My mother objected to me and my girlfriend going on 50

Updated on psychology 2024-04-17
27 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You can let your mother meet the girl you love, let your mother have a further understanding of your girlfriend, let your mother know all kinds of things about your girlfriend, let your mother accept her, your mother's nurturing grace can not be forgotten, without your mother, there will be no you, you can only do this, you have to take action as soon as possible, don't just think, thinking is fruitless.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Your mother should understand your distress, you should not put any pressure on your girlfriend, how difficult it is to find someone to love, you don't want to make a mistake for eternity, I am now forced to marry by my parents, they think that the woman and my family are right, it is a rare pair, I am so annoying, I don't support your parents a little, the work change is just that, why should you break up the lovers who love each other, you shouldn't.

    It shouldn't be !!

    Don't be a coward, don't be a coward, work is for the service of society, not for mobilization.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Have you ever considered whether it's because you have a girlfriend now that your mom is a little afraid of losing you? You followed your mother alone at the age of three, and your mother has a certain sense of dependence on you, really, women are like this, you can consider taking your girlfriend back together, return to your mother, give your mother a certain sense of security, let your mother know that your mother has not lost you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    See if she can go with you? If you can, you can still be together.

    If not, take your time to find a chance to be together.

    You still have to listen to your mother, after all, your parents are the only one, communicate well with your mother, time can do everything, I believe, after a long time, your mother will want you to be together, and the blessing of your family is the happiest, you must insist on going on, if you think she is really the person you love the most! Come on!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I don't think it's very good if your mother's reason for separating you is just to keep you here, she has been taking you by herself, and you have a girlfriend, and you may not be able to accept it psychologically. I wonder if you could get your girlfriend to have more contact with her.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You should have your own opinions, do you want to go? If you want to go, you want to settle your girlfriend. If you don't want to go, just tell your mom. Communication is a great way to do it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Mom raised you since you were a child, and it is you who love you the most, and it is impossible to scare you if you break off the relationship, our love psychology teacher said; If parents don't agree, the best thing to do is to --- delay! (Stalling for time).

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Mother's love is always the truest love!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's really embarrassing, and I've been in a similar situation to you, so I'm sad......

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's really emotional**!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Why is my girlfriend different from someone else's? Can I still be with her?

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It shows that this girl doesn't love you deeply enough, otherwise how can she give up easily? The common phenomenon of parents nowadays is this: when their children reach the age of falling in love, they are obstructed in every way, and when they are twenty-seven or eighteen years old, they are not young, and their parents urge them to marry.

    Let this girl become a leftover girl!

    Feelings are reluctant, love is love, not love is not love, so, if you fall in love with a woman who is not interesting to you, then it is better to die as soon as possible, you have to remember: wishful thinking will be in vain in the end, your sincerity should be given to the woman who knows how to cherish you, only the love of the two lovers will have a good ending.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    When encountering such a problem, first of all, you must face it rationally, because most parents in the world still expect their children to be good (too much, but there are a few), so it is understandable to compare hearts with hearts, and they don't want their children to be wronged, just like your parents, aren't they?

    Here's how to solve the problem, and my friends also had this situation, but then they got together. So for one, you have to talk to your girlfriend to see how much she loves you, to the point that she loves you to the point that she can ignore her family? Second, since you are parents, your children still hope that their love can be recognized and blessed by them, so you should treat it as an equal, don't be rash, and find an opportunity to have a good talk with the woman's parents to show your state of mind.

    Third, if you really love your girlfriend and don't marry her, you need to let the other party's parents see that you treat their daughter very sincerely, at least you should show that you love your girlfriend very much, so that they can rest assured that they will hand over their daughter to you. Fourth, many parents are knife-mouthed tofu hearts, if their daughters insist, there is still room for maneuver, but do you have that confidence to be friendly to your daughters, and treat them regardless of their previous suspicions? In the end, you have to figure out the current situation, if you both love each other very much, these problems are not a problem, the parents are better to coax, it is not possible to force it, then in the end I wish you happiness.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If your girlfriend is soft-eared because of her mother's words, don't want such a wife, if you insist, show your ability Parents are powerful.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If it's if she thinks you're in poor condition.

    Then you can only improve your abilities.

    Make more money and improve your conditions.

    Continue your relationship at the same time.

    I hope to move them with my heart.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You have to learn to give up, what is yours is yours, not your reluctance or not, and distance is also a reason! Show them the best in yourself and make them feel that their reasons are not good in front of you. Show your love for your girlfriend and make them realize that their choice is not necessarily the right thing for her.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Falling in love is the young couple's own business, parents are just a reference, your actions are to impress with real strength, I believe that the emperor lives up to his heart, you hold on, try to feel his mother, if it really doesn't work, forget it, unless you love her very much. To self-study higher education, slowly improve her self-cultivation, and get her mother's approval.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Do you have perseverance? Do you really and absolutely want to be with her?

    I'll hand you a trick, it's the trick I used back then.

    Your girlfriend doesn't seem to like you very much, and now girls can elope with their objects for love, and your girlfriend's mother says a few words, and her position is not firm, which is ......

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If you can't get the other person's parents to be happy with you, persuade you to give up, even if you get married, this is a very huge obstacle.

    The more time passes, the more the conflict intensifies, it is better to plan early.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    As long as you like your girlfriend, you take the initiative, don't care about your girlfriend's mother, take your girlfriend away, or you and your girlfriend first apply for a marriage certificate, so that your girlfriend's mother can't do anything if she wants to break up with you, because marriage is legally stipulated

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Why do you always have such mothers? No way.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Impress her and her mother with your sincerity. Her mother also wants her daughter to be happy, and she doesn't trust you enough, so you can prove it with the strength that can convince her mother.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If you really love your girlfriend, move her with sincerity, true affection, and true love!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Tell her mom that as long as you grow up, you can have a stable job.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Divide it! There is no grass at the end of the world.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    There is no need to redeem it anymore.

    If he didn't lie to you, it was really because his mother didn't agree.

    Then listen to his mother.

    After marriage, the relationship between your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is also very difficult, and it will be difficult for you to always be on his mother's side.

    If he's lying to you and just using his mother as an excuse, I don't need to say what to do next, right?

    A friend was right.

    If he really loves you, he will go with you to make his mother like you instead of the way he is now, and he won't agree to you asking him so much.

    Give up, there is no need to redeem it at all!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Xiao Bajie (Shanghai Fine Arts Film Studio, 1983).

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