What do you think of those who are outspoken?

It must be a shortcoming, the heart is straightforward, with the temperament, with the temperament contains a hidden meaning, that is, can not control their emotions, the words and attitudes will be with the mood of the good, produce a different atmosphere, the mood is naturally good, the mood is very bad. I think we should all have had this experience, at some point in a bad mood, and at this time someone came to talk to you, and this person immediately became cannon fodder in the mouth. The most terrible thing is that I forgot to think about whether it was appropriate to say such things in the current situation, and whether I should take into account the feelings of others and hurt the feelings of others.

I don't think it's good, many times, it's very hurtful to speak straightforwardly, I don't think about other people's feelings, it's a bit like talking without my brain, although there is no malice, but others are embarrassed, and it will make the people around me hate it. Straightforward and fast-talking, like we are not popular in our current society, so it is not good, because many outspoken people are easy to anger others.

People who are straightforward and fast-talking are very simple, have no scheming, and will not have bad intentions. In fact, as long as you keep yourself sincere and straightforward, pay attention to what you should say and what you shouldn't say under what circumstances, and consider the feelings of others when you speak, it is very good.

First: do not shirk things, and get along with this kind of person more energetically.

Second: Sometimes you should pay proper attention to the way you speak, not all occasions are in accordance with your own personality to do things, sometimes to stay sensible, better stand in the position of others to consider the problem, is also a happy little thing.

As the saying goes: Misfortune comes from the mouth, and people who are straightforward and quick are definitely inertia, and I think most of them have more shortcomings! Everything will be the other party's words after the brain to consider and then reply to the other party is obviously more stable, when your words have no value, you had better remain silent first, whether in the workplace or in social life, often chat with the habit of fast talk, it is easy to say the wrong thing to cause the other party unpleasant or produce jokes, so the fast mouth is not an advantage.

I think this is an obvious shortcoming, yes, it is one of the manifestations of low emotional intelligence, I am also a straightforward person, our character is easy to offend people, in fact, sometimes always say to yourself that you shouldn't care about the things you shouldn't care, don't say what you shouldn't say, but every time you can't control your mouth and heart, you regret the words you say! After all, sometimes people don't like those of us who speak directly, especially at work.

A straightforward person must be simple, kind and warm-hearted, and having such family and friends around us should be cherished, because it is easier for us to hear what is in front of them, so I think this kind of character is still an advantage.

There is no doubt that it is a shortcoming, "good words are warm in three winters, and bad words are hurtful and cold in June." "The so-called straightforwardness can not be simply measured by good and bad things, we should distinguish between the time and occasion of the event and the object of the conversation, no matter what words are said without thinking, the impact of taking it is often slightly conflicting, even if it is for the good of others, it must be expressed euphemistically.

4 years ago, I met a straightforward friend, at first I was really disgusted, I felt very impolite, after a long time, I felt that he was the most worthy friend, sincere and direct do not detour.

When I was young, I couldn't get used to seeing a lot of people talk halfway, and the feeling of being up to the point, I felt that straightforwardness was a kind of personality, and as I got older and more mature, I felt that speaking was an art, and your straightforwardness often inadvertently hurt others, and I personally felt that it was not necessarily a good thing to be straightforward.

Be a friend, but you can't be the kind of friend who puts your heart into your heart, but such a person is not complicated, what to say, and it is very good to get along.

It feels like those who are outspoken can be friends because they have one thing to say and two to say.

The heart is straightforward and fast-talking, which is often referred to as "straight-hearted" There are two kinds of people who are straightforward and fast-talking, one is brainless.

Even though I don't understand anything, I still have to point fingers there, and I don't care what the consequences of what I say. No matter what the occasion is, you can say whatever you want, and never care about the way or the way.

Simple and rude, inconsiderate speech is easy to hurt. The second type of heart is integrity, which has its own principles. Say whatever you want in your heart, and you won't say it because you don't listen to it.

The straightforward and fast-talking, ugly words hurt others and hurt oneself, that is because there is no "empathy".

When some friends belittle you or say ugly things, their favorite thing to say is: I'm an impatient person, I've always been straightforward, and if you say anything unpleasant, don't mind too much.

When he got the acquiescence of the other party, he began to speak freely of personal opinion.

In his opinion, he has already greeted you, so he can feel free to say what he wants to say, and he doesn't have to worry about whether you will care or hurt you. He also thinks that everything he says is for your own good, and that he is telling you this because you are a friend!

I never thought that what I said was completely hurtful to my self-esteem and demeaning words, and I only cared about what I said.

In fact, such people just lack "empathy".

Even if you know too well a person, if you say something every day is belittling or negative energy. Then, maybe over time, I won't want to associate too much with such a person. Therefore, people who do not have empathy generally have fewer friends, or basically no friends.

Luck rises. Some people say that praise is an old kind of knowledge, but now that I think about it, it's really easy to "speak straight", because you don't need to use your brain. There's no need to wonder, "Will it hurt people by saying this, and in what way will it be better to say it?" ”

People who don't have empathy think very little and only care about themselves and don't care about others!

Self-emotion awareness – understanding your own emotions**.

When we are angry, do we first have to know why we are angry?

Is it because the other party said something you don't like to hear or behaved badly to make you unhappy. When you know the reason for your anger, you can find a better way to solve it.

If a friend does something that makes you unhappy, for example, by getting involved with a friend you hate and suddenly ignores you and upsets you!

When you already know that you are angry because your friend is good with the person you hate, then there are many ways to solve it.

Is it that I misunderstood that annoying person or friend before, and I didn't want to be nice to you, but it was deliberate. At this point, you have a choice between mingling with your friends or leaving with you.

When you have sorted out your emotions, the next step is to "control your emotions." ”

It's not wrong to be straightforward, sometimes it can also be understood as bold, and few people in the Bujian clan like to associate with such people, because they don't have so much thought and scheming. But if you speak openly, it's a little annoying. There are two extremes of saying too much and not saying it at all, in fact, there are intermediate values to choose from.

Remind yourself appropriately mentally and try to think as much as possible before you speak, what is appropriate to say and what is not. Of course, many times we think about what we say, and we don't think so much. But even if you pay attention to it once out of ten times, it is still progress.

Slowly, you will find that you have mastered the way you speak.

I think people who are straightforward and fast-talking are very popular with Lao Chunfeng, but although such people speak more straightforwardly, they are easy to be calculated by others, and all this kind of people usually have to be careful.

Summary. Thank you for your patience and good evening, many people in society are flamboyant now, one on the surface and one behind the back, but such people are popular with most people, and on the surface it seems that there are many friends.

And people who are straightforward and fast-talking, have the courage to express their inner thoughts, and may usually hurt some people, but when they get along, they make the people around them feel very comfortable and safe, what a valuable advantage, how can it be stupid.

A straightforward person is not stupid.

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Thank you for your patience and good evening, many people in society are flamboyant now, one on the surface and one behind the back, but such people are popular with most people, and on the surface it seems that there are many friends. And people who are straightforward and fast-talking, have the courage to express their inner thoughts, and may usually hurt some people, but when they get along, they make the people around them feel very comfortable and safe, what a valuable advantage, how can it be stupid.

Dear, have you been causing some trouble because of something recently? How precious it is to be a person of such quality!

Because of the straightforwardness of the heart, he offended some people.

It's a pity that you've offended some people because of your cheerful personality, and I don't think you want to get into an argument with others, do you? It's just that there are some things on the other side that you really can't look past it.

Do these people have a big impact on your life and work?

If you often offend the people around you because you are outspoken, it will strain your relationships, and you can try to change the way you get along with them.

These two days to attend a good friend's wedding. However, her relationship with her husband makes me seem a little reluctant and will quarrel.

So, I'm straightforward, and I've blurted out some things I don't agree with in the past two days. Looking back now, I feel like I was a fool, that was their business, and I shouldn't have said something bad in front of them.

Alas, it feels like an invisible nail when you say it, and the person who says it doesn't feel it, but if the person who listens to it cares, it hurts.

Recently, there has been such a thing at work, and the leader asked me to think more about getting along with people in private, and my personality can't be so rigid.

Every time I find that I have invisibly thrown a nail and hurt someone, I regret it very much.

What about someone like me who is outspoken? It's just a flaw in my character, stupid. Some really want to close their mouths so that I can stop talking, and there will be no such situation.

2.For your own business, look at the occasion, think before you speak.

3.Take a deep breath and give yourself a few seconds to hold back the words.

In general, go through your brain before you speak and see if you can speak.

It's important to hurt yourself, but you can't hurt others.

Therefore, I am straightforward, and when I am talking to others, when I need to express my opinions, I must think about whether it is appropriate or not!

Speaking is an art.

People who are straightforward and fast-talking are generally said to have a knife mouth and a tofu heart, and they hurt others with a knife and grieved themselves.

Don't say bad things. If the relationship is average, forget it, no matter what you say, it will be tactful. Others will still think more about the model, so there will be contradictions and alienations.

If you have a good relationship, they will know that you are for their good. But inappropriate words can also hurt feelings.

Shopping with your best friend, your best friend sees a favorite dress but she doesn't look good in it, you say it's ugly, you look at your figure. In other words, this dress doesn't match your temperament, let's change it to a more high-grade one.

The speaker has no intention of listening to the heart, or pay attention to the state code to point out.

The Art of Speaking" is a program that can improve speech skills very well, you can watch it.

Speaking is an art, and the heart is straightforward.