Which one is more devastating in marriage?

In the process of dating between men and women, the woman is usually afraid of meeting Ma Bao Man, and the man is usually afraid that the woman is a Voldemort, Ma Bao Man and Brother Demon These two types of people will make each other prohibitive, in marriage, I think Ma Bao Man will make each other collapse more than Voldemort.

1. Ma Bao Nan always affects every day and every moment of life. Ma Bao man's man, they will obey their mother's words in everything in their marriage, and their mother's words shall prevail, and their daughters-in-law will not stand up for their daughters-in-law if they are wronged.

Some couples still live with their mother-in-law after marriage, if the husband is a mother-in-law, the woman marries such a mother-in-law and her life is completely devoid of self, and the husband at home cannot afford the responsibility of the head of the family, and the size of the family is still decided by the man's mother, and the man's mother will meddle in the affairs between the husband and wife all the time, which will make the woman feel that she has no status at all, and such a mother-in-law man can not enjoy the warmth of a small family, and there will be problems in the relationship with such a mother-in-law man.

Second, the problem of helping the younger brother can be solved by money, but Ma Bao Nan can't solve it. The woman is a Voldemort, she will do her best to help her brother, if her husband's family and her own ability are qualified, Voldemort will not be a problem, because the younger brother only wants money things, as long as he has the strength to help his wife's brother, he will not let his family situation be affected.

For example, Fan Shengmei in "Ode to Joy", if Fan Shengmei has her own strength and she has the ability to help her mother's family, then her behavior of helping her mother's family can make the other party accept it calmly.

And men are usually more generous in the process of interacting with men and women, as long as their wives don't go too far, they can turn a blind eye to the wives of the brothers, so the people who help the brothers will be more acceptable than the people of the mothers.

In contrast, Ma Bao Nan is even more devastating, being with such a person will definitely make your life a mess, and it will definitely affect the relationship between two people.

I think it's easier for mom bao men to collapse the other party in the marriage. Because this kind of boy has no opinions at all. And he listens to his mother for everything.

I think it's a mom Bao Nan, he has to listen to his mother for everything, and he feels like he's living with his mother, and he has no space or assertiveness, which is really overwhelming.

The brother demon even made the other party in the marriage collapse, because no matter how much money she made and how much she did, she would give it to her younger brother.

Ma Bao Nan and Fu Di Demon are two extremes, Ma Bao Nan listens to his mother in everything and has no opinions. The Demon is a brother who helps his brother at all times. But in comparison, it is still Ma Bao Nan who is more devastating.

I think the one who broke the other party the most should be Ma Baonan, because they have no ability to take care of themselves in life, and they have no opinions, and they have to listen to their mother in everything.

It must be a mom treasure man, you have to discuss everything with your mother, and you will listen to your mother's ideas, which is really overwhelming.

It must be Ma Bao Nan, because Ma Bao Nan has no opinions of his own in marriage at all, and he listens to his mother for big and small things.

It must be that the Brother Demon will make the other party collapse even more, after all, no amount of money can withstand such a toss.

Bao Ma Nan made the other party collapse the most, he had no opinion on anything, he listened to his mother for everything, and the demon who helped his brother at least had his own opinions, and only gave his brother money.

Voldemort can avoid you from finding an only child family, isn't it, Ma Bao Nan is really not necessarily, you really can't see his true face, many men such as Ma Bao Man, Phoenix Man, Wonderful Man, Machismo, can do drama before marriage, and immediately after marriage, the original form is revealed, and it is impossible to prevent it, you are a woman who fights their family?

I think it should be the Ma Bao man who will make the other party in the marriage more broken, because for a man, he is the pillar of the family.

Ma Bao Nan will make the other half of the marriage collapse, after all, the other party's personality and temper are really unbearable.

It's even more difficult to accept it. Bao Ma Nan is just dependent, but the Brother Demon may be a bottomless pit and endless.

"Helping younger brothers" refers to older siblings in families with many children, who will give to their younger brother regardless of the cost. This behavior may feel excessive, but on the other hand, it also reflects the depth of family affection.

"Ma Bao Man" refers to men who are very dependent on their mothers, and they may be too dependent on their mother's care, too much obedience to their mothers, too much love for their mothers, etc. This behavior can affect their relationships with other people and can feel excessive.

As for which one is more terrifying, this is a subjective judgment because everyone's values and perceptions are different. Some people may think that the "Brother Demon" is more terrifying, because they may be overly protective of their younger brother, and may even hurt other Whispering Wisdom people. Some people may think that "mom boys" are more scary because they may be too dependent on their mothers, resulting in their inability to live independently.

Both the Brother Demon and the Ma Bao Man are some of the less healthy relationship patterns that can cause distress and harm to themselves and others. Which is more scary may depend on the specific situation and degree, as well as your feelings and attitude.

Helping the younger brother refers to the eldest daughter Mu Cha in a multi-child family affected by the concept of patriarchy, usually because of the influence of the family, will dedicate to his younger brother regardless of the cost, rounding off is the younger brother's second mother of Zen Naiqiao. Such an older sister may ignore her own small family and personal needs, and even sacrifice her own happiness to meet the various requirements of her mother's younger brother. This is not only unfair to yourself, but also irresponsible to your husband and children.

Ma Bao Nan refers to a man who listens to his mother, always thinks that his mother is right, and is mother-centered. Such a man may lack assertiveness, responsibility, responsibility and blood. They may put their mother first and ignore or snub their spouse or lover.

This is not only immature for yourself, but also disrespectful for your partner.

If you meet a brother demon or a mom boy, you can try to communicate your feelings and expectations, and maintain your own boundaries and principles. If communication is ineffective or you feel unbearable, you can also choose to leave the relationship.

Ma Bao man and Fu Di Demon are very scary, the man can't balance the relationship between his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and the woman blindly helps her brother regardless of the specific situation of her family, which leads to the deepening of the relationship between the husband and wife, and gradually cold, each of them is not aware of this problem, so they want to live a good life. A man in marriage should be a man who is responsible for distinguishing between right and wrong, and a woman in marriage should also be a wise woman who is sensible and well-informed, and love is mutual.

Ma Bao Nan is like an unweaned child, obedient to what his mother says, dare not disobey, since he was a child, he has relied on his mother very much, his mother's contribution to him is in his eyes and in his heart, and he secretly swore since he was a child to protect his mother in this life and not let his mother suffer any grievances. In Ma Baonan's heart, his mother is the first in line, and his wife is in the back with him.

The terrible thing about the demon is that Our Lady is overflowing, always imagining herself to be a "savior", offending others without the slightest sense of boundaries, and in fact a control freak in the name of love.

Whether it is Ma Bao Nan or Fu Demon Brother, they are terrible objects, and the ups and downs can only be deeply understood by people in the bureau.

The first is a strong possessiveness of your partner, I want to know everything about you, I have to know every love experience you have since you were a child, you have to report the time and place of your business trip or outing, and don't think about any privacy when you fall in love with this kind of person.

Then there's a strong desire to control, everything you do is up to me, and you can't do what I don't like. This especially in the early stages of a relationship may make people feel that this person is so assertive, but he just can't accept that you are out of his control.

The last and most obvious point is how he treats you and his mother. If he can't make a bowl of water between the two of you, leaning towards his mother's side, or even too intimate, then there is a high probability that he is a mother's boy.

As the saying goes, marry a man and don't marry a mother, and marry a wife and don't marry a brother, these two kinds of people are complementary in nature.

Mom Bao men have no opinions, no ego, and their choices are all under the command of their mothers. This kind of man's family has a mother with a strong desire to control, and everyone seems to be disgusted with the mother, but in fact, they are even more disgusted with the mother who has a strong desire to control.

The demons are too self-conscious, and they regard themselves as their mothers, trying to support the whole family by their own strength. The general idea of the younger brothers is: If you marry me, we will be a family, and you will support our family with me.

Some people say that Ma Bao Nan will one day be able to get rid of his mother's control, but he can't retire in his life, but it's not necessarily true. Both of these people are essentially distorted from the nature of their minds, and whether or not their mother and brother are or not, they will manifest their own traits in different forms.

No one is more terrible, and as long as they don't make changes, both of them have character flaws that will accompany them for life.