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Women can be patient in marriage, but they must stop in moderation and do not lose their dignity and bottom line. After a woman enters marriage, she always has more things to worry about than men, not only to have children, but also to raise her in-laws, and to take care of her parents. And men's personalities are more aggressive, and they can't understand women's sadness at all, so many women always pay without a bottom line in marriage, turning themselves into an old mother, and in the end, Lao Zhuhuang even dislikes her husband.
So women should stop in moderation when giving in love, once you are in a marriage full of holes and even your sincerity is let down by the other party, then you should take back your own efforts and don't waste time on unworthy people. <>
First, marriage is not a compromise, but a heart-to-heart effort. Marriage should be the continuation of love, it is the collision of two hearts, even after the seven-year itch, love should exist, not just family affection. If you have been neglected by the other party for many years, it proves that he does not have you in his heart, and marriage should be a heart-to-heart relationship, and you must get along with each other with a grateful attitude, so as not to live up to the other party's deep love.
Second, if a marriage disgraces you, it's better to leave in time. Marriage is important, but human dignity is even more important, if the other party always betrays and cheats on you, it proves that he is not the right person, why bother to compromise in the wrong love. Women must first learn to love themselves, and only when you become excellent are you worthy of being loved by others.
Once you encounter betrayal in your marriage, you should get out of it in time. <>
Third, learn to praise and be considerate of your other half, and your marriage will be happier. In marriage, there is not only giving, but also mutual appreciation, as a woman you can be strong, but not too strong, after all, every man likes a woman who is gentle like water. Gentle women are more able to manage their families and marriages, they know how to combine rigidity and softness, use their high emotional intelligence to solve problems, and also know how to create a romantic atmosphere to make their relationship more stable.
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Women have a lot of forbearance in marriage, and they must pay for their feelings in order to be able to reciprocate.
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Women have a lot of forbearance in marriage, for example, they will endure some grievances. And the contribution is also very large, so women are very important in marriage.
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Women are very forbearant in marriage, and there are many times when they do things that they are not willing to do in order to take care of each other's feelings.
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Women have a lot of forbearance in marriage, for example, they often do housework, but they do not complain, they often care about the life of their families, and they never complain.
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A lot of forbearance, women have to take care of children in married life, work, and also need to complete the housework at home.
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In a marriage without children, it may be fine. But a woman who has become a mother is really aggrieved in marriage, she has to do housework, her children have to be taught, and she has to earn money, and she can't get comfort and support in the process, she is very tired, and she is obviously disheartened, but she can't get a divorce, which is very sad.
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Sacrifice your career and put all your efforts into the family, taking care of the housework, taking care of the children, and supporting the elderly.
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For the sake of feelings, women can even restrain their temper, which is very humble, just to seek perfection and harmony.
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To marry and raise children, there is no free life before marriage, and occasionally there are some things outside the situation, marriage is sometimes a grave for women.
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Women actually have to pay a lot of forbearance in marriage, first of all, they have to give up their careers, go home to have children and take care of the family.
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In fact, whether in marriage or not, as long as a girl pays too much, she will eventually be hurt, because many times, boys are really so strange, the more gentle and considerate you are, the more sensible and well-behaved you are, the more you tolerate and accommodate, the more he doesn't know how to cherish, the more you give in, the more he is excessive, the more he feels that you deserve, so many times, when a girl is in love, or after marriage, you must remember that no matter how important this man is to you, no matter how important this family is to you, For you, you are the most important person, and you must always remember that you must love yourself the most, otherwise it is normal to be hurt.
I have always felt that we can love others, we can be accommodating and tolerant for the people we love, and we can also pay a lot for the people we love, but the premise is that we love ourselves the most, many people always say, you don't understand love at all, what you love most is yourself, I think this sentence is right, I just love myself the most, if I don't even love myself, then who will love me, I only love myself, others will love me, will respect me, isn't it.
And those girls who pay to the end in marriage and have no ego at all, those women who pay and can't see their importance at all, do you think she has received the corresponding respect, has she been valued by others, has she been loved by others, no, she has not gotten anything, all she gets is more bad temper and more dissatisfaction from others.
You think that you have a good temper and give everything, you think that as long as you work hard to accommodate the other party, the other party can see your good, you are wrong because when you don't have yourself in your own eyes, others can't see it, so in marriage, you can love that person very much in love, but what you love most is just yourself, don't let anyone take your place in loving yourself.
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It is easy to be hurt, in marriage to pay together, the woman can not pay too much, in the marriage the woman must have an independent economy.
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Yes, because such people pay more, they are very sad after breaking up, and they can easily be hurt. It's easy to meet scumbags
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Yes, because these women have given too much, so it will cause a certain amount of damage, and there will be certain problems in their hearts.
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If a woman can understand the man a little more in a relationship, you will actually find that the relationship between herself and the man can get better and better. Perhaps, in your opinion, if you understand this man, it means that you may be affected. After all, you need to put yourself in a man's shoes and think about things.
In marriage, a woman may give more! But you don't have to spend all your time grooming yourself in marriage. No matter what kind of relationship you are in, you should learn moderation and not allow yourself to be too immersed in it.
In fact, when a woman can show her little female side to this man in a marriage, it means that this man will cherish you in this relationship. After all, the vast majority of men don't demand much from women. But I just want this woman to be coquettish to herself occasionally, so that I feel that I am needed by this woman.
Many women are afraid to get married because they have seen too many unhappy marriages. Many women feel that there are too many things that a woman needs to do in a married life. For example, you need to do everything in the house by yourself.
But in reality, this is not the case. If the man who shouted Xunguo has feelings for a woman, then he will know how to share it for this woman, and he will never let it go. Therefore, women should not be disappointed in marriage.
Not all men will be cruel to women, you can still meet a man who suits you.
Since both of you have chosen to enter a marriage, you should learn to make yourself mature and not choose to blame each other when something happens. You must know that two people in a marriage need to face some things together. If neither of you has the ability to bear it, even if the two of you enter Zheng Wei and enter the marriage, there will be no result.
So, the two of you should think about it. However, there is no need to be afraid of marriage. As long as you can make yourself attentive, you can go on with each other for a long time.
If a woman meets this man in a relationship and can't support you, you don't need to be angry. After all, as a man, he must have his own thoughts, right? Moreover, as a woman, you should have to make yourself a little more independent.
You must know that if you choose to marry this man, it does not mean that he will definitely support you in this relationship.
If a woman wants to have a place in this marriage, then you should not make yourself dependent on this man. In this way, it is naturally unlikely that a man will look down on you.
Emotional message: The reason why many people have so much burden about marriage is because she has seen too many unhappy marriages. Don't treat marriage as a burden for a bird, and live the most ordinary life in a down-to-earth manner!!
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We said that the marriage of these two people contained a lot of misfortunes from the beginning, first of all, the man did not work and was lazy after resigning; Secondly, I don't respect my mother-in-law and elders. There was no one in sight at the beginning, not to mention that the old man was old. As a man, he was supposed to be the head of the family, but since he decided to get married, he had a good life, and a few years have passed, so why can't he let some girls go.
The quarrel is nothing more than the expenses during the marriage, even if you regret the wedding, you can withdraw from the marriage? The woman has a job, how can she think of making fun of the woman's life? What's more, you've been together for a few years, and to put it bluntly, you've raised your fiancée for a few years?
This guy is really too impulsive.
Seeing this, in my opinion, marriage should be done with a man who can tolerate each other, at least be good to the elders, and take responsibility, rather than a boy. This is also the reason why the two protagonists were called girls and boys earlier. It's not that because you are tall and handsome, you are a good companion to eat and sleep in the house all day long, watch horror movies and play games.
If your family can't hold up, what can you expect? It's not so much that it's delicious and lazy, it's better to break the jar and break it, I'm like this, see what your mother-in-law can do to me? In a way, it's against the elders.
Generally speaking, they are not going to get married, they will definitely have children, the pressure at home is greater, the responsibilities are heavier, and they should work hard to find a job or do a business to take care of the whole family? How can it be said that if you don't work for a few years, you will stay at the woman's house?
May every couple become husband and wife, may every couple stay together for a lifetime, may every family be full of laughter, parents and children and grandchildren, and a happy family!
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Very selfish, distrustful of you, will always be blinded by interests, if you have these three characteristics, you must give up decisively.
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Money worship regards money as very important, selfish, does not consider the feelings of the people around them when doing any bright and noisy things, only cares about themselves, they like to make a big noise no matter what the occasion, without caring about the faces of the people around them, and always cautious and arrogant.
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Considering money too important, often cheating on you, and not communicating with you when encountering problems, women with these three characteristics must give up decisively.
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Because when the man gives, the woman doesn't see it.
I think that a really smart woman will not disrespect each other's feelings in a relationship, and she will not quarrel with each other often, and she will not often complain and dislike each other, and she will not often distrust each other, be suspicious of each other, feel that the other party does not love her, and she will not be too possessive and controlling of the other party.
It is indeed because he is not ruthless enough, he always has expectations for men, but he will be disappointed again and again, thus making his marriage unhappy.
Women who do not conflict with their mother-in-law, in marriage, they understand that their mother-in-law is not their mother. You have to live your own life.
You should face it bravely and tell yourself that there is no need to put pressure on yourself, the pressure in the marriage can be borne by the other half, and if the other party is unwilling to bear it, you can choose to separate, so that women will not be tired in marriage.
If you don't love each other, infatuation will definitely not come to fruition.