How can I get rid of such love?

My ex-boyfriend is the same, he still likes me now, maybe I'm ruthless, it's not that I haven't thought about his feelings, but I don't want to go on like this, I told him directly, if you don't love it, you don't love, even if it takes another ten years, I can't fall in love with you, he said he wanted to come to me, I said I don't want to see you, I hate to see you. Maybe it's hurtful, but that's all I can do, be ruthless, hope that if it hurts, he won't have hope.

Tell him to be clear, and if he is still pestering you, ignore him, and don't let him have any illusions! Let him die this heart!

There's nothing wrong with him loving you.

Love is everyone's right.

If you really don't feel it.

Again, let's break up.

No matter which way you go, as long as you don't feel it with him.

will hurt him.

So instead of hurting, it's better to give yourself a happy path to go.

Let's choose someone you love first!

How can you mention that the breakup will be rejected, if you want to leave him, make a plan for half a year, don't make friends in this half a year, I listen to your tone as if there is no way to take him, you can complain about a lot of things he didn't do, don't do it well, don't hit **, reply to messages, shut down the machine after stopping at every turn, and directly shut down the opportunity to force the dog to be anxious. Then, you have to be resolute, and if you drag it out any longer, he will hate you.

You should accept that he is genuine to you, and you will have a great sense of security

Accept the love you have.

You should accept such a boy.

It is better to accept someone who loves you than to accept someone you love.

Then you should fade it slowly and don't get too close to him

resolutely broke up with him

Don't be soft-hearted, after proposing to break up, he will not be in him, and he himself will slowly not be looking for you1

It depends on whether your outlook on life is optimistic or negative!

Generally, people who are more optimistic will not pay attention to how the previous relationship failed, but will care about the future relationship, and I will cherish it more!

And negative people will do something to numb themselves!

Deliberately forget, will remember deeper, so don't deliberately forget, since you want to forget her, it means that the traces she has left in your heart should be relatively deep, let everything tend to be flat, what to do and what to do, don't let yourself often be alone and think hard, as time goes by, you will slowly forget, and forgetting is not something that can be forgotten by talking about it, but also to see what type of person you belong to, If you are emotional, it is best to find something or activity that can attract your attention to distract your emotional fluctuations; Or go crazy with your best friends and forget about your play. It's best not to listen to any love songs, otherwise you will backfire. I don't know about the other types, you have to face everything by yourself, no one can help you in it, go your own way.

Whether you like someone or love someone, there's no way to forget it anytime soon! After all, I loved it with all my heart! He won't turn back even if he knows what he's doing, but he'll do it anyway!

I remember a line from a TV series that said, "Sometimes there are things that we know will not work out but will still do them, and I just hope that you will remember all the good you have for him, even if it is only a little bit", which I like very much. What is pursued is also joyful. It's hard to give up, but you have to do your best to forget!

Even if you really can't forget him, I will sincerely wish him happiness from the bottom of my heart! If you like or love someone, you don't have to be with him, as long as he is happy, you will feel content! Time can dilute everything!

Don't think about the happy and unhappy things, you will never forget them for the rest of your life! Think about other things and keep yourself focused on one thing! It's going to fade away!

This is what I felt when I encountered such ups and downs before.

Time can be used to forget memories.

Alcohol can be used to numb oneself.

Although it is said that it is not noisy and advocates alcoholism.

A moderate amount of alcohol can fill your brain with excitement and forget everything in a short time.

Also, love isn't everything.

When people walk into love, take the one.

I tend to think that love is everything in my life.

But I forgot that there is friendship and family affection around me.

Since you are troubled by love, let go of love for the time being.

Take care of family and friendship.

It's going to make you happy.

That's what I did.

I was also very troubled and confused.

After a period of time has passed.

I began to forget about it.

I'm in a better mood too.

No more confusion.

Put the heart of the pursuit of love on the pursuit of another thing, so that you will slowly forget.

The sage Confucius can't get rid of love, let alone you and I can get rid of love.

I think that's just when you get out of the red dust. Love is something that no one doesn't want.

Fill yourself up with something else. How many people can really meet love in life? Love is a luxury with a very short shelf life, life is not more than a second, dare not expect too much, it is enough to have tasted it, and do not dare to reminisce repeatedly, and the aftertaste traps itself in the fantasy of love, so that you think you can't get rid of it, and you don't dare to have too much greed.

Love is like a ghost believer, there are many people who see it, since the undecided things can't be pursued, instead of struggling with it, it's better to try to think of other things, pursue an aura that will be at the top of the mountain at a glance, live a wonderful life, no matter whether you have an audience in this play, life is precious, you still have you, isn't it?

Focus on other things, and forget about him.

I'm going crazy too! How can he not exist.

Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. Let us learn to give up, turn away before we cry, what we exchange for tears is not reliable; Let's learn to give up, bury yesterday in our hearts, and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up so that we can all have an easier start for each other.

Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go of your hand and let it pass away with the wind of memory, you will find the other side of the sky, and you will revisit the fragrance of flowers in life and feel the warmth of the sun.

Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice; Giving up is an open-minded attitude. Think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of the door or hit your head and never wake up.

Learn to give up, then turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the stars.

True love is inextricable, relax and live a peaceful life.

Usually long pain is better than short pain, and emotional things are very sad and sad. After breaking up, you will inevitably be sad, which shows that you were really attentive before, if you really can't let go, you can redeem it, if you really can't be together, it's not better to give each other a relief. After a breakup, you can go to play with friends, go out to travel, go to a far place, in short, try not to think about your past, don't think about her in your head, there is a very vulgar saying is also very useful, time can dilute everything.

Anyway, I went to play with friends a few months ago, and your friends will take good care of you at this time.

Your current state of mind can't get rid of it by any means, so take it slowly, time is good medicine, and you'll be fine for a certain period of time.

Go to the cultivation (mind) and come back here when you are strong.

If you are sad, it means that you have real feelings before, and you are serious, this should be clear.

There is a saying, very bad, but it is an eternal truth: "Let time fade slowly!" ”

I'm sure you agree with that, but you don't want to do it at all. Therefore, I can only tell you that it is impossible to completely forget in a short period of time, because this is worthy of the sincerity you once had. However, there is a way to increase the rate of dilution, and the most effective thing is to divert attention.

When you think of her, you might as well go find a few buddies to play ball, play cards, and hang up QQ to find a few people to play nonsense, so that you can be in a "busy" state to increase the speed of fading. At the same time, you also have to hide or eliminate the memories of the items she gave you, so as to minimize the chance of meeting her and accelerate the fading.

True feelings are not meant to be forgotten. This is also the importance of first love, because most people's first love is to pour out their feelings, so the first love is unforgettable.

Brother, get busy. Bless you ...

Since you have chosen to get rid of it completely, you should let yourself go, go out for a walk, turn the past into history, look at the past indifferently, and face the present and the future calmly.

After the heartbreak, I am strong, listen to my brother. Brother is also a lovelorn person

The relationship is gone, and it is no longer the same as before, so don't expect too much anymore, it's useless.

This is normal! If you stay with someone for a long time, there is no love and there is family affection, and you can use time to heal all this or devote yourself to the next new relationship.