When did you start to feel like you were becoming truly mature?

There is a good saying: "Young people don't know the taste of sorrow, and they are worried about giving new words." Now I know the taste of sorrow, but the weather is cool and autumn.

Isn't that the case when everyone is young? When I was studying, I always felt that I had the world in my mind, and I was up to the task, that kind of arrogance, that kind of uninhibitedness, and now I always feel ridiculous and naïve when I think about it. Specifically, when I feel that I will become mature, I think it is after the age of 30, because before the age of 30, I always feel that I am very young, invincible in youth, and there is no tension that the years urge people to grow old.

After the age of thirty, he suddenly found that he was a few years younger than him and got married, and even had children. Young college students enter the society in high spirits, and begin to participate in work, instantly feel how old they are, there is a sense of tension to be eliminated, at this time they really grow up, really mature, think about the problem is no longer so naïve, so self, began to stand on the sidelines to look at themselves, examine how they should go in the future.

It is that after working by himself, everything is done by himself, and he has to rent a house to find a job, and he has to pay water, electricity and gas bills, and no matter how big the setbacks he encounters in life, he will work hard to carry it alone, and he will only report good news and not bad news with his family, and he knows how to be more considerate of others, which should be maturity.

I think it should be that after having a child, as a father, I am a very cheerful person, I have always been a person who speaks directly, but the brain, but after the child came to this world, I began to think about how to survive, how to plan for the future for the child, how to get involved in the empathy of touching the ground, how to deal with the relationship between parents, interpersonal relationships, etc. I feel like I'm maturing after becoming a father!

When I started to wander around on my own, when I used the money I earned to buy what I liked, when the girl I liked couldn't live without me, I felt like I was a real man, and I became mature, over

No more naivety, no more dreams about him, no more contact with him! I learned to be silent, I learned to cover up my injuries with an innocent face! Now that I am mature, I love myself more, I really thank you for making me lose the courage to love!

You can't hold my without harming and continue to attack my weaknesses! After all, we know each other so well! I don't hate you, but it doesn't mean I can forgive!

It stands to reason that immaturity, most people are growing older, people often say: thirty and standing, "ginger" is still old and spicy, only with rich experience, can become more and more mature! Don't go through one thing, don't grow a wisdom.

Maturity has nothing to do with age, and if you are older, you may not be more mature than young people. Maturity is not sophisticated, but knowing that forbearance, compromise, knowing the truth of taking a step back and opening up the sky, the process of human maturity is the process of continuous compromise.

At work, emotionally, I will be angry at any place where they have done badly, and after emotional failures and setbacks at work, I will no longer be angry because of the fault of any other person, and I have learned that we can't ask anyone with our own standards for dealing with things.

After the first breakup, I felt that the whole world was taken away by her, and the atmosphere was depressing and almost suffocating. I didn't think about tea and dinner every day, and I passed the time by walking, and went to every place I had walked with him, and it wasn't until more than three months later that I recovered. At that time, the most common thing I said to myself every day was:

No matter how big the setbacks are, life still has to pass.

After joining the workforce, I feel that many of my practices have begun to mature, and I remember that many of my ideas when I first graduated from college were very naïve.

Understand that some things happen to you, and while it's bad, it's hard to change. Then accept it and get along with him.

When you can really make money and support yourself.

The more you experience, the more you understand, the more you know what to do, and the maturity you have.

Mature, there may be people who are very mature at a young age, and some people who are very old but immature.

This is different from everyone's experience, and maturity is different sooner or later, so let's talk about me first! I remember when I first came out to work, I was about 20 years old, I didn't accept anyone, and I liked to raise the bar with others, I always felt that everything was easy, I didn't care about anything, and I didn't like to stay with adults at that time, and I was always alone in another city. At that time, I only thought about freedom, I didn't like to be tied down, and I did what I thought.

At that time, I still fantasized about love at first sight every day, a lifelong love, never abandoned, once for a relationship, I didn't come out for many years, and every day I went to the place where we stayed together, the place where we went to work together, the road we walked together, and the place where we ate together......

She said to look forward, don't keep thinking about the past, after experiencing this unforgettable relationship, I slowly understood a lot, no matter how good the two people were, they may not see each other for a lifetime! Life still has to go on, I can only look forward, and then I became reticent, no longer arguing with others about meaningless things, and I am not so arrogant, and I slowly know that only your family is really good to you, and I don't ask for anything in return.

I used to dislike to contact your family, but now I have more contact with my family, when you have nothing, your family is still by your side, when you are tired, your parents are still waiting for you to come home, when you are sick, your parents take care of you, when you have no money, your parents give you money. I've experienced too many things over the years, so I've become a lot more mature, maybe it has something to do with age!

I used to cry for a relationship, I couldn't sleep for a day and a night, but now I may never cry again, now it's more about fulfillment, I see it more lightly, and now I think more about making money, running, reading and studying.