How to choose who to marry 10

Is the love in the dream realistic, since you met him on the Internet, you don't know many aspects of him, it is recommended to find one locally, and the other party knows the roots. There is nothing bad about good conditions, and maybe you have a relationship when you know each other! It's better to be realistic in today's society.

Dreamy love will make you suffer a lot! Think Twice!! There are also a lot of ** on the Internet!

Be careful!

1.Although the world in general is very beautiful! However, what we all cannot deny is either; Real life is also very cruel!

2.People still have common hobbies, words, ideals--- it's good to be able to talk about it in one sentence! It's good for you!

3.Of course, the IQ of a person when he is in love should be.

4.Good luck!

- The above is only my personal opinion; Hopefully, it will be helpful to you! Wishing you all the best and happy!

It's better to be realistic so you don't regret it.

Be careful that he finds a mother's love in you, because if you continue to rely on you like this, you will suffer a lot.

I don't know how old you are. You're too irrational, be realistic. It's true! Don't be silly! Listen to me right.

Don't miss these types of people.

Summary. Good morning, dear drop, I'm glad to answer for you, choose a marriage partner The first depends on the character of the other party, the second is to love each other, and the third is to see whether the temper and personality are compatible.

Good morning, dear drop, I'm glad to answer for you, choose a marriage partner The first depends on how the other party's character refers to him, the second is to love each other, and the third is to see if the temper is compatible.

A man of good character will be responsible for his family and will not betray his family.

Temperament and personality are good omens Two people will always quarrel for family trivial matters, marriage is not like falling in love, falling in love is a storm, and after marriage, it is a family trivial matter So the marriage partner should choose a good temper and character.

I am a man, a woman is older, has a good personality, has children, is not good at giving birth, and the second is young, pregnant, and has a bad temper.

Hello dear drops, if you don't give birth, you can't conceive a baby, that's what it means.

If you give birth to one, you won't be reborn, but you have a good personality, so you don't have to bother pleasing you.

Dear drop, if you remarry, two people must have two children.

Dear drop, the second girl is pregnant, it's your baby.

Well, yes, but I have a bad temper, and I have to please him, and the first child I gave birth to is also mine, and my question is how to choose.

Dear drop, who is comfortable with you, choose whoever is suitable.

Whoever you choose, one woman gets hurt.

It's hard to choose, whether to choose physical comfort or life comfort.

Dear Drop: It depends on which one you think is more important.

Make a choice as soon as possible, the more you delay, the more you will end up delaying the time of the three of you.

These two girls know you're dating both of them at the same time.

1. Whether two people know each other.

Falling in love and getting married are two completely different concepts, and although they are essentially the same, the results are exactly the opposite. In the stage of falling in love, the understanding between the two parties is only one-sided, and at this stage, both parties will show their best side. After getting married, you will slowly discover the shortcomings and shortcomings of both parties.

If both parties can't tolerate each other's shortcomings, the relationship is likely to come to an end. Therefore, before getting married, two people must fully understand, and don't get married just because of a momentary impulse, otherwise this marriage is destined to not last long.

2. It must be the right two people to pay the most attention to.

If there is only love, it will not be able to support two people to go on all the time. Opposites attract, so two people who are attracted to each other are not necessarily suitable. No matter how much two people love each other, what is not suitable will not go far after all.

And don't listen too much to outsiders, you can't see whether two people are suitable for others, and only you know best whether they are suitable or not. Any marriage is inseparable from mutual suitability, and only mutual suitability and love can last long.

3. Both people must think clearly and be fully prepared before getting married.

Marriage is the most important thing in a person's life, and both parties will face not only between two people, but also about two families. Girls, in particular, should be prepared to leave their familiar home, go to an unfamiliar environment, and join another family. It is necessary to see if you can accept the life after marriage, whether you are able to bear everything after marriage together as a husband and wife, and whether this person is the one who will spend the rest of your life together.

All of this needs to be thought out before getting married.

4. Try not to have too much difference in the family conditions of both parties.

Although many people's concept of being a good family is not very strong now, even if they don't pay attention to the right person, the family of two people can't be too far away. Otherwise, such a marriage will inevitably be unhappy. If two people in a family are more or less together, they will have the same living habits and hobbies.

Another family with too many differences, over time, will not be able to seek common ground while reserving differences, and contradictions will inevitably arise.

1. Don't choose a patriarchal family.

In families with a strong patriarchal preference, men who grow up have such common characteristics: easy self-centeredness, poor empathy, and poor ability to be frustrated in relationships.

2. Observing the quality of his parents' relationship, does his father respect his mother? Generally speaking, a man who grows up in a family with a harmonious and loving relationship between his parents is also very good at managing relationships in his intimate relationships, understanding and being considerate of his other half. And in a family where the relationship between parents is very bad, the man who grows up is also likely to copy the way his parents get along.

3. Observe his attachment style tendencies in intimate relationships. The more secure people are, the more likely they are to actively explore relationships and be willing to actively listen and understand their partner. It's easier to be happy with people who are more secure than others.

4.Find out about his upbringing. See what events had a major impact on him growing up? How did these things affect his perception? Whether there are significant cognitive biases.

5.Observe how stable he is emotionally. If he is a person who cannot control his emotions, he often becomes grumpy and moody when things happen.

If you get along with him for a long time, his emotions will easily affect and hurt you. In extreme cases, they may act in a way that hurts themselves or hurts you.

Choose what suits you and what you like.