remarks. Go to her house and make amends to her. Your wedding date is set.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's just a little episode before you get married, so love your ex-girlfriend well, buddy.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    On a dark and terrifying night in the moon, I am the Supreme Treasure You are Bai Jingjing, and the wonderful love starts from this fire on the bridge. As soon as I turned around, you suddenly pointed at me, and my whole hand was on fire.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    There was once a sincere love in front of me, but I didn't cherish it, and I regretted it when I lost it, the most painful thing in the world is nothing more than this, if God gives me another chance to never give me three words; I love you! If I had to add a period of time to this relationship, I think it would be 10,000 years.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Darkness Chen Cang Ming repair plank road.

    Comfortable and leisurely. You can think about it carefully, and I don't know below.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Please cherish everyone who loves you, we usually leave kindness to a stranger, not the person we love, you just need to remember that there is a person who has always loved you, life and death, it is enough, you don't have to ask.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Men don't always pretend to be the boss in front of your girlfriend, call you the boss because she is the boss but you must not think that you are the boss, if that, it will be a matter of time before she leaves you.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Ask the world, what is love, and the direct religion promises life and death?

    There are double flyers in the south and the north, and the old wings have been cold and hot several times.

    Happy and fun, parting bitter, there are even more crazy children.

    Maybe love is one thing to one thing, fate.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Repression often reflects a person's low self-esteem, the more they suppress their desires, the more they dare not express themselves, and they can only lose themselves. Writer Yang Daxia said that he should actively look for his own shining point.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    This is human nature, it is easy to understand, the more you suppress your emotions but the stronger, if you really want to forget, then you can only go with the flow, don't always think about forgetting him, forget him, the landlord can go on a trip, to some scenic places to turn around, let yourself let go of your heart, see those scenery, the mood will be much better, you won't always think about him, maybe you can meet your real there

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Feelings, to be divided into two aspects, one is feelings, the other is love, at first when you got along together, it was a feeling, and then you slowly understood each other, that is, love. But in the end, the two who have to go together, that is, the real feelings, only in this way are romantic and dull can it be called love, and you can go on forever together

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    The more you want to forget a person, the more you can't forget

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    A marriage can teach people to be patient and tolerant. You're picking the wrong person because he's in a triangle. A triangular relationship does not necessarily refer to a love or marital relationship, and the third corner can be any person or object where the other party has placed excessive emotional pins on it.

    Look carefully at the triangle between you and your loved one. A person with a 'third horn' often doesn't have enough emotions left to meet your needs. You will not be the person she values the most, and this situation is not the basis of marriage.

    If you're sure that this encounter isn't an encounter of electrocution and dependence, I don't mind if you do. It's just that after what you have done, don't hurt your wife, then entangle, and use your relationship to melt the unhappiness in your life.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    The beginning of a relationship is either love at first sight or a long-lasting relationship. There is a strong dependence between people, and over time it will become natural and an indispensable part of life. Because there is a distance from each other, everything will produce beauty.

    Just like the beginning of love is so sweet, and when it comes to marriage, it is so dull, because living together needs to face too many disturbances and depressions. It is difficult for a third person's love life to be complete and happy, because the beginning of love is sweet, and the beginning of you and your wife is the same. They are all married people, so they should be more rational and responsible.

    Love is a person of two people, but marriage is a matter of two families, and a marriage that is not blessed will not be happy. Keep your distance and relationship, because we all have families, and we all have our own responsibilities and obligations to make our families happy.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    She made the right choice, and I hope you will do the same.

    Otherwise, this balance is broken. Your two families are finished, and you two will not feel very happy if you have a pimple in your heart.

    Seven years of itching, scratching it. Don't come for real.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    People can't help themselves in the rivers and lakes Love each other but don't have to be together Blessings for each other Seeing each other's happiness is the most important thing Too much contact will only make each other uncomfortable I hope you can cherish the present and the future.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    There is a fate to meet thousands of miles away, but there is no chance to meet on the other side. You have nothing to do with her, forget about her.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Are you sure that you are real feelings, think about your wife and children, didn't you have feelings for your wife at the beginning, don't divorce, sorry for the children, sorry for the wife, think more about them, why did you get married if you didn't have feelings in the first place? How big is the psychological barrier for the child later?

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    It is recommended to give up or at most maintain a general friend relationship, because your current feeling is completely based on your own family happiness and husband and wife harmony, if you break through the current relationship, things will be very troublesome in the future, and the final result is likely to hurt the dearest and most loved people around you, and the so-called love with this female colleague will also wither, and even the most ordinary friends can't do it.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    I think you still forget her, as a woman, I think so, you are uncomfortable now, then you should think about your wife and children, what to do if they are uncomfortable, you and her just know each other at the wrong time, this is destined to be the wrong beginning, don't affect the originally happy family because of a momentary perception, don't be emotional, you have to be sensible.

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