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Why do you know how to accept loss in order to have better? <>
We may have a lot on the path of growing up from childhood to adulthood, but we also have a lot to lose. We may have had a very good friend when we were young, but you will find that he may not be able to stay with you when you grow up. I'm sure many people will encounter this situation, although you will lose a lot of people on the way to growth, but you will also meet a lot of new people.
If you keep dwelling on how much you have lost, then you will not be able to cherish what you have in front of you and you will not be able to embrace life better, so I think you should be grateful for all the losses and should also cherish what you have. <>
We will always understand some truths and understand what is most important to us because of some things. Just like when we first face our feelings, we may feel overwhelmed in the relationship, and we may not know what to do. Because we have no experience in relationships, when we meet the person we like, we don't know how to treat him well, and we don't know how to deal with the problems encountered by two people in the relationship, which may be that the two of you will not be able to reach the end.
But his separation may be handed over to you to grow up and teach you some experiences in relationships. But when you understand this, the relationship between the two of you can never be recovered. <>
We should be grateful to those who have left us, because with them we will become more and more mature. Because of those experiences, we have become who we are now. There may be times when some experiences and some of the past really spur us to grow up and urge us to keep moving forward.
You should also accept everyone who leaves you on the road to growth, because they have taught you how to grow with their departure. We must believe that everything is a gift from God, and we must cherish what we have now, and do not wait until one day we reach the irretrievable state to understand how much we once had.
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People who know how to accept loss have a better mentality, and their emotional intelligence will be particularly high, so that they can have a better future and seize the future in time.
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Only when you truly accept the loss will you understand the meaning of its previous existence, understand its value, and be more full of prospects and cherish for the future.
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Because only when we know how to accept what we have lost, can we put things down and welcome a better future.
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Because only by knowing how to let go will you change and grow, so that you can have better.
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There are many times when there are some things that we can't obtain, and we must adjust our mentality, and we must let ourselves calm down.
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You can't win 'em all.
When everyone is faced with a choice, they will hope that the fish can be obtained, and the bear's paw can also be obtained.
But if you don't lose what you gain, won't it feel too easy? It is even more impossible to prove its worth.
In fact, with the choice of fish and bear's paw, it can better reflect the value of your choice.
So before doing anything, be sure to think it through. What is worth paying for it and what you are cherishing.
That's what you really want.
Cherish the present, be content.
I like to watch "Journey to the West", and every time I hear the sentence "The most painful thing in the world is this", I can't help but feel sad
I don't know how to cherish when I have it, but I don't regret it until I lose it.
What you have is not satisfied, what you get is not cherished, you are obsessed with greed, and you are just asking for happiness
Liu Ruoying sang in the song: Later, I finally learned how to love, but unfortunately you have long since disappeared into the sea of people
Later, in tears, I finally understood that once some people miss it, they will never do it again.
People are like this, what you can't get is always the best, so people always deliberately pursue those things that can never be obtained, and often ignore the people around them who have been silently loving them.
If you are in true love, then don't break up easily, and don't wait until you lose it to regret it.
At that time, the pain was unforgettable, and many people in the world only knew how to cherish it until they lost it, so we should cherish the people we have around us, and don't lose an opportunity or a lover because of others, so we will lose a lot.
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Yes. It's a manifestation of reverse thinking!
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I would like to provide some analytical guidance on this issue:
First, the pain and regret of losing something or someone may have to do with the importance and degree of influence we have ever had on them. If we used to value the role of having something or someone in our lives, it might be even more regrettable to lose them.
Second, having never owned something or someone can also lead to regret. Because we may have missed out on experiences, learning opportunities, or emotional experiences associated with them.
Finally, it's important to remember to cherish what you have in front of you and to constantly seek to grow and explore new things to enrich your life.
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Losing is also a kind of gain, because after losing, at least it will make room for us.
What you get is a new space, and you can accept new things.
Just like at home, the old furniture is thrown away, and such material things are lost, but the space becomes more open.
To be able to make the mind wander more openly, to learn to give up, to know that loss is not terrible, the key is not to be sad, not to blame yourself, and not to think that this is an absolutely bad thing.
Only in this way can we look at the problem of loss dialectically, and we must transform loss into a kind of gain, and if there is loss, there will be gain.
In the same way, we should not always possess things, because when we gain, we also lose.
It's a terrible thing to lose your freedom.
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Many people always know how to cherish when they lose, and only after losing do they realize that what they have lost is the most important. Then slowly find what you have lost, and finally have it better. Losing is actually not terrible, it is yours, it is yours after all, it is not yours, no matter how you keep it, it is not yours.
Therefore, we must understand a sentence and lose it calmly.
Just like love, some people don't cherish this relationship. When in love, the other party is kind to himself, does not take it seriously, and ignores the other party; doesn't care about the other party, and even thinks that the other party is dispensable, and sometimes feels that the other party is in the way. So I was impulsive and broke up with the other party.
However, after a while, I found that there was no other party, and I seemed to be a different person. I regret the decision I made. So he went to look for the other party, but because his previous attitude towards the other party was too bad, the other party was no longer willing to be with him.
After losing the other party, the whole person becomes lazy and sloppy. Then I realized that I had lost the best, so I slowly looked for someone similar to my ex-girlfriend, and then cherished each other.
Some people don't study well in their junior year of high school and indulge in playing all day long. However, I didn't pass the college entrance examination, and I saw that other students were entering the university one after another. I saw other classmates posting all kinds of food they ate in college, friends they made, and friends going to college classrooms.
When I saw this scene myself,I hated that I didn't study hard at that time, so I lost the opportunity to go to college. But some people are not willing to accept that they were not admitted to university. I embarked on the road of repeating, because I knew that if I didn't study hard, I wouldn't be able to get into college, so I studied seriously every day when I repeated.
I spent a lot of time brushing up on the questions, and finally I was admitted to my dream university.
Only when people continue to lose will they usher in new vitality。Only when you lose will you realize what you have lost, and you will find your mistakes. In order to sum up the experience in the verses, in order to meet the best harvest.
Have a wonderful result.
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There is a loss, there is a gain. Sometimes you have to comprehend and cherish the beauty that is coming in the midst of loss, otherwise you will not know how to cherish it until you lose it.
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Because when we prepare for the worst, we can accept the outcome calmly. In this way, you will not be afraid of losing, and you will cherish what you have more.
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There is a saying that when you gain something, you also lose something. If you lose it, you will know how to cherish it, so that you can have it better.
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That's because only by constantly accepting loss can we find something better for ourselves.
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