Please don t think my story is long, I need help, please!

From your story, I see that you probably have two puzzles:1doubting her husband's love for her and not being confident; 2.The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very bad, and they are in a state of opposition (or secret war).

I believe that to solve the above problems, one must rely on yourself, and the other must rely on your husband. As a wife and daughter-in-law, if you want to change the status quo, you must first change yourself, be gentle and virtuous to your husband, and be tolerant and filial to your mother-in-law. You should often exchange ideas with your husband, tell him what is in your heart tactfully, instead of complaining and blaming, so that your husband understands and trusts you.

At the same time, don't always think that your husband is good, you should build self-confidence and show your strengths and charms.

If it doesn't work, especially if you think that your mother-in-law is really intolerable in the middle, then what you said about exposing your mother-in-law's true form in front of your husband will never work, even if it is exposed, can the son still blame the mother, and it will only be you who will suffer if you are stiff.

It is recommended that if economic conditions or other conditions allow, you should think of a good way to separate from your mother-in-law and live a happy life in a small family, but you should often accompany your husband and take your children to see your mother-in-law.

Hope it helps you a little.

Some men's love is subtle, sometimes a responsible man is better than a man who will only love you, as for the mother-in-law, people have different concepts when they are old, you try to persuade them.

As before, men want their women to be filial to the elderly, you need to talk to him, you can also find a psychiatrist, you need to have a complainant.

Your mentality is a little bad, after all, your mother-in-law is your husband's mother-in-law, just like you are the mother-in-law of your two sons, and one day you will also be your mother-in-law, so you have to be a little more considerate of the elderly. Mother-in-law's love for your husband and your son is different from yours, and it must be even worse if there is a mother-in-law who doesn't care. In addition, there is no man who helps his wife because of the discord between his wife and his mother.

Therefore, if you want to win over your husband's heart, you have to have a good relationship with your mother-in-law. You have two sons as your backing, and if you have a mother-in-law to support you, I believe that your husband has no way not to love you.

There are skills in getting along with your mother-in-law, you can find some information on the Internet, try to relax your mind, put it at ease, if you can not live together, it can avoid a lot of conflicts.

Wishing you happiness!

Mother-in-law is like this. I don't think there are many people who can meet a good mother-in-law! Just ignore her.

Just do your part, I think my husband loves my mother! If he speaks ill of his mother in front of his husband, he will quarrel. Take a step back and open the sky.

Eldest sister, it's just psychological, if you don't love someone, will you spend the rest of your life with him If your husband doesn't love you and is still with you, then is he going to hone a man's endurance For the problem of mother-in-law, she doesn't always embarrass you, you just treat him as a clown who loves to act, she is good to her son and grandson, it is better than seeing your beloved husband lack maternal love, and his son is not as painful as his grandmother, okay But you should readjust your mentality Try to treat the old man as a mother.

Loving you is not measured, every bit of life can be seen whether he loves you or not. For example, he couldn't have been unaware of his mother's troubles.

For your mother-in-law, it's better not to be stiff. Even if she appears as you wish, she will still be your husband's mother. Remember, you have two sons, and that's all you need to give and care for.

It's time to talk to her mother.

Friends can see that you love her very much, but there is no way, you have to accept some reality, you love her and respect her choice, if she chooses her boyfriend this time is right, maybe she will be very happy in the future, I believe you are also willing to see such a result, right? So please bring your blessings.

But if she chooses her ex-boyfriend this time and lives unhappily, then I think you have no choice, because the decision is her own choice, no one really wants to get to that point, but there is no way, I think she will feel that she lost your true love, what you can do now is to bless her well, don't be her companion or anything, since you can't get it, don't want it, the reason why men live chicly is because of the trade-offs they understand, I hope you can understand that love is not our only thing, and men's careers are important.

I know you're in a bad mood, but please come out and don't be sad and look back at the upstairs solution.

Are you sure you like him? I think it's just a habit!

If he genuinely loves you, will he make you do something you don't want to do? Will it make you sad? You are just his tool, he will come to you when he needs it, and he will pull you and not let you lose it if he doesn't need it!

If he can live with you, I'll disappear from the face of the earth! Well, that's it, self-respect!

I've had the same experience with you before, I was chasing her, I felt like she would like me too, and when I confessed to her, she rejected me.

It didn't take long for her to get along with another boy. I was as sad as you were. I just feel like God is being unfair to me.

So I had to forget about her, but seriously, it was hard at first. But then a friend told me that to forget about one person, you need to like another person. I was decadent during that time.

I don't know how I got through it. All I do is try every day not to think about her. Slowly, the days went by.

Just accept this reality.

I really understand you. I hope you can find true love soon... Thank you.

Relationship problems have to be understood by themselves, judging from your current situation, the other party only regards you as a confidant, and what she still can't let go of is his ex-boyfriend, there may be hope, but it is very slim.

Ambiguity always makes people feel wronged! Do what you have to do, go for it. I think what you wrote is quite clear, and you should think it very clearly.

If you have that ability, then you will always be friends with him. But if you're not sure, I'd better stay away. The game has rules, and if you are serious, you will lose.

I think you should say what you think in your heart and give yourself an explanation, so that you may be able to let go slowly.

Since she has become someone else's girlfriend, it proves that she doesn't have you in her heart and only sees you as a friend, in this case, why do you force so much? No matter how much you want and she won't be your girlfriend. Right?

Give her up! Your real destined people are waiting for you to discover. If you fall in love with the one who also likes you, you will surely be happy. And you'll forget about her before you know it.

There are major events in life to consider, mutual appreciation will be happy, and there will be people you like and like you, maybe she is not the princess of your life,

Go and love it! Try! Believe in yourself!

Rest assured, if he likes you, you are a couple, together; He doesn't like your words, you're still brother and sister, together.

The opportunity is still quite big, what will happen if you fail, believe in yourself, brother, I support you.

There should be a chance, and you also said that he has not come out of his sad state, so now you have to stick to him and move him.

Tower's love for you should be the love of your brother and sister, and it is more likely that he will not agree to you.

It doesn't matter how it turns out, as long as you say what you love

Oh, the love of the student days. I'm past that period, but reading your story has made me relive my own love process... Pain, but, very innocent...

I'm sure you, and your boyfriend, will grow up slowly. I believe that these experiences will give you a lot of insights in your future life, and will also make you miss how stubborn and simple you are at this moment. Don't worry, don't be unhappy, what you have experienced is what you have gained.

I'm sure you'll know one day you're wrong. In fact, there is no right or wrong in many things. You just haven't communicated well and empathized well.

There are some things that I feel bad, such as: the division of QQ has caused you to be dissatisfied, so why make him dissatisfied in the same way? If you do a good job, others will be infected, once, twice, I believe that no matter how ignorant your lover is, you will sincerely admire you, that is your personality charm, you know?

People, live more for yourself, listen to your own heart. If you do that, it's because you're kind and true, that's how it is, others don't do the same as you, that's someone else's business, and you can't control it. Don't change your original intention and truth as a person because of others, even if this person is someone you love deeply.

Actually, you really don't have any principled differences, you are wrong here, you are a little too picky. Your boyfriend doesn't necessarily do something on purpose, you have to force him to follow your thinking, and it's normal for you to break up unhappily. Judging by what you said, you're too sensitive.

Two people should be humble and tolerant of each other when they get along, so that they can last for a long time.

This is the case with all the only children of today.

Lack of love. Lack of inclusion.

Be calm and communicative.

You're not wrong. What does such a man want him to do. Stingy, self-conscious. There is no need to blame yourself. Not looking for you is his loss.