Is it normal for a 28 year old not to want a child?

Mind other people's mouths, now in this society, the pressure of competition is so great, the pressure of raising a child and the funds are greater, hard work is not for the future to give the baby the best raising conditions, now this opportunity is not ripe, why the baby suffers with it, there are more Dink families around me, and I don't see anyone talking nonsense, those people are just full of food and have nothing to do, don't pay attention to them, I'm 27 years old and haven't married my boyfriend, I don't have to live according to what you say, I have to die to apologize for my sin... Also, make long-term plans, figure out what you and your lover think in their hearts, both parties must communicate well, and then go together to talk to your parents about your thoughts, basically the elderly can understand. Bless you all.

This thing can't be said to be normal or abnormal, it can only be said that you can stick to your own ideas under the pressure of your parents, and whether you can still stick to your own ideas regardless of what others say. And whether you plan to never have children, or not for the time being, you have to determine first.

It's okay! 40 people who are not married have!

Don't care!

It is better for women to have children before the age of 30, and there are more risk factors for having children after the age of 30.

People live for themselves, so why do they care so much about what others think? If you have a baby but don't have time to take care of it, do you believe that this is good for the next generation, rather than later!

Do you want children to have the final say on their own, and it's about other people's birds!

Normal, most of these thoughts are like this, and people are talking nonsense. Usually they say, "Are you infertile?" After all, there are a lot of three aunts and six wives, so I will find something to discuss when I have nothing to do. Don't worry.

Normal things, but women's fertility will decline after 30, and it will be a little difficult to have a child at that time, if you say that you are busy with work and do not have children, then ask yourself when you are not busy with work, you can also work after the child is born, the child can be called your mother or your mother-in-law, usually you come back and hug him.

There is no way to make up for the difference in knowledge structure and cognitive concept.

It's not a big deal not to have children, ** it's the turn of others to talk about it.

Normal. How is it not normal.

It depends on whether you value money or your own health.

You also know that postponing the birth of a baby, getting older, after giving birth, the body recovery is relatively slow, and there is also an elderly maternal pregnancy and childbirth is more dangerous, and late birth also has a certain impact on the baby's health.

In fact, you already have the quiver answer in your heart. It's just that because I have no money and foreign debts, I don't dare to put down my job and have children.

Have you ever thought that you can guarantee money by working a few more noisy stool years? Will you have enough money to have children? Money can't be earned, and you should have children.

Besides, you can work after having children, but it may not be comparable to your current job. You can find a relatively freelance job, and the salary may be lower.

Plans can't keep up with the changes. Don't plan for the long term, live the present first, see how you see others getting pregnant and anxious, why don't you become a mother as soon as possible.

You can also use the period of giving birth to a baby to properly charge yourself and change it. Maybe there will be better job opportunities.

You can't have both fish and bear's paws, and there are gains and losses. As long as the subject works steadily, has a stable income, and has hope for a happy life.

Summary. Your son is 28 years old and doesn't want to get married, and that's really hard for you. Obviously, in the traditional Chinese concept of family, this is an abnormal state.

However, today's times have changed significantly, the social atmosphere has also changed, people have pursued freedom and equality, and their attitudes towards marriage have also changed a lot. First of all, we should understand that this is also your son's life choice, and we should respect his choice regardless of whether his decision is reasonable or not. You should communicate openly with him, be his strongest support, establish a harmonious parent-child relationship, guide patiently, and avoid coercion and suspicion, in the hope that he can finally get what he wants.

Secondly, you can also find out about your son's current work, social, and emotional situation before doing so. If he can't find a good partner or some other reason, you can guide him and talk more to help him achieve his dreams.

Your son is 28 years old, but he doesn't want to get married, which really makes you feel embarrassed. Obviously, in the traditional Chinese concept of family, this is an abnormal state of closure. However, today's times have changed significantly, the social atmosphere has also changed, people have pursued freedom and equality, and their attitudes towards marriage have also changed a lot.

First of all, we should understand that this is also your son's life choice, and we should respect his choice regardless of whether his decision is reasonable or not. You should communicate openly with him, be his strongest backing, establish a harmonious parent-child relationship, guide patiently, and avoid coercion and suspicion, in the hope that he can finally get what he wants. Secondly, you can also find out about your son's current work, social, and emotional situation before doing so.

If he can't find a good partner or some other reason, you can guide him and talk more to help him achieve his dreams.

Finally, you can learn as much as possible about the reality of the conflict around you, accept the new changes in modern society, and don't be overly strict with children's marriage as in the past, because today's social and closed society has changed, and people's views on marriage have also changed a lot. Only tolerance can protect children's independence to the greatest extent and not be influenced by the outside world.