Why do people who are in love become stupid?

You don't have to have someone to love, but you have to love someone well!

When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along for a lifetime.

But sadly, in real life, people who truly love each other for various reasons may not be able to be together;

The one you love the most often doesn't choose you;

What loves you the most is often not what you love the most;

And the longest-lasting, it's not what you love the most, and it's not the one you love the most.

Only the person who appears at the most suitable time will really be with you forever!

No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, and there is no way to pretend not to love you when he loves you;

In the same way, there is no way for him to pretend to love you when he doesn't love you.

When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him (her), if you don't love him (her) anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem;

If you still love him (her), you should want him (her) to live happily, hope that he (she) is with the person you really love, and will never stop it, if you prevent him (her) from getting real happiness, it means that you no longer love him (her), and if you don't love him (her), what right do you have to accuse him (her) of changing his (her) mind?

Love is not possession!

You love the stars, and it's impossible to take them down and put them in the basin, but the light of the stars can still shine into your room.

In other words, if you love someone, you can also have it in another way, so that the lover becomes an eternal memory in your life, and if you really love someone, you have to love him as he is, love his good, and love his bad:

Love his strengths and his shortcomings, and never want him to become what he wants because he loves him, and if he can't change, he won't love him.

You can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you just know that no matter when and where, good or bad, you want this person to be with you;

The real relationship is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, without the slightest requirement.

After all, feelings must be given, not just wanted to be gained;

Separation is an inevitable test, and if your relationship is not stable enough and you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment.

When the two are in love, they like to make each other swear and make promises, why do we swear to each other, it is because we don't believe each other, we don't believe in lovers at all, and these mountain alliances and sea vows are very unrealistic.

The sea is dry and the earth is barren, but it can't change my love for you!

knowing that the sea will not wither, the stones will not rot, the earth will not grow, and the sky will not be barren;

Even if he could, he wouldn't live until then.

When making a promise, be careful, don't make promises that can be fulfilled, it is better to promise what you can't do, anyway, it doesn't matter if you can't do it, remember that "impossible promises are the most moving".

In love, one thing is said and another is done;

The speaker does not believe it, and the listener does not believe ......

Who have you met in the vast sea of people? Who met you again

Because, human beings are originally emotional animals, and as they grow up, they slowly become rational. Generally speaking, reason and emotion can coexist, but many people do not manage their pent-up emotions well.

In a romantic relationship, people will want to be trusted and accepted by the other party to the greatest extent, so they will expose their weaknesses to the other party, and even be coquettish and stupid like a child. From a physiological point of view, love can activate the relevant brain regions of reward, and the middle frontal gyrus, inferior parietal lobules, middle temporal gyrus, and posterior cingulate cortex in the right hemisphere of the human brain play an important role in cognition and the generation of negative emotions. The amygdala, temporal pole, temporoparietal junction, and medial prefrontal cortex are associated with negative emotions, moral judgments, and psychotheoretical abilities.

The activation of these brain regions is inhibited when the imaginary "oneness in love" is obtained, which weakens people's judgment about the object of love.

Some people only think about each other in the early stages of a relationship, want to behave well, and some behaviors can also make them look stupid. For example, when you see someone you like, you can't suppress the joy in your heart and smirk, or you are unconsciously nervous, embarrassed to take the initiative to speak, and even have a situation where you don't know what to say and don't know what to say.

The IQ of falling in love will not really decrease, why has there been an EQ in recent years, the reason is that IQ is the judgment of people to look at things objectively without considering emotional factors. Emotional intelligence is completely different, it is the judgment when considering feelings. When your emotional intelligence is not cultivated, and you are unable to make rational judgments when you encounter emotional problems, it seems that your IQ has decreased.

Because when you are in love, you think that everything related to her is beautiful, or that you yourself imagine it to be beautiful.

The IQ of a woman who is in love really declines very quickly, and the most obvious manifestation is the extraordinary loss of attention, memory and judgment. If you see a woman who is out of her body and absent-minded, speaks upside down, walks crookedly, and has a bad appearance that falls down on the street, she is either in love or out of love. Men who fall in love behave better, because maybe they are better at disguise.

Therefore, there are hypocrites and there is no hypocrite woman.

If you meet a good man who truly loves you, then you have every reason to be silly and sweet. He can remember your preferences, what you like to eat, what you like to wear, what you like to play, and what you need most at what moments. Bring you a glass of water when you are thirsty, take you to eat the delicious food you want when you are hungry, comfort you when you are in a bad mood, and be happy with you when you are in a good mood.

Women in love will have a lower IQ, not only women, but also men, and the desire to be loved, will appear to please, or show their best aspects to attract each other, or more to cover up all their flaws, in order to establish this possible relationship. Low IQ is often caused by a lack of judgment and lack of social experience and experience, and there is an excessive imagination of the other party as the partner they need, with some kind of suggestive psychology, so they can't see themselves and each other clearly independently, but let the other party mix with themselves, so as to be sure that only the feeling of being together every day is love, and the one-sided understanding and behavior of love is also a manifestation of low IQ between men and women.

The relationship itself is more likely to drive people to pursue what they want in fantasy, separate from the actual reality, and excessively pin their emotions, desires, and mental satisfaction on the other party, and the other party also tries their best to satisfy you, which is easy to create a false impression that you are good, thus ignoring the other party's ability and intelligence to love in the relationship.

People are fools when they are in love, but they become poets when they fall out of love. I think that people focus in different directions, and it is not too absolute to be stupid and smart. It can only be said that the goal of a person's focus is only on that person, so he does not notice it in other directions.

That's stupidity.

People who constantly improve themselves and enrich themselves for love are very smart, she will not be led by love, but will lead love to a better road; And people who blindly fall in love will only be waved by love and lose their self-judgment, this kind of person is very stupid and naïve. No matter who you are, as long as you fall into true love, it's really hard to become smart and willing to be a fool of love.

Men are easily spoiled by women, always thinking that they can get more love, more love from other women. In the face of love, men are more and better, while women are more than abundant. For men, career is always more important than women, and for women, men are always more important than themselves.

There are too many stupid women who give up themselves for love, so there are men who only love themselves. When a woman dreams, she always wants to be pampered by the prince, and once she falls in love, she goes to pamper the prince.

This is because men and women will be immersed in love in their relationship, so they will also lose their minds in love, so there will be such a phenomenon.

Because love will narrow people's horizons, the things they care about and care about are different, and love has become the most important thing, so it is easy for people to focus on it, so that their thinking in other aspects will slow down or even stop.

It is because everyone loses their reason in love, and all their thoughts are on each other, so they become very stupid.

Because people who fall in love will be very irrational, they will ignore a lot of things and become very stupid, so their IQ is getting lower and lower.

Each of us wants to have a happy and fulfilling love, and we strive for it. But when you really fall in love, you will find a lot of things that you don't know or don't know deeply enough. Specifically, these things include love that focuses on love but requires more strength to be sure, the right pair is really key for love, and love at first sight, although romantic, but not necessarily reliable.

1. Love focuses on love, but it needs strong strength as a guarantee. In the minds of the vast majority of people, love is the state of focusing on love. These people will think that there is only love and nothing else in love.

Such a view is inaccurate. In fact, falling in love requires a solid material foundation, and if you don't have strong strength or sufficient superior economic training conditions, the difficulty of successfully falling in love is very low. This matter can only be understood after falling in love.

2, Door-to-door pairs are really important for a relationship, and it's very crucial. Many people think that the right pair is an outdated notion that simply doesn't matter to the person who is in a relationship now. But in fact it is by no means so.

There will be very big differences between two people who are not in the right household in terms of living habits, economic conditions, ways of thinking about problems, and recognition of each other, which will lead to many love problems between them. And two people who are the right person have similar living conditions and similar ideas and concepts, so it is easier to produce a common language, and it will be easier for two people to succeed in love. This matter can only be known after falling in love.

3. Love at first sight is romantic, but it is not necessarily reliable. Love at first sight is very romantic, and many people are extremely envious of it. But in fact, this kind of love will have a lot of problems because of the lack of understanding of each other, so love at first sight is not necessarily reliable, and many such relationships do not end up with the desired results.

This situation can only be known after falling in love and having personal experience. In my opinion, falling in love is a process full of challenges and opportunities. In this process, we need to learn how to communicate, how to deal with emotions and emotions, how to respect each other, how to give, and so on.

It is only through continuous learning and practice that we can build a healthy, stable and beautiful romantic relationship.