The woman has been helping an acquaintance pick up and drop off the child for two and a half years,

I won't help my friends take care of their children, after all, when it comes to children, as parents are very sensitive to their children's affairs, it is very likely to cause dissatisfaction with the other party, and even friends can't do it if they don't get it。This incident happened in Jinan, Shandong, Ms. Zhang and Ms. Du were originally more familiar, and their children were both in the same kindergarten, because they were usually more familiar, and Ms. Zhang did not have a job, so Ms. Zhang has been responsible for helping Ms. Du pick up and drop off her children for two and a half years.

But I didn't expect that once when Ms. Zhang was picking up and dropping off her children from school, Ms. Du's child accidentally fell from the back of the electric car, the child's finger broke a little, and she was hospitalized on the second day, and Ms. Zhang also brought 2,000 yuan when she went to visit the child, and I felt that Ms. Zhang did nothing wrong in this matter. Ms. Zhang herself thought so, thinking that this matter would pass like this, after all, the child was not seriously injured, and the relationship between the two families was very familiar, but she didn't expect Ms. Du to turn her face directly because of the child's injury, and directly sued Ms. Zhang in court, asking Ms. Zhang to compensate for the child's medical expenses, nursing expenses and a series of expenses, a total of more than 6,000 yuan.

These are the real version of the farmer and the snake, and the matter finally got into trouble in the first instance of the court and ruled that Ms. Zhao should bear 70% of the responsibility and need to pay another 3,900 yuan in compensation. As the mother of the injured child, Ms. Du knew that Ms. Zhang rode an electric scooter to and from school every day, which was a violation of traffic laws. But Ms. Du still acquiesced to the matter, so she should also bear 30% of the responsibility.

Ms. Zhang wanted to appeal against this result, and the second-instance judgment ruled that Ms. Zhang should not bear any responsibility, because Ms. Zhang put her child on the relatively dangerous electric vehicle pedal in front, and Ms. Du's child sat in the back safety seat, and she had done her best in this matter, so she also rejected Ms. Du's request.

In fact, when it comes to the issue of insisting on children, you really shouldn't help others take care of your children, because parents are very sensitive to their children's affairs, and a little little thing may cause dissatisfaction with the other party. For example, if the other party does not want to give the child a snack, but you give the child a piece of candy, it is easy to cause the other party to be dissatisfied, and even this little thing will make the other party angry, not to mention the child is injured. Therefore, when encountering such a thing, you should stay as far away as possible, because if one is not done well, two people may not even be friends in the end.

Yes, but I only help my friends when they are really forced to do so, not in the long term. You have your own life, and you can't mix your friend's children into your own life.

Generally, no. Because many people now regard children as very expensive, and their living habits are also different, helping to take care of them may not be good and easy to cause disputes.

Probably not, it is the responsibility to help others take care of the child, if something happens to the child, not only will he feel guilty but also face the accusations of acquaintances, and there will be a lot of problems.

Ms. Zhang is a stay-at-home mother, Ms. Du is an acquaintance of Ms. Zhang, and their children attend the same kindergarten. Because the two are familiar with each other, and Ms. Du is usually busy, Ms. Zhang has always helped pick up and drop off the children, and this gang has been two and a half years. When Ms. Zhang picked up and dropped off her child, Ms. Du's child accidentally fell from the back seat of the electric car, suffered a contusion on his finger**, and was hospitalized**.

When Ms. Zhang went to visit the child, she also gave Ms. Du 2,000 yuan.

Ms. Zhang originally thought that this was the end of the matter, after all, the child's injuries were not serious, and the relationship between the two families had always been good. Unexpectedly, when the child was discharged from the hospital, Ms. Du immediately turned her face and sued Ms. Zhang in court, demanding that Ms. Zhang compensate for the medical expenses, nursing expenses, transportation expenses and other expenses caused by the child's fall injury, totaling 6,657 yuan, and bear the litigation costs. After the trial, the court of first instance ruled that Ms. Zhang should only bear 70% of the liability and need to pay more than 3,900 yuan in compensation.

At the same time, Ms. Du knew that Ms. Zhang violated traffic laws by riding an electric car to carry her two children, but still handed over the children to Ms. Zhang for pick-up, and should also bear the corresponding responsibility.

After the first-instance judgment, Ms. Zhang was dissatisfied and appealed. In the end, the court of second instance ruled that Ms. Zhang's free assistance to Ms. Du to pick up and drop off the children was a "helper" act of helping others, which was worthy of recognition; Moreover, Ms. Zhang has fulfilled her obligations by placing her child on a footrest that is a more safety hazard, while Ms. Du's child is sitting on a safety seat. Ms. Zhang shall not be held responsible.

The Jinan Municipal People's Court found that Ms. Zhang was not grossly negligent and rejected Ms. Du's claim for compensation. Seeing such a thing, it is estimated that many people think of a sentence: Dou Mien, bear Mi Hatred.

It's a good thing to ask acquaintances to help pick up and drop off the children, help each other, and have fun. Two children, two families, could have had a friendship and affection that was stronger than gold and enviable as the children grew up and time went by. Now it seems that everything may have come to an abrupt end.

I can't imagine what kind of heart Ms. Du must have to do such a thing, to treat a good friend who has taken care of her children for two and a half years and goes to school.

Maybe in Ms. Du's mind, on the surface, everyone has a good relationship and helps each other, this is because there is no interest relationship involved, and once the child is injured and involves the issue of interests, it may turn against each other, and the parents of the injured child will blame each other, thinking that you can take care of it, so I handed it over to you, but I didn't expect to be irresponsible, so why did you agree to take care of it?

Personally, I think that this kind of behavior is actually like Zhu Bajie beating a rake, which makes people feel particularly speechless, especially cold, and also feels that such people are particularly selfish.

This kind of behavior is very chilling. This can make people's hearts very unbalanced.

Super chilling, this may cause people in society to dare not be a good person in the future.

Good intentions are not rewarded, that's what they said. has been picking up and dropping off children for so long, it stands to reason that the two families should have feelings.

It's very chilling, because your friends just treat you as a tool.

Ms. Du and Ms. Zhang from Jinan have known each other for many years, and it just so happens that the two children are in the same kindergarten. After giving birth to the child, Ms. Zhang became a full-time mother, because she had to pick up and drop off the child to and from school every day, so when Ms. Du needed it, she would help pick up and drop off the other party's child, and this gang lasted for two and a half years.

In June 2020, Ms. Du's child, who was sitting behind Ms. Zhang's electric car, accidentally fell from the car and injured a little. After examination, it was found that the child's condition was ** contusion (left hand ring finger, little finger). Six days later, he was able to be discharged from the hospital, and after being reimbursed by medical insurance, he spent a total of yuan in medical expenses.

After the incident, Ms. Zhang felt a little guilty in her heart and paid 2,000 yuan. However, Lele's parents took her to court, hoping that Ms. Zhang would compensate for more than 6,000 yuan in medical expenses. The Jiyang District People's Court accepted the trial, and the court felt that according to Article 72 of the Road Traffic Safety Law, you need to be at least 12 years old to drive a bicycle, and 16 years old to drive a motorized wheelchair and electric vehicle for the disabled.

E-bikes and bicycles can only carry one minor under the age of 12 in the back seat. Ms. Zhang had violated the relevant provisions of the Road Traffic Safety Law by carrying two children under the age of 12 on her trip, so she should be held responsible for this accident. As the guardian parents, they clearly knew that Ms. Zhang was at risk of carrying two children on an electric car, but they still handed over the children to the other party for pick-up, and they also needed to be held responsible for the accident.

The first-instance judgment stated that in addition to the 2,000 yuan already paid, more than 3,900 yuan needed to be compensated.

After the first-instance verdict, Ms. Zhang, who was not satisfied, appealed. **, the court felt that Ms. Zhang had completed the corresponding obligation of the helper by putting Lele on the fixed safety seat, and the accident was an accident, and there was no evidence that Ms. Zhang was grossly negligent or intentional.

Here is a reminder that in order to ensure the safety of everyone's life, non-motorized vehicles must absolutely abide by relevant traffic regulations on the road. This is responsibility, responsibility for one's own life, responsibility for one's family, and responsibility for this society.

This happened because the positioning was not accurate, and some things should not be too much. It's okay to help with the pick-up, and their relationship must be very good before the accident. Children are the little angels of every family, and there is no parent who does not love their children.

When helping your own children and bringing other people's children, you definitely need to pay attention to safety.

When the lady picked up the neighbor's child, she accidentally let the child fall off the electric car, so she was sued by the child's parents for compensation for medical expenses and various damages.

The child suddenly fell out of the back seat of the electric car, and the woman immediately stopped the car and notified the child's parents as soon as possible. The next day, the child was sent to Jinan Children's Hospital for acceptance**, and was diagnosed with ** contusion (left hand ring finger, little finger), and was hospitalized for 6 days, and a total of medical expenses were spent after being reimbursed by medical insurance. Afterwards, the woman left 2,000 yuan when she went to visit.

It was this woman who often helped her acquaintance out of kindness, and helped for more than two years, but one day while riding an electric car, the child fell from someone else and injured his finger, and the acquaintance asked the woman for compensation.

Ms. Zhang and Ms. Du from Jinan have a good relationship, their children are in the same kindergarten, and Ms. Zhang, a full-time mother, helps Ms. Du pick up her children to and from school while picking up her children, which is two and a half years. Recently, Ms. Du's child accidentally fell from the back of an electric car and was injured after school, but Ms. Du sued Ms. Zhang in court for 6,000 yuan in medical expenses, and the second trial ruled that Ms. Zhang was not responsible for the child's fall injury.

There was a traffic accident on the way to pick up the child, the acquaintance child was injured, and the other parent sued the court, but now the verdict has been pronounced that the child's parents themselves are at fault, and the court ruled that the woman is not responsible.

The main reason is to help pick up and drop off the child, and then say that there is misbehavior towards the child, in this case it is sued, so sometimes good intentions will also do bad things, don't help others easily.

The woman helped an acquaintance pick up and drop off the child for two years, but during a pick-up trip, the child accidentally fell and injured a fracture, resulting in a fracture, and the other party's parents sued the woman for damages, which is really speechless.

Helping acquaintances pick up and drop off children for two and a half years is anti-defendant to go to court, it's better not to help pick up the baby for free, it's good to meet someone who knows how to be grateful, otherwise it's easy to get into trouble with a small bump. Just like Ms. Zhang, she was kind enough to help her friend pick up the child, but she didn't expect an accident, and her friend turned her face ruthlessly, and even sued her, which is enough to show that it is difficult to be a good person, since it is difficult to do, in my opinion, it is okay not to do it! We advocate the joy of helping others, but there is a premise, and that is to protect yourself first.

Today's children are pampered, and parents take them as babies, so in my opinion, it is better not to pick up other people's children.

At the beginning of the matter, a stay-at-home mother in Jinan encountered troubles, and she helped a friend pick up her child but didn't want to get into a lawsuit. A friend's child, Lele, was hospitalized for six days after falling off an electric car, and Ms. Zhang paid part of the medical bills. However, Ms. Du did not appreciate it, but sued Ms. Zhang to the court and demanded more than 6,000 yuan from her for medical expenses and nursing expenses.

The court's second-instance judgment has just been issued, and Ms. Zhang does not need to bear the main liability for compensation. The court held that Ms. Zhang's act of helping Ms. Du pick up the child was a friendly expression of neighbors helping each other, which is what we often call helping others, and it is worth advocating.

Netizens are hotly discussing the court's verdict, and netizens have praised it! said that the court finally gave Ms. Zhang justice. As for Ms. Du, netizens condemned her, saying that Ms. Du's character was too bad, everyone was sad when something happened, and Ms. Zhang didn't mean it, can't two and a half years of dedication be exchanged for an understanding?

After two and a half years of ups and downs to pick up and drop off the children for Ms. Du, Ms. Zhang is benevolent and righteous, and it is better not to associate with such friends, it is too sad and sad.

I advocate helping others, but in this matter, we must first see through the person we are helping and see clearly, otherwise we may help an enemy.

I can't help, because the children nowadays are very expensive. If anything goes wrong, we can't afford to take such responsibility.

Personally, I think that the current society is a society that dilutes the sophistication of human feelings, so after this kind of thing has been reported repeatedly, we should protect our rights and interests and not help for free.