If I don t have confidence, what should I do to be distressed

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I recommend pinching, that is, don't see your shortcomings every time, think more about your strengths, such as in addition to learning, or ** other projects, and then every time I think in my heart, I can, I can, it's not a big deal, it's a matter of time for people to learn, it's just a matter of time, etc.。。。 PS: Don't feel like you're useless......I was born to be useful

I was born to be useful"!! How could it not be useful? It's just that you didn't notice it.

The main reason is that you pursue perfection, lest you do something you shouldn't do when you contact others, say inappropriate things, you lack this exercise since you were a child, and you are likely to have done more failed things, and you and the people around you feel that you are deficient in interacting with people. So you give yourself the conclusion that it is not possible. In order to cover up your timidity in this regard, you try to have as little contact with people as possible, and you lose a lot of opportunities to exercise.

It is good to pursue perfection, see the strengths of others, and recognize your own shortcomings, but if you think too much, it will hinder your own progress. It is recommended that when you see the strengths of others, you should learn more than envy. Analyze your own shortcomings and improve them later.

You know, no one is a saint. Even if you're a little worse than everyone else in some way, what does it matter? Ten fingers are not the same length when they stretch out, not to mention the differences between people.

So don't be afraid to make people laugh if you don't do it well, after all, it's better to do it than not to do it well. It's like a race, you take the first step bravely, you stick to the end, you may be last, but you run as hard as you can, you reach the finish line. Flowers and applause don't exactly belong to the top performers.

If you can't take the first step at all, that's sad.

Don't be afraid, no one is better than the other. Overcome timidity and do it bravely, you will make progress, accumulate small progress into big progress, and your character and ability will be greatly improved.

You can be specific. So we can all give you some details.

I'm not confident, I've never been confident, but you just have to keep doing your best.

You can tell us about every aspect, if you don't mind, you can get in touch with me, I hope I can help you well.

Feng Gong is not confident, it's okay!

Case-by-case analysis.

I used to have low self-esteem and was always dissatisfied with all aspects of myself, but now I am much better. I think first of all, I can't be too high-minded and set myself too high standards, so there will be pressure, and if I can't do it, of course I will feel inferior. Then, try to do what you can do, start with small things, so that you will generally succeed, remember how you felt when you succeeded, and slowly accumulate it.

Also, I think most people with low self-esteem are because they think that they can't do it because they compare with others, and they have to admit that they are born with a gap, and comparing with others shows that they are self-motivated, and if they compare with others all the time, they will definitely hit their self-confidence, so I think don't compare everything with others, and it would be good if you could be happy.

It is recommended that you try not to care too much about things, provided that you do well in your major, that is, you have a skill--- usually learn more things, increase your knowledge, and slowly it will be good, this is a transition period, don't worry about ---

Not confident because you don't trust yourself enough, you have to believe in yourself first.

You just have to look in the mirror every day and say, "I'm perfect, I'm great." "That's it, I tried, and it's not bad.

Teach you a way: exercise, who would dare to mess with you when you are strong?? You'll feel like you're NB too.

Do what you love, give yourself a sense of accomplishment, and develop self-confidence.

Because I'm fat, I'm embarrassed to go to the interview, and I feel like I'm not as good as others.

Believe that you are the best.

Forget about low self-esteem, the rest is self-confidence, remember that self-confidence, who sells the state chong, is only occupied by inferiority, so you are not without self-confidence, but traces or too inferior.

People often say that if you want to succeed in doing anything, then you must be confident in yourself to be good, confidence is the premise of success, so we must have confidence to complete what we want to accomplish, if there is no confidence what to do?

Method steps.

Encourage yourself, give yourself more self-confidence, in fact, your own lack of confidence is also your own reason, you must not feel that there are many shortcomings now, you must understand not to compare your own shortcomings with the advantages of others, then you are inferior, you should cheer yourself up.

Pay more attention to yourself and pay less attention to others, everyone has their own advantages and disadvantages, then we must give full play to our own advantages, you should think about how powerful you used to be, but now you don't get back the feeling, so you should pay more attention to yourself.

Self-suggestion**, people have no confidence is actually a change in their own hearts, we must strengthen our own good mental hints, and often say to ourselves in our hearts; 'I can do it, I can do it. And so on. This is good for improving your self-confidence.

Correctly understand yourself, everyone's personality is different, we must learn to develop our strengths and avoid weaknesses, we should continue to improve our level of understanding, do everything to be treated comprehensively and seriously, when there is no confidence, in fact, we need to give ourselves a goal, so that we can quickly have the motivation to regain self-confidence.

The support of friends, in fact, sometimes a good friend of yours is a great help to you, when you have difficulties and no self-confidence, maybe they are lending a helping hand to help, you can confide in them your heart, and then get the support of friends from the heart.

Force yourself to be confident, say to others that I can, I'm a cow, I'm amazing, and then go back to make up for it, make up for it, I believe that after a month or two of imitation halls, others will be respectful and admire you, of course, you have to grasp the degree! Otherwise, you will be despised.

Put three sticks of incense on the mirror every day.

Can it be useful to ask? Find it yourself! No one else can help you!

Find confidence! Hope you can find it!