What is it like to have someone who likes you, and you don t like and dislike it?

There should be two of them.

The first: how it feels that the person you like doesn't like you. Everyone has had a great liking for someone, but that person's heart is not in them.

We will be eager to try it at first, and we will always think that we will be an exception, so you will be confident to influence him and do everything to be good to him.

You always feel like the ice will melt too. But gradually, you will find that it does not melt, and everything you do does does not seem to be of much use. Even if he will treat you kindly, but that is not love, at this time you will find that love cannot be moved, love can only be moved.

So you're going to be frustrated, you're going to be discouraged. But you still have a bit of luck, thinking that if he likes you, so even if you are injured, you still move on, and still think that you should be the last in Bo. Later, he had someone he loved, and when he first heard it, his heart was like a fire that had been roasted for a long time and then suddenly put ice water, and there was a crack in the beep, and then it cracked with a bang.

You will contrast, you will be anxious, you will be resentful. You find that he has a different attitude towards the person he loves than he does towards you and other outsiders, and you will find that he really loves someone like this. And then you start to suffer, to suffer your sharpness, to suffer why you don't give up.

In the end, maybe you will continue to be miserable by his side, and maybe you will leave to wish him happiness in your heart. But no matter how you choose, there is only one consequence, that is, there are thousands of holes in your heart and a smile on your face.

Second, what is it like to have someone who likes you that you don't like and dislike it. I have also met such people, there is a person who has liked me for many years and has always liked me since elementary school. He's a gangster, everyone looks down on that, and I've heard that he loves to take advantage of girls, and he's very scummy and irresponsible.

But he has always been very good, considerate and respectful to me. Maybe that's the difference between those who love and those who don't. Then I didn't like him at first, and I thought it was as disgusting as eating cockroaches.

Because he is really too bad. Bad family background, their family is messy, very unfavorable and fierce, and everyone has a bad impression of them. Bad people, not good at reading, bullying men and women at school, disrespecting teachers, and speaking with a yellow mouth.

In short, it's a person you won't want to look at more. I think it's blasphemy to be liked by this kind of person. Later, when I grew up, I also liked people who I couldn't reach, and I also liked people who were too good to me, and after seeing too much of the world, I would be a little more tolerant, and even if I didn't like it, I would respect the likes of others.

So far, I won't be disgusted, because I think that no matter whether you like it or not, someone treats you with kindness, someone likes you for you, it's a thing to be grateful for, even if you can't accept other people's love, you can't trample on it at will. That's what I told my brother.

Seeing this question reminds me of the worst fate in life: the people I like don't like me, and the people who appear I don't like them. How does that feel? Probably, I think I'll always be lonely, so lonely all my life.

Today's sky is so blue, but I don't dare to look up, the ending of the movie is always so happy, there are lovers who eventually become married, and I only feel sad, because I am very lonely, so lonely that I dare not think about messy things, and I am a little scared, afraid to hear your news in the mouth of my friends, because I know that I like you, and you will not accept me, and it is a little sad to think about it, so I have to live a little bit, and it will be even more difficult to find out. Because I like it, I can't compromise, and I can't compromise.

I still remember, the summer vacation in my memory, that was the first time I met such a good and wonderful person, I think maybe that's like it, so I have your shadow in my heart, I was sitting behind you, feel your temperature, feel your taste, I was even thinking about our future life, I even thought about the name of our child, and also thought about raising a dog or a cat in the future. But imagination is imagination after all, I like it all, it's a burden for you, I like someone who doesn't like me, I start to learn to reconcile with myself, because you won't accept me, but no matter what, because I like you, watching you happy, I hope I hear the news of your happiness, although the person who is with you is not me, I may be jealous, I will envy, I will hate. But I'll still be grateful for meeting you.

There is such a person, she has liked me for a long time, and our relationship is very delicate, because she is good to me, but I don't accept it, and the people around me are not very understanding, saying why can't we be together? Can you try it? I thought that if I really tried that, it would be irresponsible to her, because I knew that I hated her and couldn't accept her, countless times, I wanted to sit down and talk to her, talk about what I liked about me, maybe I had low self-esteem, I was ordinary from childhood to adulthood, I felt that I was not worthy of other people's liking, I hated others to like it, this is not picky, but I can't compromise, because I only have one life, and I can't give it to someone I don't love.

You're a good person, but I don't like you, so we can't be together.

We can't accept the people we don't like Although they like us, but we choose, we like but don't like us, life is probably such a contradiction, what you can't get is always in turmoil, maybe the person you like doesn't like me, for a long time, put it in my heart, but no matter what, what kind of personnel you have experienced, isn't life still going on? We should all look forward.

The person you like doesn't like you, I guess you also told her that you like her, and then she may not like you either, or you have known each other for too long, she doesn't think about men and women at all, when I play well with a guy and don't think about him, he is a girl in my eyes!

If she is very resistant to "you like her", and you don't want to lose this friend, it is better to be friends silently, and then treat her better than others on the basis of friends, and have more boyfriend care, love and love for girlfriends, but don't be too deliberate.

To be honest, from a girl's point of view, I will be under a lot of pressure if someone I don't like likes me......Besides, this man is my friend. I'm afraid that if I say don't like me and then I don't even have to be a friend, I don't want you to be too good to me and can't afford it.

A friend of mine has liked a girl in their class since his freshman year of high school (until he graduated from college this year), but the girl only treats him as a friend. And then he probably won't chase girls. After telling the girl that she liked her, she waited silently, and then the girl was chased away by others, he applied to be a spare tire by himself, the girl broke up, chatted with her, the girl was in a good mood, and he disappeared silently.

caused him to like a girl for many years, and that girl still regarded him as a friend.

To like the experience of someone who doesn't like you is probably not right to do anything. I can't be nice to you like your boyfriend, and I can't stop those who chase you like my boyfriend because there's no qualification.

<>This is typical, the person I love has a master, and the person who loves me is miserable, in fact, there are a lot of such things happening in life. It's that the person you like doesn't like you, but the person who likes you doesn't like him, and the person you don't like, what behavior you show, you are quite annoying, even if he is good to you, you don't like this person, I think we people, it's such a tangled animal, I think it's not easy to find a person you like, and you like you, if you find it, you should cherish it, so in many questions I will say this, it's not easy to meet someone you like, And if that person likes you, it's really harder, in fact, there are a lot of such things in life, and I've encountered a lot, in fact, I will unconsciously have a nasty mood for that person, I don't know why, anyway, I don't like him, I don't want him to do anything to me, what he does anyway I will hate it, it's disgusting with her kind of behavior, in fact, I also know it's wrong, but I really can't control myself, I hate myself like this, I don't want to do anything bad to people who like me, but sometimes I just can't control myself, I really hate myself like this, I think it's not easy for people to like you, you should just don't like people and you should try to be good to others, I really can't stand that I hate people, I know it's really bad, and I feel that when I face them, I will have an inexplicable sense of arrogance, and I don't know what I'm arrogant about, Maybe it's because people like me, so I feel that way, but I hate myself like that, I don't like that kind of emotion, but sometimes I really can't control myself.

I used to discuss this topic with my classmates, and they said to me, Hua Meinan, why don't you have a girlfriend, I feel that people like you should have a girlfriend.

I said yes, yes, but I don't know why the people I like always look down on me, and those who like me don't look down on me, maybe because of psychological thoughts, you say you like me, I feel that your sense of worth is not high, at least not as high as me, because you like me, and the girl I like, don't like me, the sense of worth is higher than mine, the more I don't like me, the more I like her, maybe it's cheap.

I'm still single, and some people may say that I deserve it, but that's what I do, and there's no way to change it.

But sometimes I wonder if it's not psychological. There were a few experiences when I started to like these girls, and then I started to get closer, and slowly got to know each other, and these girls began to have a good impression of me, and slowly liked me, and I don't know if it was because I liked them or because during this time together, I found that I didn't seem to like them, because during this time with them, I felt that they were not as good as I imagined.

In fact, it's really sad like me, I really deserve to be single, those girls I like still don't like me, I will remember it deeply, and I basically forget everything about what I like.

In the final analysis, this kind of character is relieved, the person you like doesn't like you, you continue to like her, maybe you just like this feeling of not being able to chase, people who like you already like you, there is no pursuit, you just like the feeling of chasing people, why do you want to continue to like it? So just leave her alone and continue to follow your own personality and like people who don't like you.

So, we people are really conflicted every day. Born to be single!

I've had this situation before. When I was a sophomore in high school, I was friends with him, and then he confessed, and then I agreed to him because of some things, and then I got more and more tired of him because I didn't like it, and then I graduated from high school, and I directly deleted my friend and disappeared. Later, when I went to college, I went around and added it, and then I'm a senior now, and he still likes me very much, and he immediately chats with me every day when he knows I'm single, so I feel very annoyed, and I generally ignore him, and sometimes I just block him, and then release it when I'm in a good mood.

Sometimes a word in reply to him is also hurtful. That changed in the first semester of my senior year because something happened. During the summer vacation of my junior year, I broke up with my boyfriend, and I didn't contact him halfway, and then the summer vacation ended, and when I returned to school, I couldn't help but go to him to get back together, and then he refused, and he kept pestering him for the next few days, and then I was haunted by me, and he went from occasionally returning to not replying to my messages at all, and he was also very cold and violent to me.

During that time, I really experienced that kind of despair, being bored by the person I liked, sending messages every day to see if there was a message reply on my mobile phone, and immediately read it as soon as there was a message, and then it was not the disappointment of his message, I felt painful, and I knew that feeling at that time. So I apologized to him, and then I would reply to his messages, I don't hurt him with words and cold violence, I just want to say, don't love, please don't hurt.

I had this feeling yesterday. It's uncomfortable, that guy is not my favorite in every way, and when I felt it, I started to deliberately joke with other girls in front of him or discuss other boys with my female friends in front of him. But this feeling has not gone away.

He didn't say it, and I didn't say it. Anyway, I try to have as little contact with him as possible when I do things, and I don't want to have anything to do with him......I don't want to talk to him either, or even joke about it.

My opinion on this emotional issue is:: When you are liked by someone you don't like, there are many feelings, such as embarrassment, helplessness, confusion, etc.

Specifically, it can be described in the following aspects:

1.Embarrassment is the first reaction. When someone you don't like has a crush on you, you may feel very embarrassed because you don't know how to respond to the other person's confession of affection and don't want to hurt the other person.

2.Helplessness is inevitable. Even if you try everything you can to avoid socializing with the other person, some people may become very persistent and even do things that make you feel helpless, and you will want the other person to give up even more.

3.It's normal to be confused. When you find out that someone you don't like has a crush on you, you may wonder why, and you may feel confused, because the other person's liking may be very different from what you expect.

4.It is necessary to respect the Qing office. Although you don't have a crush on the person, respect the other person's feelings, don't ridicule or belittle the other person, and use appropriate words when refusing to make the other person feel that they have been hurt.

5.Honesty is the best option. If you don't feel anything about this person, then be honest with the other person, express your thoughts directly, don't give the other person any hope, but also express it in a friendly way.

This will allow the other person to understand your thoughts and perhaps build a long-term friendship.

Extended supplement: When you are liked by someone you don't like, you can also relieve your ambivalence in some of the following ways. For example, you can find something that interests you to do to distract yourself, or you can make more friends and expand your social circle, which can reduce the frequency of your interactions with the other person.

Summary: When you are liked by someone you don't like, you will feel embarrassed, helpless, confused and other emotions, but no matter what, you still have to face it in a respectful and honest way. This allows us to be more mature and maintain our authentic personality without having to disguise our feelings.