How do you view the view in the family that the woman has the final say in everything, and the resp

It feels unfair to men to feel that women have the final say at home and that the responsibility lies with men. It is best for husband and wife to discuss and decide on family matters, and it is best for husband and wife to bear the responsibility of accidents together, so that the relationship will be more harmonious.

Not absolutely, each family's mode of getting along is different, this mode of getting along may have, but not every family is like this, some men are busy with work, and the big and small things in the family can't help, maybe the wife is in charge.

First of all, there are two kinds of questions, value judgment and factual judgment.

The judgment of facts is that there is always a right or wrong in the essence of things.

A value judgment is, in my opinion, a matter of subjectivity and depends on one's own will.

Then this proposition of yours is obviously a value judgment, what kind of family role should men and women play.

There is no right or wrong to this proposition, there is no standard answer, it only depends on the will of both parties.

In other words, as long as the two of you are willing, whoever is responsible between you can have the final say.

If there's one suggestion for this, it'sWhether it's a man or a woman, if you say that you are still responsible, and this person can't find balance from somewhere else, then there will definitely be problems.

If you think that women have the final say, then you should be prepared not to let men have the final say, and if you feel that men have to be responsible, then you must be prepared that women are not responsible.

Let's divide the situation, and how to determine what the situation.

Okay, so that the man can be responsible and responsible, the things at home are basically trivial, and the outside affairs are carried by the men, and the family town can be harmonious, and the men love face, and they should let the men do big things.

It's been three days since school started, and I still seem to be in vacation mode.

It's been raining for the past few days, and the gloomy day has kept me motivated. Looking at the rain outside the classroom, I was always stunned and my mind went blank. I'm already a ninth-grader, and what people call a sense of urgency, with me, doesn't seem to have much effect.

The unfamiliar environment, the new beginning, all made my heart inexplicably heavy, the rain in the sky seemed to tell my heart, for a while, for a while, for a while, for a while, for a while, and quietly.

Today is the fourth day of school, and when I arrive at school in the morning, I still look listless. The Chinese teacher came to the classroom on time and on time, and did not say something at length and say something that I didn't seem to understand, as I had done the other day. Ask directly:

The Chinese teacher asked again, "Who was the last student who took yesterday's turn?" "A lot of eyes are on me, and I have a feeling that something is wrong.

The Chinese teacher also looked at me and said to the students in front of me, "When I got out of class yesterday, you should prepare well for the things I arranged for you, and show them in the reading class next week." As I heard this, I knew that it was my turn, and before I had time to adjust my mentality, he pointed at me and said:

It's your turn, Shuchang, you come to the podium! ”

I slowly stood up and moved step by step to the podium. At the moment, brain cells are abnormally active. What does he want me to do up there? Memorizing texts? Say you understand? Or ......My second monk was confused.

I was standing next to him, and he asked me to face my classmates and started asking me, "What do you want to say to me when you see me today?" "I was blindsided all of a sudden, I haven't adapted to his classes in the past few days, and I'm still in a state of confusion, what can I say to him!

I don't know how his problem is. I just stood awkwardly like that, and everyone looked at me quietly.

It's just a minute or two, and I feel like it's been a long time. One of the students below said, "Hello teacher! He saw that I didn't speak, so he let me go down, and I sat in my seat, and I couldn't tell what Hongxun felt.

At this time, I began to listen to him, and I realized that he meant to have a live oral communication with me and practice my language skills. He also said that the machine potato will be rare and should be caught. After hearing this, I still can't tell how I feel.

Next, the students were all reading separately, and I was still in a state of confusion.

No, in a family, a woman is also a housewife, she can't have the final say in everything, and she can't discuss everything with her husband in the family before making a decision, and she can't be in charge alone, because it is impossible for her to think or do everything 100% right, so she can't have the final say in everything.

Then she's a bit of a big feminist. However, she can have the final say on family matters, but the major matters outside still have to be negotiated by two people together.

In a family, everything should be discussed by women and men, and should not be done alone.

If a woman has to say everything in the family, then this woman must be very capable, and she is very strong.

Who is he? She? If you're talking about women having the final say, it's actually nothing, it's just a bit of yin and yang. The harmony of yin and yang is fundamental, no matter which side is too prosperous for a long time, there will be problems.

It shows that the head of the family, if you can keep the family in order, you are really a strong woman.

Hello! It shows that your wife is a very selfish person, and she is a fool if she doesn't listen to her, if you always listen to her, your family won't want to settle down Just represent a personal point of view, don't spray if you don't like it, thank you.

If a girl has the final say in everything in the family, it means that the girl is very strong, and this kind of love will not be happy, so the girl should make appropriate concessions.

Not necessarily! Not all marriages are women's final say, no one says whether the two live or not, and when they encounter things, they have to communicate with each other, not who covers the sky with one hand! It's better to get along for a long time!

Not why? Everyone has freedom.

No, men and women are now equal, the previous era of male superiority and inferiority of women has passed, and it is just and fair that the responsibility for the family should be borne by both men and women 50%, but then again, the family and everything is prosperous, as long as the family is harmonious and harmonious, what does it matter if a person pays a little more to the family.

Traditionally, women do 80 percent of the housework, and men can do 20 percent. But in modern society, women also have jobs, and when men and women are equal, men should share family responsibilities with women.

Of course not, I think men and women are equal, and everyone should have the same responsibility for the family.

A family is formed voluntarily by two people, without any regulations, with a specific division of labor, and two people work together to fulfill their duties for the family. So the two of them do their best to create a happy home together. From the perspective of mutual respect and love, caring for each other and the family, I am afraid that I have not fulfilled my full responsibility, go all out, work hard for this family, and make more efforts, and I cannot shirk my responsibilities when I encounter them, and the two work together to maintain this family, which is the right way.

If there is only one rule, that is, neither party can cross the bottom line, must be single-minded in love, not half-hearted, and twilight, this is the principle.

It depends on what the husband does, if he is the boss, the president, the big leader, and the wife is a housewife, then the woman's family responsibility is 80%, if the man and the woman are both small employees, then it should not be like this.

It depends on the situation of the family members, if they are all office workers, then the housework should be done in a hurry, if only the husband earns money, then what the husband said is not unreasonable.

This is not like this, some men don't do anything, some men do everything, some are half and half, and some don't like to cook, but clean up the housework, whoever has time can do it, and there is no need to go online.

What kind of wonderful argument is this?! Family responsibilities should be shared by couples. If you have to divide it according to the share, the man should bear 90%, because the man is the pillar of the family, so what kind of husband are you?!

Both husband and wife have the obligation to take on family responsibilities, which is not proportional, everyone is the same, whoever has time will pay a little more, and those who do not have time will pay a little less.

It's not like that, your husband is talking nonsense!

There is no percentage for this, it is the same as honoring the elderly, giving more points, not giving less,

It's all a family, what else do you have to share with each other, as for what your husband said, it must be wrong.

That's certainly not the case. Two people form a family together, all the big and small things in the family are discussed and solved together, only one person to manage, then the other person will be tired to death, it is not advisable to be the shopkeeper, or the husband and wife have to work together, in order to run the family well.

There should be a division of labor, not everything can be pressed on one person, as a man, you should take a little more responsibility but you shouldn't take it all.

The situation you mentioned considers that if two people live together, then they should help each other, and it is not possible to say which party is responsible, or it is better to communicate more and determine the specific situation.

Women have to go to work to earn money, have children, do all kinds of housework, be filial to their in-laws, women should be all-round robots, how can they be people! Now I have to bear the family expenses, take care of the children and the elderly in-laws, the man goes home is the uncle who doesn't do anything, the woman has to do everything after work, and be a nanny for a lifetime, just because the man paid the bride price and spent the money, the woman has to use a lifetime to pay back!

Wrong! But it also depends on the actual situation, this practice is very outdated, outdated, feudal, and hits the board. To hell with this practice, women!

This kind of bad phenomenon, bad tradition, bad style, to put it bluntly, is to eat the husband to sleep on a rotten mat, sooner or later will be exhausted to death by this kind of woman, and it is better to disperse early than late. If the wife wants to take care of the children, respect the elderly, and deal with the daily affairs of the family, the man should take on the head of the family, as long as the family needs, he must take responsibility, ask for money to give money, to give force, not money also to find a way, save, borrow, change, to solve, overtime also to do, do not care about the gains and losses, on the contrary, you live a lonely life, there is a wife and no wife, then quickly divorce.

I don't think so, but I can't help it, my fourth wife is such a woman, she said that it is natural for men to support their families. She didn't pay a penny for the family's common expenses, including property fees, utility bills, internet bills and cable TV bills. The income from the rental of one of her houses and her salary are all deposited into her personal account.

I will pay for the entertainment expenses and household maintenance expenses of both parties, such as the replacement of electrical appliances, lights, furniture, etc. In addition, he constantly asked me for red envelopes of various names, such as birthday red envelopes, Valentine's Day red envelopes, etc., and never returned red envelopes.

Of course, it is not right, home is the common home of the husband and wife, and the responsibility is the common responsibility of the husband and wife, and the expenses of the family should also be borne by the husband and wife. No matter how much the amount is in between, whether it is absolutely average or not, it should be determined according to the salary standard and economic conditions of the two, as long as they do their best, it is good. Maybe it's a little more women, maybe it's a little more men, it doesn't matter, there's no need to worry about it here, but if you think that only men are the breadwinners, and women don't need to worry about it at all, then you're very wrong.

You must know that your identity is a wife, your relationship is husband and wife, you form a family together, husband and wife are equal, and the family burden on the one hand can work more and do your best, that is.

Logically speaking, if the man can earn more money than the woman, he can indeed fully bear the expenses of supporting the family, and even if the man's income is not high, he should stand up and take on the responsibility of supporting the family. But from an emotional point of view, a real marriage is that there is no such thing as your money or my money, all money and assets are the wealth of the family, and there is no need to divide it too clearly, and it is not clear to distinguish it.

This kind of approach and thinking is wrong, according to your description, such a wife is too selfish, right? Married is a common home for the two, money and family responsibilities are two people's, men earn money to support their families is the responsibility of the next generation, women are also jointly maintained, home is a warm, happy and tolerant harbor, no matter who earns more or less, there should be no distinction between you and me! As long as it's spent on normal expenses, spending everything to live on the family, there's nothing wrong with it!

This is legal and reasonable, but it is not reasonable.

When a man and a woman form a family, they legally belong to the "economic community" – as the name suggests, after marriage, property is shared, interests are shared, and weal and sorrow are shared.

It depends on the status of the wife in the family, if she takes care of the children and the elderly at home, then she has no financial resources and will not bear any expenses of the family.

Two people form a family, and raising a family also has to be shared by two people.

No, a man is just an ordinary person, and putting the burden of the family on him will make him very tired and breathless.

The man's task is to love the woman, and the woman's task is to love the man. The other directors are all family, and your daughter-in-law should bear some of it.

Home is a happy harbor, home is a husband and wife shop run by husband and wife, there is no one who should bear more or less responsibility, maybe the husband earns more money to do housework less, maybe the wife does more housework and earns less, can you say who has more responsibilities? Isn't there a saying that half of a man's is given by a woman?