When you encounter betrayal from the other party, how to face it after encountering betrayal?

I think it's okay to give a man a chance, and if there is a second time, don't forgive.

Legend has it that a long time ago, men and women were connected, half of them were men, half of them were women, and they looked like a round two-faced person, because he had both the strength of a man and the gentleness of a woman, so he was conceited and felt that he was the most perfect in the world, and then God divided him into two in order to punish him, and drove them to the mortal world, and after they arrived in the mortal world, they began to look for each other, because only when they found their other half, he was a complete life.

In your case, it seems that you are looking for a mistake.

Leaving someone who doesn't love you is a blessing and relief for both you and him, and maybe your real other half is still waiting for you somewhere.

I don't think I'll forgive someone who betrayed him, because for me. Since I have already betrayed once, it is possible that I will again next time. Betrayal is no longer trustworthy.

Don't try to understand the reason for the so-called "betrayal". Why should we recognize and understand the causes of "betrayal"? Isn't this rubbing salt on the wound?

Because any betrayal is destined to be deliberate at the moment it arises, no matter what the reason, it is a human error for the "initiator", so why bother to seek and explore? Those who often want to get themselves out of the "betrayal" will sigh for themselves while also finding reasons for the "betrayal" behavior of the other party. I thought this was to show my tolerance and open-mindedness, but I didn't know that this was a big punishment for myself!

2. As far as emotional betrayal is concerned, if my boyfriend betrays me and splits his legs, I will choose to forgive if he corrects it, but there will never be a second time; If it is a friendship, for example, my good friend has gradually drifted away because of less contact, and has betrayed the vow that he once said that he would be a good friend for life, and I have no right to choose to forgive or not to forgive, because this is also my own inaction, to let this relationship go away.

Third, I have lost trust in him, and when we are together, the relationship cannot be the same as before, and there is already a thorn in my heart. Not to mention betraying me, I can't stand even the ambiguous words of the object and the opposite sex. I think he didn't take me to heart by doing that, and even though he did well later, I would remember those things.

These things will be a thorn in my heart, and when I think of them, I will have a dull pain in my heart, and I can't trust him anymore. I think that in such a state, it is impossible for two people to trust each other, and it is impossible to be sincere with each other, so why should they be with each other, it is better to separate early, and to separate early is to liberate each other and liberate themselves.

4. Don't try and force yourself to forgive someone who betrayed you. Betrayal is already an established fact, and it is also a tragic result, if you force yourself to forgive, isn't it unprincipled, and there is no distinction between right and wrong? Betrayal can never be truly forgotten, let alone truly let go.

What we can do is to make ourselves more and more peaceful and less concerned. But. Probably at some point in time.

There will be in front of you. Emerge. Her behavior at the beginning.

It's a memory that can't be erased.