Temperament is the real you , right?

Temperament is actually temper.

When a person's temper comes up, many things are ignored without going through the brain.

As the saying goes, "impulse is the devil".

Of course, when the temper rushes up, it is not completely uncontrollable, and the first thing to realize is to calm down as much as possible, and everything may turn around.

The true self is your habit, but habit can be improved through deliberate training.

So we can't call a certain state "you", each of us is dynamically evolving and changing.

What we need to do is to grow into a better version of ourselves. Love yourself more.

This is not right, because the temperament, to a certain extent, is a manifestation of one's own inability to control one's emotions or willfulness, so the temperament is not one's real confidant.

No, when your temperament is uncontrollable, you are your true self at that time. People are divided into subconscious, preconscious and conscious, and the so-called nature is the manifestation of consciousness under the control of preconscious. And the real self is the subconscious, the most primitive desires and needs, controlled by the preconscious, and bound by moral laws.

Hello, it's true now, and what you said is also true, because an individual's personality often determines who he or she really is.

Hello, the same can be said. A person's mood, a person's character. is a true self. is the most real.

What does this mean? Is there an original painting? You should present it, or be more specific, so that you can give targeted answers and analysis based on your questions.

Generally speaking, it should be, a person's personality can reflect how we look at our inner self, but this day after tomorrow is still slowly changed.

I don't even know what I really am.

People are like this, they only return to their loved ones to lose their temper and play petty coquettish, if one day you don't lose your temper with her, maybe you don't love her anymore, two people become polite, it's not lovers, but strangers, people who really love you, sooner or later will realize this, I hope she understands it, it won't be too late, it won't be when you're already cold! ~

I think it's wrong, because it's true that a lot of people are having a hard time financially because life is fast-paced now. Whether a person is good to you or not does not depend only on whether he is willing to lend you money.

I think this sentence is right, because if I can lend you money, it means that I trust you very much.

Yes, friends who can lend you money trust you very much.

Yes, it is very right, if you don't restrain your temperament, it will cause harm to each other, and over time, your feelings will fade, learn to restrain yourself to become a line in everything, and think more about each other, such a marriage will last a long time, I wish you happiness.

You are right, marriage is a matter of two people, you can't just ask for it unilaterally, and you can't betray your lover at will, it's too selfish to do so. In terms of character, both parties must restrain their temper and not hurt each other unscrupulously. Many people are very kind to outsiders and are calm, but they never have a good word for their lovers, and they often speak ill of each other, and even form domestic violence with their hands.

This is completely wrong, if you continue like this, the marriage will not last long, and you will inevitably become a loner in the end.

Strongly agree. Marriage is the responsibility of both parties and needs to be run by two people together. No one can blindly accommodate others, and all the efforts need to be cherished.

Empathy, more consideration for the other party, care and care, in order to reap your own happiness, on the contrary, happiness will be far away from you.

Of course, whether a happy marriage is or not depends on the careful management and care of the husband and wife!

It is too good and right, in marriage, you should restrain yourself, be humble to each other, care for each other, and be considerate of each other, so that a family is a perfect family.

Hello, it's not restraint, the more restraint you have, the more likely it is to break out in the future, but to guide, what can't you say well? When both people are warm and pure, there will be love and freedom.

This sentence is very correct, everyone should have their own opinions.

That's it, two people in a marriage should pay more attention to their behavior.

That's right, the family and everything is prosperous, seeking common ground while reserving differences, and complementing each other's advantages are the elements that support the family.

Yes, but it also depends on her attitude, whether she is angry and ignores it for the time being, or she wants to give up. If you have done something very excessive, even a matter of principle, then she is disappointed in you and will not look back.

This statement is not necessarily, sometimes although it is grinding your character, but two people compete with each other, for a long time, no one pays attention to anyone, and finally becomes true, you ignore her, she will leave you, don't do it against her because she loves you, sometimes you also need to make appropriate concessions, that is the most rational approach.

I think it's okay because my boyfriend and I are like that.

Because I wanted to live with him for the rest of my life, I didn't want to quarrel because of these things, so that in the end I divorced because of the disagreement.

This is for sure, getting along with two people, after all, is a process of running in with each other, and everyone likes to change each other. It depends on who can change the fight against corruption and who is sad about who will make concessions.

The girl's little temper can be understood, just coax more, he just wants to see if he doesn't look for you, will you look for him.

A woman who really wants to get together with you will ignore you for the time being in order to sharpen your temperament.

Two people get married. All have their own run-in periods, that's for sure. Getting along with two people is a process of running in with each other. Because they both like to change each other, it depends on who can change whom?

This is a very scheming woman. Let him be.

I think everyone has a very good reason to resign, it must be because he has a place that he can't do, so he can resign, as for whether he said the reason or not, but his own business.

In fact, it's not that I don't care, maybe it's just a natural slow heat, plus I'm very Buddhist about some things, and the speed of seeing is out of the sky, plus I'm young and ignorant? So they don't care about some things.

Of course, there are some people who are really cold-blooded, which requires you to feel it yourself, you can ask the opinions of those who are in favor of him and also ask the opinions of those who are against him, and then compare the same thing, your own judgment is also very useful, so that you will know his character.

For example, a good friend, some say that she is a scumbag, and some say that she is just a more playful personality, I will think, how is she, in fact, she is more picky about feelings, even if she plays very openly, but will not enter her heart, so some people who confess to her in the name of friends and are rejected will feel hurt. Moreover, she is invested in every relationship, which is great.

In short, you must have your own judgment, don't just look at the surface of everything, although the emotions in your heart are very strong, they are not necessarily the answer, and the intuition in your heart is not necessarily wrong.

It's normal to reply to the other party and say that you don't know, because of family reasons, many women will choose to resign in order to take care of their children.

Well, if you ask a person if they will quit their jobs for family reasons, then the other person may not be able to say because he may be thinking about what you mean.

There is still a lot that can be done, when your self-strength is strong, the people around you can't hurt you, and you meet people who really recognize you and care about you.

Then I think you can still ask the other party about the reason for resigning, because maybe the other party feels that a personal word should not be explored by others, so in this case, it is still possible to respect the privacy of the other party.

This kind of person may be that she is more casual, low, and seeks freedom, so it is not because of family reasons that she resigned, but because he was more selfish and only considered for him.

The meaning of this sentence is that it is not a two-word answer, maybe he means that it depends on your performance.

Maybe he's really a very temperamental person, and he does everything according to his own wishes? It's free.

In this case, there may be other reasons for him, for example, did he really resign for family reasons? Or is it something else.

Feelings also have a shelf life, so girls should start to be independent in their feelings and lives, after all, if they rely too much on boys, boys will always get tired of it, and you have to know that girls must have their own dignity.

Maybe I really don't know, this person is also confused.

Yes, we really don't know what the reasons for others are, so they are the only ones who know best.

I think there must be a reason why he wants to quit his job, maybe it's the company, it's probably his family.

If you ask a person, he doesn't have to quit his job for family reasons, right? The reply said I don't know. It's possible that he really didn't know. You don't have to dwell on it.

Would you like him without personality......

If you like it, you should understand and tolerate each other.

If you don't know how to cherish it, you are doomed to lose it!

It doesn't matter if I love you or not, and if I don't lose my temper with you. Whether you love you or not depends on how he usually treats you, most of the time he cares about your feelings, of course, sometimes complaining about you and contradicting you has nothing to do with whether he loves you or not, it may be because he loves you that he will lose your temper.

People who are really used to you will not lose their temper with you! If you really like her, you won't lose your temper with her even if you are wronged! Mutual tolerance is true love!

In love with you, you lose your temper for no reason, it is unreasonable and unreasonable, who can stand it, it has nothing to do with whether you love you or not.

Tantrums don't have much to do with whether they love or not.

The quarrel is mutual, a slap doesn't make a sound, and if he doesn't quarrel with you, you're even more boring.

So don't suspect anything because of this, another quarrel will not solve anything, except to create trouble.

Not everyone is very patient and very patient, and if you go too far, then no one will accept it.

Look at anything, people have a bottom line and principles.

There are a lot of women.

When anger comes and goes quickly, men need to know how to resolve the quarrel crisis. You don't try to tell her the truth, the length of the argument, at this time most women will not listen, it will only make him more and more angry. A man who really loves you will know how to use some humor before a woman loses her temper, say a few witty words, make some jokes to make you happy, and after sneering, the anger will be extinguished instantly, and you can't quarrel if you want to.

After all, women are not really angry sometimes, they just need an environment to calm down. Two people who love each other will know each other better than others, they know what each other likes and hates, they know how to make each other laugh, how to make each other angry, and the world of love is sweet and beautiful.

Women are sometimes so angry that they don't know why they are angry, and men may be completely confused. At this time, some men will accuse you of this behavior and think that you are too fickle.

And the man who loves you will not accuse you when you are angry, he will use what you like, do what you like, to find ways to make you laugh. After you laugh, slowly enlighten you so that you don't get angry anymore.

He will first reflect on himself.

Losing your temper with you is not a measure of whether a person loves you or not, you have to look at the importance of the things that cause him to lose his temper in his heart, and don't question a person who loves you because of these small things.

A tantrum doesn't mean he doesn't love you, maybe it's a temper tantrum itself.

It depends on why he loses his temper with you, if it's angry or for himself, it's not love.

It's not love, he's just domineering, self-centered, and doesn't take into account the feelings of others.

He may love you, but he loves himself more than he loves you.

What did you do to make him lose his temper, saying that he is a good person.

As the saying goes, beating is kissing and scolding is love.

I don't know, my darling never lost his temper with me anyway.