Why do you delay acting when you envy the success of others?

Updated on society 2024-04-30
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  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    That's what I was in when I was working in a 9-to-5 system. I knew that this job would not achieve my life goals. For example, I want to buy a school district house in Beijing's Third Ring Road, but I can't do it if I rely on this kind of work.

    I am very aware of this situation, but I don't dare to change the status quo easily, so I am in this environment, intermittently complaining that the work is not good, and I feel that I must change the status quo; But it continued to be a day when the monk hit the clock for a day. It is conceivable that in this state, how can I actively take action to seek change?

    And now I am a big change from what I used to be. I began to become "diligent", I learned to make plans for myself, from not knowing how to plan at the beginning, slowly starting to plan for each day, now it has become planning long-term goals first, and then dismantling the big goals, implementing every small goal to each day, and then doing each day's actions step by step. It's not just about making money, it's about finding the motivation to make a difference.

    I found what I really wanted to do. Because my dream is to "help my family and friends develop a happy life". I know it's a big dream, but I've been through many stages along the way.

    I can't say that it's completely clear, but I'm pretty sure that's my calling. I hope to help my family and friends achieve a stable and happy life in their future through healthy lifestyle habits, scientific health care and proper financial management. And I've started to act and work for it now, and although I know it's not easy, I'm still willing to give.

    Therefore, in fact, there is no one who is unwilling to "move", and the reason why they do not move is precisely because they have not found the "reason for moving".

    Everyone has their own set of rules of survival, and when facing the world, they will naturally wear their own "glasses" to see the world, so no matter how the world changes, what matters is what they are thinking in their hearts. If we take deep care of our hearts, find our true thoughts and needs, and follow our hearts and act for them, then your world will become extremely simple and sunny. Because at that time, all you think about is how to achieve it, and you will never care about the difficulties and problems you encounter.

    Having said all this, I hope that friends who read this article can find their true dreams and ideals, and find their own source of motivation. When the dream is clear, the resources you want begin to come closer to you. Believe it or not, it's so magical!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you want to succeed, you must start on the road to success, and only by starting will you achieve it.

    Success is made up of two simple words.

    Success is achievement; Gong is the basic skill. When the basic skills are accumulated to a certain level, you will reach a certain height, and you will achieve something, which is success!

    When others succeed, it is because the basic skills of others have reached a certain level, and because before they succeed, others have spent enough time practicing their basic skills.

    Nothing happens overnight, and nothing succeeds immediately. Succeed at the beginning because others have been working hard for success in the moment a long time ago.

    Some successes are mixed with luck, but in addition to luck, there is also hard work and strength. When the ability is insufficient, luck does not mean that it will be successful, let alone that it will always be successful.

    A person who has been on the road to success must be a strong person and a person who has passed the basic skills.

    The seemingly simple success does not necessarily have the pain that ordinary people can't bear, because it can withstand the pain, so there is success.

    Seeing the success of others, some people will doubt whether others are really capable of bearing this skill, and some people envy others who are better than themselves.

    Envy others are stronger than themselves, envy others for having strong skills, envy others for their talents, and envy others for their achievements.

    When I envy me, I wish I could be like others, be able to succeed like others, and have the same strong strength as others.

    Of course, this is just hope and envy, but from the bottom of my heart, I don't think that I will have all this, but think that my current self is my ultimate self.

    People are not born with everything; Success is not something that accompanies anyone at the beginning. We all improve ourselves through learning, so that we have you and me now.

    Even if someone is congenitally superior, or if there are seniors who teach him his skills, if he does not impose training, it is impossible for him to exert his skills to the extreme.

    If the opponent's skill is so powerful that no one can match it, and he is willing to inject it into your body at this moment, but your existing power cannot control it, you may go mad and even lose your life.

    When we don't have the ability to achieve our goals, what we need is to calm down and learn to improve our abilities.

    When we envy the success of others, what we need is to congratulate the other person and humbly ask others for advice, not to doubt whether others are worthy of success, but to learn success skills.

    When we envision the success we want to achieve, we need to start the path to success and start embarking on that path to success.

    If you envy the success of others but don't dare to start, then you can only envy others all the time, and you don't need to expect yourself to succeed, because you have not embarked on this road to success.

    It is better to envy others than to start to succeed yourself.

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