What do you think is the hardest thing to do in life?

The most difficult thing is to change yourself, if you can change, you can change the world.

I don't think anything can have a "most"; I think the word "more" is more appropriate.

Do the last thing you want to do.

I think it's about living the life you want to live.

The meaning of this sentence is: "I want things very much but can't get them, I can't do things that I need to give up, and I don't know how to cherish them when I get them." This sentence interprets the helplessness in life, but I think people always need to learn to face what they ask for, give up what they should give up, and know how to cherish and be grateful for what they have.

The following is to share with you what I asked for, what I couldn't, and what I didn't hesitate to get:

1. I can't ask for it

I'm a girl, and when I was younger, I really wished I could have a piano. But since my family is poor, this wish can be said to beExtravagant hopes. My family's financial means only allow me to have a small piano toy, I told my mother

When can I buy a real one? Mom replied: We will count it when our family has money.

That's all,The piano became something I couldn't ask for.

From this incident, I understand that all the things in life that we can't ask for need to face reality, then accept reality, and finally slowly let go.

Second, I can't give up

In the past few years from the beginning of high school to the time I came out to work, I have always liked a boy in my class, and it has never changed. In fact, this male classmate knows that I like him, but he really only regards me as a good friend, even so, I didn't give up waiting for him, always hoping that he would change his mind and find out that I was good.

Until one day, when I met a male classmate on the street and his girlfriend were holding hands and shopping together, I was really sad. My girlfriend also advised me to let it go,Maybe loving someone can make you irrationalAt that moment, I still felt like I could wait for him. My girlfriend said to me:

The person I love, he already has a lover, and from their eyes, it shows that I can't be. Finally, I finally looked away, noIf you waste time on unfruitful relationships, you should give up what you should give up.

From this incident, we can realize a truth: sometimes the person you love, he already has a lover, and he makes the choice that he feels is right. Then we should bless him and respect his choice at this time.

After all, love can't be forced, just like a twisted melon is not sweet

3. I don't hesitate to get it

I was lucky enough to meet my husband, and his love for me is really unmatched, even more than my parents. Sometimes the person who is pampered will have no fear, but at that time I didn't understand it, and I took it for granted that he was good to me. For example, it is:

No matter how much I hurt him, he was not angry at my vexatious troubles, and when he came home from work, he also took care of all the housework.

Until one quarrel, he told the truth, he hoped that I would not be vexatious sometimes, and he felt that this way of getting along made him feel so tired. At this time, I realized how long my husband had endured me silently and how much disappointment he had piled up.

From this incident, I have understood: cherish the person in front of you, carefully grasp the boundaries and proportions of love, and don't let the original mistakes recur.

Finally, I hope that everyone can learn to "give", and I wish you a happy life!