The psychology is very chaotic, please help, feelings and future

Whether you like it or not, I think it's better not to have anything to do with his future or even your father's company, even if it's unavoidable.

Because once the relationship between two people is mixed with utilitarianism, the meaning is completely different.

I believe that you have seen this kind of plot in TV series and **, I can only tell you that in reality, it is no worse than what is depicted in **, or even more exaggerated. As a person who has not been deeply involved in the world, you are still very naïve compared to him who has been stumbling in society for many years.

Of course, I'm not saying what he's going to do, I'm just telling you about a possible outcome.

He's married, so he probably has children, right? First of all, let's not talk about whether it will destroy his family and hurt his wife and children. For him alone, a good man has to be responsible, if he abandons his wife and children to be with you, do you think he is still a good man?

What if in the future, there is a girl who is better than you, younger than you, and more beautiful than you? Think about it, how do you feel when you hold your children and watch your husband and beautiful young girl leave you?

Like is like, will unconsciously pay attention to him. That's right, I think there are no people who can completely control our feelings, we are not gods, but what is the biggest difference between people and people? One is choice, and the other is responsibility.

As mentioned earlier, the most basic condition for a good man is that he must have a sense of responsibility, what is a sense of responsibility? As a son, as a husband, and as a father, they all have considerable responsibilities, and if you don't fulfill these responsibilities, you can't be said to be a qualified good man. I don't think you'll object to that, will you?

A man who is not filial to his parents, is not faithful to his wife, and does not treat his children well. I don't think even heaven and earth can tolerate it. If you really like him, don't ruin his chances of being a good man.

You can silently support him and even help him in his career.

Having said a lot, I hope you calm down and think about it, you are still young, there are still many opportunities, don't rush to set a future for yourself.

Your sun has just risen, do you think it will be beautiful to draw the sunset now?

Why bother. He's not the only one in the world.

I know you must have a hard time controlling yourself and thinking that just as you have him is enough.

But have you ever thought about it if you're selfish with him?

And what about his wife's family?

He will become looked down upon by others. Why bother, isn't it?

You can give him the position of heir. But maybe there will be a more suitable one later.

If you love someone, but you can't be together, you must learn to control your emotions.

You can't learn that your life will be ruined.

You can't be too selfish, you can't be too extreme.

Look at this problem with your heart in mind.

You'll find that I don't really like him that much.

Oh my God, you're so complicated, how does that manager feel about you? If you are in unrequited love, of course you have to give up, after all, the relationship is a matter of two people, if it is only you unilaterally, if you don't give up, it will not be good for each other.

Wake up. Do you think that's practical?

There is not only such a good man, open your eyes, do you dare to say that you can't pick out the one you like in the single king.

If you like it, just keep it in your heart.

Don't go out of your way to destroy other people's families, you're already thinking about it.

Make more friends and try to accept others as much as possible.

Nothing good will come of you.

He's too old, you're too old, and you'll never be able to catch up with the wisdom that age brings him, and you won't know that he's not terrible to you in his heart.

Besides, if he gives up his wife for you, one day you will have nothing left, and his wife will be your end, or worse.

If he hadn't given up, wouldn't you have found it ugly yourself? Would your family agree? Don't you think you should think about it?

If it's play, you'll bring war to a family.

It is recommended that you play single.

It's not about playing, you're going to bury yourself.

If you have children, you will be in more trouble.

Don't indulge in a momentary obsession, think about it with long-term interests, liking him does not mean that you will live for a lifetime in the future, he is a family person, you think rationally, you should not destroy his family, but also think about yourself, I believe you will find a person you like and like yourself, you are so good, happiness will belong to you.

There are many good men, if he wants to be with you now, and his family is torn apart, do you dare to guarantee that he will not lose you for other men in the future, and when you have money, men will become bad, I heard it, or keep your eyes open and find it slowly.

You must not think about it like this You have such good conditions Why don't you find a good one Why find a family Where is there no grass at the end of the world There are men in the world Good men More is Give up It's impossible at all Your family won't agree Don't get along with yourself But maybe everything you want will be yours People can't live too selfishly Because people live There are many friends and relatives around you Not only yourself.

There are many people in society who are called beasts, or animals. If you do, you are! Really, don't say anything else, morally, do you think you can get by?

Especially in China, a country with a very serious sense of morality! Upper class. What's more!

Sober up, I believe you're just on the spur of the moment, there are more good girls, she's nine years older than you, you should go out and walk more.

It's not his people you like, it's how he feels!

Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ......Or because he loves you.

There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.

They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.

In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

If you find someone like this around you, please cherish .......

Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

In this world, everyone has someone they want to find, and once they miss it, they won't come back.

If you fall in love, don't give up easily. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound.

Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

It's impossible to forget what you've experienced. We can only do it with selective memories. Open another window and you'll see a different landscape.

Learn to give up, let go of what should be let go, and let go of the heart to be relieved. When your heart is tired, give your soul a vacation. The eyes should see more beautiful scenery, the ears should listen more to beautiful sounds, and most importantly, they should pay more attention to appreciate beautiful things.

Our hearts will not get tired. May you be in a good mood every day.

You're not a shelter, Xin was so firm when she left you, but now she wants to come back with you, and obviously treats you as temporary"Life-saving grass"Nothing more.

Love Nini well, the past is just the past!

Many people are unhappy because they don't know that happiness is right in front of their eyes, and it will be too late to understand it when they lose it.

No matter what the reason for letting go, there will be no return to the way it used to be.

Sincerely ask yourself who the person in your heart is.

The story is long enough, so why not end there?

Let's pedal more than one boat!

One day you get tired of love games, and you really regret why you didn't get any worse in the first place!

In what age, love should be talked about more, work should be changed more, and life should be more.

Xin is absolutely not to choose, there is one and two, if you don't want to be hurt again, don't pay attention to her If you still can't forget Xin, don't choose anyone, so as not to hurt others

What a blessing!

Cherish the people in front of you......

The past is gone, if you keep holding on to the past and can't let go, you won't get true happiness!

What's the point of learning to cherish it when it's lost?

Why always wait until you lose it to know how to cherish it! Cherish who chooses who you decide, who says it doesn't count!

O grievance! Resentment!

What kind of boy are you? Why are you allowed to wander among girls? What Ninivivi, how many girls have you failed exactly?

It's still up to you, if you want to be a little more open, you won't be where you are now. Or you just accept Vivi, she's so good to you.

You have to adjust your mentality and live happily.

I didn't finish the story, and I knew there was love inside the gate.

People try to learn to give up.

Alas! Good horses don't eat back grass, even the best grass doesn't eat it! Since she abandoned you and got back together, who can guarantee that she will be good to you for the rest of her life?

Cherish Nini and love her well.

Vivi, sister is sister, stop thinking. Like a real big brother, care for her and love her.

Brother has such charm that he can't make a decisionThat's not a problem!

Xin: It's a person who can't take into account your feelings for herself, she walks in style, probably can't get through and comes back to you, this kind of person can't want! Because she is not love, but she needs you, and will never meet your needs.

Vivi: It's someone you don't love, otherwise, you wouldn't have been for more than a year, with her, you can't forget Xin, and her charm can't completely attract you. She's just a sister.

Nini: If you can make your heart flutter at this time, it means that her attraction to you is effective, so cherish her. But there is still a long way to go, and you are just getting started. You have to concentrate to be happier.

Willing! There is a give-and-take! There is no give-and-take!

The Buddha said: Fate is constructed, and gains and losses follow fate!

Your mood is really complicated, and I'm sad to see it.

But the choice to make still has to be made, I think you still cherish the person in front of you Why? That's what you have been, and you've made a mistake, so let's make that mistake to the end.

If one day she was telling you that I had made another mistake, that is, I shouldn't be with you, so what would you do? You tell me?

Now that you have a current girlfriend, you can get along with him.

Let your past become your memory.

Your sister, she has different feelings for you, since you have chosen to be a sister, then you can give more of your brother and sister's emotions.

Maybe it's easy for me to say, but it's hard for you to do it, but feelings are such a mess.

Ignore the invitation, there will be hurt, pain and tears.

To be a man is to be responsible, and to make a decision when it is time to be decisive, otherwise it will be the three of you who will suffer.

The difference between the big man and the little guy is one step away, but it's not just about luck and fate. The most important thing is to improve and cultivate oneself. In "Experiencing the Kennedy Academy", you can read this book online.

I'm in the same situation as you, and I've been on fire lately. I've been thinking lately that I need to find my strengths, like English, computer science, or economics, and so on, and it's good to be eloquent. If you can't find it, then go to the library and let you open up the world.

You can't be blind or hectic when looking for a job, and you know your strengths and weaknesses. If you're not sure what you want to do, then like you said, do the office first, office work requires you to master office software, such as word documents, excel**, if you are not very proficient now, seize the time to practice. There are still some documents or files that need to be organized, remember to be patient and careful; There will also be some such as the leader's schedule or something, if not, try to learn modestly.

You love blindly, she loves very selfishly, and you have given her a lot, such as youth, academic performance, and even future. Then please think carefully about how much you love her, and how much she loves you, I think if it is on the scales, it must be extremely unbalanced. Although it is said that in love, we don't care who loves more, but we should be realistic.

After all, the chances of young love lasting a long time are very low.

If you can think of any bright future for you, then I agree that you will do it for her, but if you can't think of what you can do, I still advise you to give up the relationship as soon as possible. I'm also a woman, I think she's selfish, she doesn't think about you at all, let alone your future, men have to support their families, how can they support their families well without a good education? ? It is conceivable that she only thinks about herself, how can she make herself happy for a while, so the authorities are confused, and the bystanders are clear.