How to make yourself progress faster and get along with others

Attitude and self-motivation, self-motivated people, will make great progress. Set a ladder goal for yourself, complete it step by step, don't be afraid of failure, do what you are interested in, only what you are interested in, you will do it with your heart, and you will make rapid progress.

The times are progressing, the society is progressing, if people do not maintain progress, they will be thrown off by the times and abandoned by the times. If a person wants to live in society and be happy in this era, he must keep improving. Maintaining progress has become indispensable for all people now, and without maintaining progress, we will not be able to develop in today's society.

When I tried my best to do things and get good results, I began to believe that it was meant to happen.

I think our efforts must be used in the right direction, only try our best to do things, continue to play their profession, in order to make our life better, will really reach the other side of success, hard work is very important, the following points must be learned:

1. Cultivate a regular way of life withering and changing.

The plan of the day lies in the morning, develop a good habit of going to bed early and getting up early, so that you can have a healthy state, be full of energy every day, full of motivation in work and life, and become a self-disciplined person.

2.Develop good study habits.

It is also very important to continue to learn new skills, people have been in a comfortable environment, they will lose the motivation to learn, and they can not make better progress for themselves, we only continue to learn and make ourselves more competitive, in order to better adapt to the changes and development of life.

3. Stop complaining and selling in life.

Whether you're having a good or bad day, whether your work is going well or not, complaining can't change the outcome that has happened. Instead of complaining and filling yourself with negative energy, find a way to divert your attention, ease your broken emotions, set a small goal for yourself, and give yourself the motivation to change, so that the days will be better.

4. Overcome bad self-shortcomings.

When the alarm clock goes off and you want to sleep for another 5 minutes, these scenes are not very familiar, this is a bad procrastination habit, it can make you make excuses for your laziness every time, overcome procrastination, improve your efficiency, is a very important step to improve yourself.

5. Truly reflect and summarize.

know how to introspect, in order to discover the strengths and weaknesses of your personality faster, and do a good job, and encourage yourself without judgment; If there are deficiencies in the work, correct them appropriately, so that you can make progress every day.

If you look closely, you will find that people who can't progress actually have a characteristic, that is, they are always in a social circle that does not change.

Whether it is the circle of life or the circle of the workplace, it is always in a fixed class, and what you think about and talk about are those fixed topics. For example, in terms of class, most of the social circles of grassroots workers are grassroots; In the social circle of managers, most of them will be managers; Most of the social circles of the superiors are also superiors.

In terms of thinking mode, a person who is satisfied with going back and forth to discuss the shortcomings of Zhang's family and Li Jia, thinks all day long, how to be lazy, how to rest, and how to get more rights than other colleagues. Looking at the calendar, it is a struggle, but in fact it is just messing around, lacking curiosity about new things and new things, and on the surface it seems to be very Buddhist about everything, but in fact it is just that the more Buddha and the more mediocre it is.

When it comes to self-esteem, they are always sensitive and careful. When interacting with others, you care about whether others are polite to you, whether others are polite to you, and whether others use words to be friendly.

Therefore, growth, in essence, is a process of breaking away from the original circle and updating the evaluation system. Therefore, the criteria for judging whether it is growing can also be summarized into two aspects:

On the one hand, the social circle is iteratively upgraded. From the speed of social circle upgrading, you can completely see the growth rate of a person, when the class of people around you is getting higher and higher, then there is no doubt that you are climbing up.

On the other hand, it is desensitization of thinking.

A person who can put down his self-esteem to do things will be a goal-oriented and result-oriented person, and cooperating with such a person will be the least burdensome and the easiest to achieve.

And the more you do anything bad and don't do anything early, you put the so-called self-esteem first, and you will always pay attention to the attitude of others towards you, care about whether others are polite to you, and care about whether others are polite to yourself, the more likely you are to become paranoid.

But does caring about these things make sense for success? A dime doesn't make sense. The more capable a person is, the less likely he is to pursue the so-called self-esteem.

Therefore, when you do things, it is no longer the first time to test and entangle others whether they are hungry enough to respect you and be polite to you, but when you can only focus on the goal and engage in your career with one mind, when you begin to take the initiative to approach the new circle, to approach the more advanced circle of the evaluation system, and enter the circle with hard work, you are really growing.

In the workplace, you will meet all kinds of people, these colleagues are all kinds of people, after so many years of work experience, these three kinds of people are the most willing to get along.

Honest people. The true meaning of honest people is that honest people are easy to suffer, because honest people meet dishonest people, and if honest people meet better people, they will not suffer, this is the essence of heroes who do not shed tears and Lei Feng who does not suffer. Get along with honest people and don't have to worry about the other party framing you, so you will have a sense of security.

Diligent people. Diligence is not simply a work that is more motivated, but more of a positive energy attitude in life. These people can clearly see their personal shortcomings and deficiencies together, and they can use this as a standard to stimulate their enthusiasm for work, so as to promote their continuous improvement.

Capable of. When I was a graduate student, the professors told us a sentence: it is better to read thousands of miles of books than to walk in Layanmin, it is better to follow the footsteps of successful people than to follow the footsteps of successful people, and it is better to follow the footsteps of successful people than to be with capable people.

This capable person can be understood as a person with great ability, and it can also be understood as a person who has become a jujube and pretends to be a meritorious person. Getting along with such people is what makes us know what is right.

Read more books, read good books; Set yourself the goal of the BAI ladder and complete it step by step; Don't hurt.

Du is afraid of failure, and if he fails, accumulate experience

Gather your strength and start over! Do what you are interested in, only what you are interested in, you will do it with your heart! You must continue to practice to improve your ability and quality! Build your network and be ready for success!

How can we progress faster? This is the problem faced by every writer "Xiaobai", and it is also the problem that all "big coffees" try to solve.

One of them: read more books and read the right books. Writing must be more reading, the key is what kind of books to read, useless books to read, it is better not to read, reading will harm people.

Second: On the road of writing, you must have a goal, not a headless fly. If you want to develop philosophically, you should study some Confucian books such as the Analects and the University; Taoism's "Tao Te Ching" and "Six Patriarchs Altar Sutra"; Buddhism's Heart Sutra, Diamond Sutra, etc.

If you want to become a ** family, you can't help but watch "Talking about Beauty", "The Analysis of Dreams", "A Brief History of Europe and the United States", etc.

Of course, it is not a copy, with the hot air, according to the actual situation, quiet thinking, thinking and quiet, and then moving, which varies from person to person.

Third: apprenticeship, worship famous teachers. The apprentice can avoid taking many detours, no longer have to cross the river by feeling the stones, and the teacher is the "savior", "living bodhisattva", the light on the way forward, and the wise.

Of course, no matter how good the teacher is, he still needs to work his own, as the old saying goes, "The master leads the door, and the cultivation depends on the individual." ”

Fourth: love to perform, love to show in front of the master. If we close our eyes and think about it, whether it is at school or on other occasions, whether it is a person who loves to show or not, can always usher in more opportunities and more love.

People who love to show off are not people who love to be in the limelight, but people who know how to seize opportunities, who are practical insights, and who are winners in life.

Only by loving performance, not afraid of making mistakes, often making mistakes, and not afraid of being discovered by others, others may find out and others may correct.

These are just some of my opinions, but they differ from this, maybe there are no shortcuts in this world, but the world prefers to add some so-called shortcuts.

Maybe the slow is good, and the fast is not necessarily good, so if it's good, can it not be tempered?