My brother came to plant some plums and eat my mother in law and didn t want to, what should I do?

This question is very interesting, your brother came and even picked plums so much. You let your husband pick it, and after picking it, let your husband give it to your brother-in-law in front of your mother-in-law, so it's okay, after all, your mother-in-law will definitely not say your husband because of such a trivial matter, and your husband will give your brother-in-law a little fruit of his own.

This kind of person can't pick some plums and eat them, you can't eat them, you can pick them and give them to your brother, and you can eat them in front of him, although this will destroy the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but this kind of stinginess, I guess the relationship between your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law should not be very good.

Be clear about what the "dots" represent.

Also, it's better to buy your own if you eat a little!

Is there a shortage of money?

Your brother comes to pick some plums to eat, and your mother-in-law is unwilling, so you can let your husband and your mother-in-law communicate well, and it is normal for your brother to eat some plums from your own family, and they are all relatives and no outsiders, so your mother-in-law is easy to accept and reduce unnecessary misunderstandings; The second is to try not to let your brother pick your plums, or you can pick the plums and send them to your brother, your mother-in-law will not be happy if she can't see it, and the other way is that you can buy some plums for your brother and send them over, which are worthless, so as not to make your mother-in-law unhappy.

Give your mother-in-law some money for your younger brother, tell your brother that you don't eat for nothing, give money to repay your mother-in-law, understand the thinking and behavior of the old man to old age, and say hello to your mother-in-law when you encounter this situation in the future, and you can resolve everything.

Your mother-in-law is also too stingy, so return the plums to your mother-in-law and tell her that you bought them for your brother at the market, and these plums are too sour.

Your brother came to you for dinner, and it was in the way of your parents-in-law? What can they do if you want to.

Eat alone with your brother, you can't snub your mother's family, don't complain to your boss, he is still right about his parents in his heart.

It seems that you don't have a good status in your husband's family, and when I went to my second sister's house for dinner, her parents-in-law were very warm to me, because my second sister was very strong at home.

Hello, they don't seem to be people who can speak. I don't know what to say!

Then don't give him a good look!

Human nature, why bother to look at the face.

Mother-in-law doesn't like you, do you live with your mother-in-law? I think I try not to live with my mother-in-law after I get married. This will avoid a lot of contradictions. After all, there are still many differences in habits between young and old people.

You live alone with your husband, not with your mother-in-law, this is the fundamental solution to the problem. Do you understand what the teacher meant?

If your mother-in-law doesn't like you, do you think it's your own problem or your mother-in-law's problem? We young people should also reflect and take the initiative to be better to our mother-in-law, maybe the result will be different.

Question: Do you still want to live with her? I don't live together, I work with my husband, and the children are brought to my mother-in-law, I can't see the children and miss the children every day, she doesn't treat me as a family member, I can see what I say and do, and I don't want my mother to know that I'm not doing well, and she has this to me when I live together, what should I do?

Question: When we eat together, my mother-in-law asks my father-in-law to give meat to my husband, but she doesn't call me, she doesn't care about me, why don't you call me?

When we eat together, my mother-in-law asks my father-in-law to give her husband meat, but she doesn't call me, she doesn't care about me, why don't you call me?

After a period of separation, the law of the country stipulates that after one year of separation, you can sue for divorce.

You and your mother-in-law live separately, so you don't usually have regular contact, out of respect for the elderly, when you see her again, have a better attitude, so it's OK, you've done a good job, don't care what she thinks of you.

The most difficult relationship in the world is the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, because you are not her daughter, and you also robbed her only son, for your happy life, don't work against your mother-in-law, you have to learn to empathize, understand your mother-in-law, respect her living habits so that your relationship will get worse and worse, and it will also make your husband in the middle of a dilemma, I think this is not what you want, and there is that you and your mother-in-law had better live separately if you have the conditions, so as to reduce the occurrence of conflicts.

There's no way, it's best to live together, it will fade after a long time, and then the relationship will ease a little, and if you get older, you will naturally treat each other as a family.

Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law conflicts have existed since ancient times, it is recommended to be open-minded, try not to conflict head-on, it is best to speak openly and honestly about the thoughts in your heart, if you can't mediate, living in public may be the best solution.

It's normal, after all, it's not two strangers who are not biological, just have less contact with each other, respect each other as guests, and don't have too many requirements and hopes for each other.

The problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has existed throughout the ages, and when encountering an unreasonable mother-in-law, the problem of an uncaring husband will be intensified. Changing oneself is obviously easier than changing other people. Care more about your husband, care about your husband's brother, buy more things for your mother-in-law, women love to receive gifts, and getting old is no exception.

Move out, or talk to your husband, it's not fun if he's fucking.

Since ancient times, the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been a thorny problem.

Whether the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can get along amicably, the son plays an important role in regulation.

So in the face of disputes between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, how should we "love the house and the house", that is to say, the mother-in-law loves the daughter-in-law because she loves her son, and the daughter-in-law loves her mother-in-law because she loves her husband.

In this way, everyone will have their place, and the relationship will be harmonious.

This is a manifestation of the elders' love for the younger generations, and I am a senior who has been fed to the stomach after a meal and often accompanies you to give you a way that does not hurt people, but also feels that you are filial! That is preemptive, only suitable for many people to eat, before this kind of elders persuade you to give you food, they must let you eat more, you have to say this sentence before them!

There is no way to communicate with such elders, at most it is the effect of a few meals, no matter how tactful you say, they will be more or less uncomfortable, so my experience can only solve such problems in this way.

You just say that your stomach is so big, you can't eat so much, you will be uncomfortable if you eat too much, you will be uncomfortable, and you will get stomach problems if you continue like this, she will never want you to get sick.

Hello, the question you asked:

My mother-in-law asked me to eat more, but I didn't want to, what should I do?

Answer: My mother-in-law asked me to eat more is kind and polite.

You can say "thank you".

Then eat a little bit, and you don't have to eat too much, just get the meaning done.

Hello. Is my mother-in-law only my husband's mother or my own grandmother?

If it is a mother-in-law in a mother-in-law relationship, then you can say, your son likes to be thin, and I dare not eat more. Then you explain carefully, although you don't eat much, but your daily nutrition can keep up.

You can say to your sister, sister, you don't want to be a mother, why don't you go and stay with your mother for a few days?

Mother-in-law, people call mother-in-law, that is, she is an elder, like a mother. If you think of her as a mother all the time, things will be much better. When you are not married, you will also have conflicts with your own mother, and you will be unhappy, but after a while, you will reconcile.

Me too, the longer the time passes, the more grievances accumulate, and it has affected me to be unable to work with peace of mind.

Think about it from another perspective, what would you do if your husband resented your mother, did you feel that they were all old, and there were some things that they didn't want to do but couldn't control them.

He is your mother-in-law, even if she is not good, she is also an elder, even if you break out, in the end someone will say that you are your fault, if you and your husband are very good, you must also think about not embarrassing him, it is best to adjust your mood, if it doesn't work, divert your attention, find more hobbies, play ball or something, not yet, move away,

I'm also annoyed to death, my mother-in-law and sister-in-law do all kinds of things to me vividly, over and over again in my mind like a movie, I hate it every day.

To be good to your mother-in-law is to be good to your husband, and to scold your mother-in-law is to scold your husband.

It's annoying, it's annoying, the resentment against my mother-in-law lingers, I can't forget it, I hate it when I don't think about it, I don't want to do this, but it's not annoying to restrain me, the resentment towards my mother-in-law lingers, I can't forget, I don't think about it, I don't want to do this, but the restraint is not annoying, the resentment towards my mother-in-law lingers, I can't forget, I can't forget it, I don't want to be like this, but the resentment against my mother-in-law lingers, I can't forget, I didn't think about it, I hated it, and I didn't want to do this, but I couldn't restrain it! What to do?

What to do? I hate it when I think about it, I don't want to do this, but I can't restrain it! What to do?

What to do? It's annoying, the resentment towards my mother-in-law lingers, I can't forget it, I don't think about it, I hate it in a panic, I don't want to do this, but I can't restrain it! What to do?

What to do? The resentment lingers, I can't forget it, I don't think about it, I hate it, I don't want to do this, but I can't restrain it! What to do?

What did she do that would you hate him so much?

I'm the same for my father-in-law!! But I'm generally hypocritical

Just say your worries, don't hide it, your sister should be able to understand.

Hey.,It's so crowded at home.。。 How can you be busy when you have a baby... Oops, my husband said that the rice was finished today...

It's okay to talk about it more.。。。 Repeating ... If she had the heart, she would go by herself.

Don't be embarrassed if you don't have a heart... Let's just say it.

Family, straight to the point! That's how my sister and I got it.

I used to be troubled in every way, but now I am paralyzed in bed, and someone persuaded me to leave.

If your mother-in-law treats you badly, I think you should do a good job of yourself, and then do what a daughter-in-law should do, don't talk so much.

When she is airy, train yourself.

Upstairs, I especially understand your feelings, I also live with my mother-in-law and suffer from moderate depression....It's so disturbing.