I feel like I m dispensable, and you think you re dispensable

Updated on psychology 2024-04-30
10 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I feel like it's fitting for me to come to this question, because I had the same idea when I was younger.

    1. When I was in school, I was seriously biased, one of the top two in the class in liberal arts, one or two in the bottom of the class in science, and I also fought with the English teacher, so I didn't learn English.

    Second, when I was a child, I stole things, stole several neighbors' watches in a row, and after I was discovered, my parents punished me very harshly, I thought they didn't love me, I could do without me, I thought about suicide, and I hated myself very much.

    3. When I was in middle school, I fell in love, and my academic performance was not satisfactory and I felt that I was not qualified to talk about the future with her, so I didn't want to study hard, I went my own way, and I committed suicide if I had no way out after graduation.

    Fourth, when I graduated and was useless, my parents were busy worrying about my future, I suddenly felt that I was the most important person to them, and they would not be able to live without me, and slowly I had the confidence to do everything well.

    Fifth, I went to the army, in the collective life, I learned to be independent and enterprising, strive to be advanced, I have made meritorious contributions and received commendations, I feel that as long as I work hard, even if my academic performance is not good, I can still do meaningful things.

    6. Later, I went out to work, and suddenly, I found that I was more capable than many people, and I did everything better than others, because the most useful thing I learned as a soldier is: if you don't do it, you won't do it, and if you do it, you can do it beautifully!

    Seventh, I participated in the work, from the first year to the present, I have been rated as an advanced individual for seven consecutive years, I am not high in culture but can still do my job well, I have brought out batches of undergraduates, there is practice to have the right to speak, not to study well is omnipotent.

    8. I have a son, I am a father, no matter how naughty my child is, I will love him and support him, no matter what kind of mistakes he makes in the process of his life, I will tolerate him and never give up, so I understand more and more the psychology of my parents, and regret that I had the irresponsible idea of finding shortcomings.

    9. A person lives not for himself, for his parents, for his wife, and for his children, he can be nothing, but to live a healthy life is to ensure that they can live better, attach importance to their own existence, and love their families well.

    10. Everyone has the meaning of life, life is impermanent, sometimes it will go into a trough, when you get out of this hurdle and the sun is shining, you will find that it is good to be alive, and life is full of scenery!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Actually, it's not optional.

    For your parents.

    You are unique.

    In the eyes of your friends.

    You are just as unique.

    No one is dispensable.

    It's just that I didn't think about it seriously.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Do what you want to do!

    There's always something you love to do.

    If you can't find it anymore, go and become a monk and pursue things in spiritual beliefs.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You are right about this, everyone is dispensable, and some people who change history are the same, but without them, social progress will be delayed for a long time, but there will always be people who can replace them. Not to mention ordinary people, they left only a shallow trace, and soon disappeared in the tide of social history. Without a man, the earth would still turn.

    The above is a holistic view. If you look at it from an individual point of view, one more person will have an understanding of the whole world, and one more perspective of thinking about the whole history, and this kind of understanding and thinking is very unique, which is unprecedented and unprecedented, without you, many corners can become blank because of the lack of your cognition.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In a word, you are idle, of course you are idle every day, of course, you are dispensable, go do something. With more responsibility, you don't think much about it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Existence is really just for fun. Don't overthink it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    From "People on the Margins"."Marginal People" is a song sung by Xiong Ziqi in 2022, which is included in **"Chasing Love Family Film and Television Drama Soundtrack Xiangchong".

    The lyrics are as follows: The hour hand turns to zero and insomnia is as it was ever.

    Certain emotions also begin to manifest abruptly.

    Reminiscence, reflection, anticipation, and heart-to-heartedness.

    Begin to become vulnerable and become helpless.

    You are like a tree hole listening to other people's complaints.

    On the contrary, no one interprets his own suffering.

    Couples embracing each other on the street always make you envious.

    You are still imprisoned in infinite solitude.

    You feel like you're dispensable.

    You stand at a crossroads looking back.

    People who have touched glasses and exchanged hearts.

    How pitiful to a handful.

    You find everything in front of you as if it were all in front of you.

    It's all out of place for you.

    It's like being stuck in a dim fog.

    I can't find it anymore.

    Winding paths.

    Reminiscence, reflection, anticipation, and heart-to-heartedness.

    Begin to become brittle and weak and become helpless.

    You are used to declaring loneliness to the world.

    But someone takes the initiative and you scribble back.

    Something new and unknown always catches your eye.

    But you are still bound to the cruelty of reality.

    You feel like you're dispensable.

    You stand at a crossroads looking back.

    People who have touched glasses and exchanged hearts.

    How pitiful to a handful.

    You find everything in front of you as if it were all in front of you.

    It's all out of place for you.

    It's like being stuck in a dim fog.

    I can't find it anymore.

    Winding paths.

    You feel like you're dispensable.

    You stand at a crossroads, and look back.

    People who have touched glasses and exchanged hearts.

    How pitiful to a handful.

    You find everything in front of you as if it were all in front of you.

    It's all out of place for you.

    It's like being stuck in a dim fog.

    I can't find it anymore.

    Winding paths.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Hello, everyone has their own value and meaning, so feeling dispensable is a negative thought. Each of us is unique, with different talents, skills, and experiences, which are unique assets that we possess. Even if we are not jack-of-all-trades or know-it-alls, we can still do well in some ways and contribute to society.

    It may be that I feel dispensable because I lack self-confidence or don't find my worth. We can discover our talents and potential by learning and exploring, so as to improve our self-confidence. At the same time, we can also play our part to contribute to others and society by helping others, ginseng slowdown, and community activities.

    Most importantly, we need to realize that everyone is unique and no one is perfect. We need to accept our shortcomings and shortcomings and strive to improve ourselves. Only when we can recognize our own value and meaning can we truly feel the meaning and value of life.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It depends on where you are in his heart. Compare how much you care about it every day.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    1. Feel like your spare tire, dispensable. I don't want to be a spare tire, I don't want to be your last retreat, I want to be your only choice!

    2. I will occasionally be crushed by sudden small emotions, and I feel dispensable for a moment, and I have never been needed by anyone.

    4. For so many years, I have spent the festivals except the Spring Festival alone, and gradually the feeling of the festival is not so strong.

    5. It's like this every day. No amount of affection is consumed. I really feel that I have changed a lot, my mentality is different, and I really feel that you are just a dispensable person.

    6. I feel that I am in any relationship, Danhong is optional, marginalized, replaced, and let down, after all, I still feel that I can't manage emotions, my personality is not cute, and it is natural that no one likes it.

    7. Do you feel that moment? They will be cranky, they will feel that they are not social, and they will feel that they are dispensable.

    8. I feel that I am dispensable, and it doesn't matter if I lose it. It doesn't matter if you're there.

    9. The 8 hours of being in the office every day is the most torturous moment of my day, I always feel very strange, out of place, dispensable, without a little bit of value and presence.

    10. Suddenly feel that I have a dispensable foundation. Keep telling yourself to take it easy.

    11. What I don't like is this feeling, I feel that I am dispensable, so let me not exist. I hated it, and the scariest thing was that she didn't know why, and she felt inexplicable. I don't want to. Good afternoon.

    12. When you are sick and no one greets you, you have to be full of joy every day, feeling that you are dispensable, and your stomach hurts to death.

    13. In all the relationships between people, I hate dispensability the most. Once you feel like you're not needed, you want to retreat. People, you must be sure that you are special in a certain sense, so that you can feel at ease.

    14. Although it's a holiday, I'm in a bad mood, I'm a little confused, I feel that my existence is dispensable for others, maybe it's just a strange habit, 10 years, hey!

    15. Some people will feel that they are dispensable for a person at the beginning, and they will be thrown away and start to be dangerous, so she will push others away first, in case she is thrown away, I don't want to push you away, but please don't feel like me.

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