Is the breakup more upset by the person proposing the breakup or the person being broken up?

<>I think it depends on who is more sad between the two people, and it should be seen who cares more about each other in this relationship.

Situation 1: Because the boy has no feelings for the girl, he proposes to break up like a girl.

And girls still like boys very much, but boys don't have any intention of compounding.

In this case, it's definitely the girl who is sad, because the boy doesn't like the girl anymore, and the breakup will only make him feel free again.

Situation 2: The boy obviously feels that the girl no longer has the kind of love for himself, and the daily relationship with the girl has become more and more like a stranger, and he doesn't want to continue this kind of life that makes both parties feel painful, the boy directly proposes to the girl to break up, in this case, because the boy still likes the girl, but he doesn't want to watch the girl continue to be awkward, and the more uncomfortable thing is definitely the boy who continues to love the girl.

Situation 3: The plot set by the idol drama.

The boy knew that he was seriously ill, and in order to reduce the harm to his girlfriend, he chose to break up with his girlfriend, and without the girl's knowledge, he simply believed the reason why the boy said to himself because he didn't like it.

In this case, both the boy who proposed the breakup and the girl who was broken up will feel very sad. Because both of them still like each other.

Therefore, I think that what cannot be generalized is to judge whether the person who proposed the breakup is more sad after the breakup, or the person who is proposed to break up will be more sad. I think the more painful party is often the one who is not willing to let go of the past and immerse itself in memories.

In a love, what is more sad is not the party who mentions the breakup first, and of course it is not the party who does not mention the breakup, because who is more uncomfortable has nothing to do with this at all. When two people are together, what is more uncomfortable when they break up is always which party loves more, it doesn't matter if the other party is a boy or a girl, it doesn't matter who broke up first, it doesn't matter which one is more handsome or more beautiful, it's just because who loves more and who is more uncomfortable.

Everything else is an excuse to break up, only the one who loves more, they have paid more love, seriousness, and effort in this love, and they are unwilling to end this love. At this time, if they perceive the other party's reluctance, they may also choose to break up first, but this is only because they have seen the other party's unwillingness to continue.

Some people who love a lot, that's it, they may indeed go back and mention the breakup first, they see the fact that this love can't go on, maybe because the other party's attitude has expressed everything, or because of some other reason. In short, they know very well that this relationship can't go on, and there is only one way to go, like Ye in idol dramas. The male protagonist is about to die because of some diseases, and then he reluctantly pretends to be a bad man to break up with his girlfriend, of course they love it in their hearts, but they know that there is no way to go on.

Then they brought up the breakup.

Although they mentioned breaking up, it doesn't affect which one they still love more, and they have to hide it from each other, watch their beloved other party misunderstand, watch each other cry to death, but they can't do anything to change everything. Who can imagine the pain in their hearts, of course they are very sad.

Of course, there are very few such bloody plots in reality, most of the breakups in reality are the one who loves less, and of course there are those who love less anymore, but they just don't mention breaking up, saying that they want to give the right to break up to the other party. But this does not affect the breakup at all, and the saddest thing is the one who loves more.

In fact, feelings are such a thing, and the final means of separation are not important at all. As long as you are serious, you will lose, this sentence is unreasonable elsewhere, but it is the most suitable for this broken up relationship. Because the two of you broke up.

Or you are destined to break up, then in your relationship, the saddest person will always be the one who loves more, and the one who loves more is generally the one who is serious.

If you are serious, you will lose, and I hope to help the subject.

The reason why the person who broke up is more uncomfortable is that the person who broke up is more psychologically stressed. Because there is a break in a relationship. The person who first brought it up had to overcome his own psychology and was reluctant to accept this situation. They broke up, so he was going to be more uncomfortable than the other person.

It should be a breakup, and I think about it more!

Maybe the person who mentions the breakup, considering that the two people are together has no result, maybe the two people are hurting each other together, so the person who mentions the breakup will consider the breakup.

I also mention that people who break up will be more sad!

Maybe I can't even believe that I've come this far.

No, unless you have never loved him or her, you will be sad, because you have lost the person you once loved, the memories are still there, sad because the happy memories are more profound, only time is a good medicine to solve your troubles, as long as you think about the end also means the beginning. I am coming again. Maybe there will be a lot less pain.

Only people who have loved deeply will be sad, as long as they are not deeply loved, then it doesn't matter who proposes to break up at all. It's just that some people are in the way of face, so those who are broken up are more sad.

People who are broken up are more upset. Because they are in a passive position in this relationship, they are abandoned.

Both people will be very sad, if both people take the relationship very seriously, then they are not willing to end, so both of them will be very sad when they break up.