When people reach middle age, how should they hold their bottom line and not do anything out of line

We must be strict with ourselves in life, not to be confused by financial interests and others, we must stick to our hearts, only in this way will we hold our bottom line.

You must know that you are already a family person, and you can't do something out of the ordinary casually, because that will affect the harmony and happiness of your family.

Don't do things that are sorry for your family, do everything for the sake of your family, so that you can control yourself and don't do anything out of line.

Then the first thing is that you should have a bottom line for yourself to deal with people, and you should grasp it well, because let yourself keep it in mind, so that you will not do anything out of the ordinary.

You must recognize the sense of responsibility in your body, and remind yourself all the time that the family is the most important thing, and you must be worthy of your wife.

Then you must constantly spur your own thoughts, and you must also reflect on your own behavior and follow your own heart.

Ning Meng and Lu Jiming negotiated many times, and finally got their wish and were transferred to the second project investment department. However, the person in charge of the second department mistakenly thought that Lu Jiming wanted Ning Meng to be eliminated, so he picked and chose Ning Meng. At first, Ning Meng was asked to sort out more than 900 pieces of data information in one day; Later, she asked Ning Meng to do the due diligence of the project that "Miss Xu" fancied through the back door; In the end, he simply plagiarized Ning Meng's project implementation plan ......Ning Meng can be said to have worn all her little shoes in the workplace, although she was aggrieved, she still waved her feet when she complained to her best friend, and joked:

My two feet are bent and stretched. With that cheerful energy, Ning Meng was in a quandary, and at the same time grabbed the handle of the second part of the new project to steal the kickback, and fought back.

When you encounter difficulties, you will run away, if you are insulted, you will get angry, and if you are not in adversity, you will not go far after all. After all, the lowest point of your willpower determines the highest point you can climb. Shanghai Youth Howen talked about your experience in "Interview with Liangzi":

The first enterprise was hit by the leadership. When the three-year contract expired, the leader told him to leave directly. After that, the relatives asked the relationship to find a relationship to draw star fruit, and the intermediary who said that not only did not pity him, but said that he was to blame for not cultivating a relationship with the leader.

After many years, it became clear that it was common not to be liked and appreciated by leaders. Changing jobs and leaving jobs cannot solve difficulties at all, and compromising and moving forward is a compulsory course that everyone cannot skip.

It is good luck that every time you are in trouble, you can be forcefully counterattacked; Silence, endure, swallow, ignorance, and insult are common things. Excellent people are not fighting for a moment of prosperity and decline, but thinking about how to get to the end.

In the play, Ning Meng signed a contract with a cooperative company for data fraud, and was found to be a problem when she was doing research. She followed the leader Mr. Shi to other people's companies to discuss the revocation of cooperation. One second ago, Mr. Shi still looked menacing, and the next second he met the defendant and was a group of harmony.

Ning Meng was puzzled, and Mr. Shi explained: They are all smart people, and there is no need to say a lot of things thoroughly. The Internet buzzword "people are hard to dismantle" is about this truth:

People are living so hard, there is no need to expose everything. Strauss once said: "It is in the nature of every human being to have some kind of inconvenience in public, and if it is published in public, it will eventually offend others."

Today, leave a little space for others; He will let others give you a chance to live. My friend works as a project leader in a company, but there are two kinds of team members in the same group who are not in harmony due to their own problems. Whether it is the solution clearly proposed by the other party, you need to find fault and find faults, and riveting the opposite.

Once, in order to compete for the same customer, it was not even the other party who went to the consumer's eyes to blame the other party. After being fed back to the company, the case was handed over to another group, and both of them withheld the performance appraisal for the month. In the short term, it can be selfish to harm others; But if you think about it for a long time, if you hurt others, you must harm yourself!

Good people never do things perfectly. As the old saying goes: "Build a platform between each other, and the show will be on stage; Tear down each other, and everyone falls. ”

Emotional intelligence should be high, you must be able to speak, you must learn more, you must expand your network, you must increase your knowledge reserves, you must control your emotions, and you must be kind to others, which will help you succeed.

We must understand, go with the flow, learn to accept, learn to refuse, learn to face calmly, learn to be a man, and people must understand these things when they reach middle age.

To expand your circle of friends, to learn more, to make more friends, to be useful, to be able to provide benefits to others, so that you can take fewer detours.