Sincerely in need of help I feel very unstable

This is related to your family, parents, you may not have been praised by your parents since you were a child, and your mother said that you are not as good as other children, forming a kind of inferiority complex, you take the undergraduate diploma, but you want others to affirm your success, and you have no perseverance, so you are very upset. Maybe you should find an opportunity to show the first side of your success in front of your parents, talk to your parents (you shouldn't talk to your parents much) and say that you need your parents' praise now, not blame, and say that I will be no worse than others in the future.

Go to a psychiatrist! What you need is to break through yourself, others can condemn you, but you can't.

Is the knot in your heart the estrangement between you and your parents? And you have not been praised by your parents have lost the driving force, you long for your strengths and achievements to be affirmed by your parents Praising others is both pressure and motivation, because of pressure and motivation I hope that your parents will not hesitate to praise their excellent sons in the future.

What are the young people afraid of?

There is time, and the timid ones are like me.

Choose your own path and muster up the courage to go down. Maybe the world will be different.

It's normal to be confused.

It's also normal to waste time.

So calmly accept the reality and go to the undergraduate exam with peace of mind, the salary of a year is nothing.

You can't have both fish and bear's paws, and you can only gain something if you give it up.

Do something, but don't do something.

I wish you a speedy decision.

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In the continuation of the matter**

You are afraid to take on responsibilities at work. Your heart can't afford your fear of work? Do you solve it with an escape method?

You should sometimes be open to working your own way, and you should summarize the reasons why you don't want to do each job. How can you avoid finding a reason to quit your job in the next job. For a person with low self-esteem, he must surpass himself.

Start with a clear goal.

If you have a problem with your mentality, you have to learn to persevere, it doesn't matter what work you do, I do better than others, no job is very empty, you have to learn to adjust your mentality! Only when you have a job can you feel fulfilled, have self-confidence, have a goal to work on, learn things, and make friends.

My own personality is an emotional multiple personality, when I am in a good mood, everyone is happy, and when I am in a bad mood, I use words to attack the people closest to me, but there are inevitably people who do not review themselves at all, they are eager for quick success, thinking that they are good friends with you, in fact, I will not be sincere to them. But in this society, the process between people is mutual, you summarize your own personality, if your own nature is indifferent, then you don't live hypocritically, at the beginning of getting along with me said that I am a slow type, even indifferent, don't force yourself to laugh, if you really don't want to do it, just give up, anyway, as you said, you said that you are an indifferent person. But sometimes, you will be deceived by yourself Because you will feel that you are very useless, so you intuitively deny this matter and hate yourself, otherwise others will not think you are very enthusiastic, since others say that you are very enthusiastic, it means that someone likes you and is happy to be friends with you, isn't it?

When others like you, do you really have no joy in your heart?

I hope you truly love yourself, face up to your strengths and weaknesses, accept them, and then love others and care for them from the heart. Look at the dots and you'll feel like the world is big. My life quote is: The heart turns wide, and if there is no desire, it is strong!

Then communicate with others.

Don't be greedy.

Put yourself in your shoes and think more about others.

If there is any problem, just say it and everyone will solve it together.

The first thing you need to consider about this disease is whether you have anemia, according to what you said, you should have irregular menstruation, it is easy to cause anemia, and the other is to consider whether there is a heart problem. You'd better go to a regular hospital for a relevant examination, and you must not be nervous, I wish you a speed.

Child, don't think about it yourself, go to the hospital to check it out, your body is too bad, take care of it, health first, I wish you a good day.

It was indeed too early to buy a house for the marriage of my 8-year-old son.

But buying a house is also an investment, if the economy is well-off, you can consider buying a house as an investment, the money will only become less and less valuable, and the bank's interest is simply not enough for it to fall. If you don't have any money, then don't embarrass yourself, wait for a while, after all, children need money to go to school and live, if you are in debt to buy a house, the pressure is too great, and the quality of life will inevitably decline every day. Not a rational choice.

It is recommended that you buy it later, and you can give the child a good environment now

Say break up with him! If she asks why! Just click on it! If she says she will change, it means that she doesn't want to break up with you! Then you give her a chance! She should change! If not! I think you'll be like her! Or break up!

Agree with the upstairs, either reform her yourself, or it's better to get ahead of time, after all, the ultimate purpose of you being together is for a happy life in the future, and it can be seen from your description that she doesn't even seem to be able to respect others, so don't think that she will be reasonable in the future and listen to you obediently.

Laugh I can see that your girlfriend is super capable of blowing, but it seems to be blowing big, such a girl is good to fly early, otherwise it will be a big trouble when you get married

If you can educate and educate, you can't educate, break up, give too much face, and be shameless.

Take a look at which unqualified clan sells poor skins with state.

The new state attacks Shen Fan Jing Zen master.

Hehe, it's useless for you to say this here. Instead of asking for help here, you should go to the bank or borrow from someone who knows you.

Landlord, you're not talking nonsense.

You go to a loan shark. We generally don't believe it, we don't believe it very much.

The forest is big, and there are all kinds of birds.