How can I make myself a loved person and let more people love me?

For the vast majority of people, they actually want to be able to get more loveBut "love" is to be earned by oneself, not one's own wishful thinking, so if we want to get more love, we must first learn to love others.

1. "Love" yourself more. Only if we love ourselves can others love us. A person who doesn't know how to love himself will definitely not have too many friends around him, let alone suitors, so only by loving himself can he get more love from others.

In our daily life, we don't grieve ourselves, we can do what we want to do boldly, and don't leave ourselves any way out, so that our life will not leave any regrets, and it is also a manifestation of loving ourselves.

2. Learn to care for others. When we know how to care for others, we will receive more love. Because people get along with each other mutually, as long as we care enough about others, others will not be too bad to us, or even more than their own love.

Because since I was with my boyfriend, I had a very obvious feeling, although my boyfriend is a straight man, but the way he loves me is very simple, I can see that he has a heart for me, so the relationship between the two of us has always been very good. Even after a quarrel, it doesn't take long for the two of us to reconcile without affecting our feelings for each other.

Loving someone and being loved need to be sincerely giving, no one will be willing to pay for a person, but need to see the sincerity of both parties, so that the love we get is the most sincere love. Because people are very realistic, everyone likes to associate with capable people, if we are valuable, others can learn something from us, then we will get more love, I hope everyone can have such a concept.

This requires continuous self-improvement, making yourself more excellent, and having enough ability to help the people around you, so that there will be many people who will love you.

If you want to be a loved person, you must let yourself care about others, love others, and believe that others will love you.

To make yourself a loved person, you must first learn to love others, and then work hard to improve yourself and become an excellent person.

Then you need to learn to be coquettish and become weaker, so as to arouse many people's sympathy and desire to protect.

The love given by a person who lacks love is inappropriate, sometimes it may be too cold, sometimes it is too much, because he cannot accept the correct way to love others in the original family, and the long-term influence of the family can not be changed overnight, my advice is to learn to love yourself first. If you don't even love yourself, how can you love others correctly? So, how do you learn to love yourself?

First of all, learn to stop blaming yourself, this is the first step, if the person who lacks love can constantly imply that he is already good, no matter what happens, he can easily change his life. If a person feels bad about themselves, it is very difficult to change anything.

It is very necessary for people to give value to themselves, and if people themselves always look down on themselves, they will always be in misfortune. This is why people who lack love are always insecure, and suffer from gains and losses in the relationship, and will also make some wrong ways to give love, which gives the lover a lot of mental pressure. Actually, everyone is just a human being, please don't pretend to be perfect, that will put a lot of pressure on us and make us not see how to adjust ourselves.

Also, avoid imposing fear on yourself. People often like to scare themselves and make their situation worse and worse, thinking about small things very seriously, and always expecting the worst in life. It's a terrible way to live.

Before going to bed, how many people imagine the worst of things? Just like a child imagining a ghost under the bed, it's no wonder you have insomnia. When you are young, you need the comfort of your parents, but you have grown up, and you can comfort yourself.

People who lack love often like to plan for the worst and think of everything as bad. They discarded their powers, believing that they had only some medical data left for their lives. The same is true for love.

If your lover doesn't take the initiative to contact her and find Jane, she thinks you're rejected and abandoned. You create these paralyzing thoughts yourself, which is actually a negative self-suggestion.

Therefore, if you want to love others correctly, you must first learn to love yourself, pay attention to your true inner needs, correctly understand yourself and tolerate some voices that are different from your previous cognition, so that you will gradually have the opportunity to recognize others. If love is something that needs to be learned, then loving yourself is a preview of loving others, you will learn to respect from loving yourself, you will love yourself and understand not to force, and you will learn not to be humble or arrogant from loving yourself, and calmly face every deeper contact between you and him. So, the ** of love is yourself.

1. Genuinely interested; Start by asking yourself if you're really interested in him.

2. Accept all of the other party; To love someone, you can accept the strengths of the other person, and you can also tolerate all his shortcomings.

3. True love is giving; To love someone is not to always want something from him, but not to ask for anything, but to make him happy.

4. Pay carefully; I really like someone, and when the other party is in a troubled and noisy situation, I will share his worries and sorrows. When he loses self-confidence, it can give him enough understanding, help him regain his confidence, and encourage him to get back on his feet.

5. Manage love with heart; If you want to get true love and find a partner for life, you need to manage it with your heart.