A love question, how will everyone choose?

First of all, I'm a girl, but if I were this boy, I'd choose the second one, and the reasons are very good: First, since it's been 8 years, I can prove something, but I feel like I've experienced it myself, and the pain I endured is what I endured, so why pinch it?

Second: There are not only love in our lives There are many important things, such as career and family, as long as two people get along and like each other, I think the experience of life is the most important. For the sake of a promise, wait 8 years, let yourself work hard, and let go of a good life, but I don't think it's worth it, you have to be worthy of yourself

Of course, it is to choose the second, the truth of love is to be happy and happy, you can only grasp your happiness, life will be beautiful, in addition to love has nothing to do with time, you can't choose her because you and the first time is long, true love has nothing to do with the length of time, some may be love at first sight, but some may be together for many years without feeling.

I chose the second one, because I like to slowly fall in love, and it is more important to be happy. And I personally think that the boy's love for the first girl has changed a long time ago, and he is more unwilling and unable to let go of the mixed feelings for her. I used to have the same problem as the boy, but I chose to marry the latter, and now I live very happily, my husband loves me very much, and I love him very much, and I have forgotten which one he used to be.

I will choose the second one Someone who doesn't love you is with you, neither of you will be happy, because he doesn't love you, so she won't be happy, and you, the wife doesn't love herself, it's very likely that you'll fall in love with someone else, will you be happy and happy? Love is not determined by time. Time does not tell everything and all people

I chose the first one for the simple reason that I like motivation, I like pursuit, and I like the feeling of struggle. Not getting it is the best, perhaps a common problem for men.

Choose the first one because the first one you love and you already have the determination to be with him for the rest of your life, and the second one is just a flash in the pan.

Sometimes time doesn't say anything, if it's me, I choose what I like, and I like mine, and then I want to be happy, otherwise it will be sad.

waited for her for 8 years, missed her day and night for 8 years, and in exchange for her feelings being diluted day by day, ...... her feelings were dilutedI choose what I like and like me at the same time, and the relationship is to have each other's ...... in each other's heartsAre you right?? Perhaps I am the ...... I am least qualified to say this sentence